You asked, what are some of the reasons not to cheat on ones mate/spouse?

Question

Other than the obvious "thy shalt not lie to the one you love", nor humiliate them, or treat them as if they meant nothing, or that there are "circumstances" and therefore excuses--now if you've fallen out-of-love it is understandable--but not really, what do you expect to get from someone else? the human heart differs only in degree and proportion, but not in content. The only other thing that differs between people are all those external things that people so often use, and with a clever twist of the tongue make them justify what is to be reviled! Now I know I'm boring, also an idiot; so any creative critisism would be greatly appreciated. But please, if the question may be answered; are there any reasons in heaven or hell not to be a happy-go-lucky adulterer

Answer 1

you mean other then not hurting the person who loves you and being a good person yourself... ??? i dont know. why would you want to be a slimy person who doesnt care about their spouse??? dont get married then, be sigle and mingle... i mean HUgh Hefner made a whole life out of this. do the same. its about respect for another person and commitment.

Answer 2

Your post is kind of confusing to me, so this may not make sense... but personally, I firmly in the uniqueness of every individual, thereby making some more suited to each other than others. I get the impression that you're trying to emphasize that "we're all the same underneath", but I'd have to disagree. I think we are [largely] who we choose to be, and it becomes a completely ingrained part of our minds and even bodies -- different individuals' neural pathways fire in different ways, and so forth. I'm not religious at all, but my worldview would be pretty dismal if I believed that people -- or animals, for that matter -- were, in the final analysis, clones of each other.

As far as adultery goes, is "hurting people is wrong" not a good enough reason? Either leave the girlfriend, have a consensually open relationship, or choose to not enter committed relationships if you're going to want to stray.

Answer 3

adult males cheat because of the fact: a million. they're bored. If there is not any exhilaration on your dating, they're going to be greater apt to hooking up with a woman who's waaay greater exciting. 2. they're merely jerks. some adult males will hook up with random ladies merely because of the fact it makes them experience greater valuable, whether they already have a female chum. it particularly is a fashion for them to experience like they're the sh-it! 3. They pass over you. As unhappy because it sounds if a guy hasn't considered you for an extremely long term, they are going to be greater possibly to cheat. i'm no longer asserting this for all relationships...if a guy extremely loves you he does no longer try this variety of element!!! yet whilst he's lonely or depressed, this could be a thank you to make him experience greater valuable. nicely...wish I helped! =)

Answer 4

If your going to tell someone you will be with them only, you should stick to your word. I don't understand why tell someone you just want to be with them when it isn't true. Cheating only causes the other person to be hurt and feel betrayed. If you can't be commited to one person the other person in the relationship has a right to know. Give them the choice to either stay with you and accept it or kick your *** to the curb.

Answer 5

Yes, you do sound like a boring idiot. Why all the pompous talk? You don't cheat on your mate/spouse because you have feelings, love, respect for them.

Answer 6

If you want to boink someone else, then divorce or break up with the person you are with. It's unfair to the person you are cheating on and unfair to the children that are involved.

Answer 7

Because people should do the right thing because it's the right thing to do. When you stand up in public and give your word (take a vow) that you will do something, you should do it.

People take promises and vows and honor too lightly in this society.

Answer 8

because if u be with somebody ur supposed to not cheat on them because ur supposed to love then and trust then