this guy i like well he is my ex and we are friends i guess. well anyway i just had major surgery to remove a tumor and he has not come to see me. if you had a friend who just had surgery would you come and see them ?? and he had not called in over a week . what is up with him ?? please help me figure him out ...
2007-10-11 17:15:08 · 12 answers · asked by JenN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Jenny, Its me again how are you? Hope you feel better. About this guy issue... Well I wouldn't actually call it a guy thing. It sounds more like a girl thing. See a lot women tend to give mixed messages. Let's look at your statement " this guy i like well he is my ex and we are friends i guess." You are not even sure if the two of you are friends. I am the kind of guy that once I break up with a woman or she breaks up with me I move on. Now if your Ex found another girlfriend or is seeing someone the new girlfriend might not be understanding enough to allow him to come see you unless he did it behind her back. Then he would not feel good inside with his new relationship. Let me tell you Jenny my brother was just recently murdered less than a year ago he broke up with a young lady that really Loved him before he passed. She did not show to his funeral why? Can you help me understand this girl thing? Your answer: Look within. Take care feel better and get well quick!
2007-10-14 01:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Digital E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you said it--- he is your EX. He is not obligated to come and see you, though it would have been a nice gesture. Yes, I agree that friends should come and visit during a time like this, but I have found that I am in the minority when it comes to thinking that friends should step up and support each other in ways such as that.
2007-10-12 00:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by Joy L 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
one problem here
EX boyfriend. dont get so worked up
i know you guys are still friends, but it's not like he's your boyfriend ya know?
it's hard being good friends after a break up, i've done it.
and it just got really confusing.
you shouldn't care that much
he's an EX for a reason.
2007-10-12 00:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by COFFEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be just worried and thinks that you dont want to see him. dont stress about it.
my sis just had her brain tumor removed. i try not to call her cause i think i bother her.
2007-10-12 00:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's nothing to do with not caring, perhaps he just can't cope with it. Some people are like that.
2007-10-12 00:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he were your real friend, he'd call u or visit u to see if ur OK!
Just give him a call and see what's up. :)
Good Luck!
2007-10-12 00:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by brittany;<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your still hung up on him.
Guys are pretty dumb, so don't take it personally that he hasn't called, but don't expect it if your not his girlfriend.
2007-10-12 00:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by Rich V 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he wants you to rest. Try calling him that or he doesn't care.
2007-10-12 00:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kitade 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
worry about yourself right now, feel better... then i advice that you wait till he calls you, DONT call him, if he cares about you at all he will eventually call you....and if he does'nt well dont waste your time with him
2007-10-12 00:19:31 · answer #9 · answered by Me! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'd make an effort, but not necessairly... everyone gets busy w life ya know...
2007-10-12 00:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by ~Hobo_Blood~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋