y is it so hard to find a girl?

Question

I had this friend who was a player cheated on like every girl he ever went out with and he said to me one day "i can basically have any girl I want cuz I treat so good" but in reality he doesn't. I consider myself to be a classic gentleman hold the door for her let her go in first pull out her chair for her. The best comment i have gotten in a long time was you have great eyes or a thankyou... Argh

Answer 1

I'm telling you man, girls are not into guys that are way too nice. Sometimes you need to play hard to get with girls. You don't need to be mean, but you need to make girls think that you can get with other girls. You don't need to go out of way to be nice to a girl, especially if she is not interested in giving any love back.

Answer 2

Just keep the way you are doing right now. You're rushing things. Girlfriends are not what you should be focus on right now, and by the content of your question I can tell you're somewhere between age 14 to 17 (if I'm incorrect then I'm sorry) but worry about girls in college. You haven't even get into one yet, why are you so busy wanting one?

I am 16 and never had a girlfriend, or more like, never had a kiss on the cheek. Oh really am I a loser? I am doing fine in life. I am social. I talk to girls, but I focus on things that are more important to me than relationships. Not to mention that relationships often cost confusion, lost of concentration, procrastination of schoolwork and other problems... Just chill, you go plenty of life left. You are probably just over half way of marriage age.

Answer 3

Interestingly enough, girls talk to each other about the boys they know.

I would say that the first step to finding the girl of your choice is to be a loyal friend to one or more of them in a non-romantic, non-pressured atmosphere.

Then ask one of your non-romantic female friends for a suggestion for some girl you could go out with. You will then appreciate that you generated such good references.

Answer 4

well tell you what one if your blind nearsighted farsighted or legally blind there are girls "women" all around you .you just have to stop and say to one hi my name is _your name here_ and i couldn't help but think wow you have great shoes or your hair is flawless or your eyes are so gorgeous you know pick something great and impactful don't comment on her sexual body parts because that will get you nowhere fast let her if she chooses to talk about herself let her cause a great listener can go far into her pants if she chooses now once this happens it will go like this for almost ten minutes she is talking then she will realize the time lapse and say wow I've been talking about me this whole time then you say don't worry about it we got time to talk about me lets talk about you then at first she says really that's sweet then she'll insist that you talk about yourself do not take as long as she did talk about one event in your life that doesn't involve your exes then do a quick summary of yourself and you job and what you hope to accomplished in the future because nothing says this is the man for me like talks of a prosperous future because at this point in her life a future with someone who takes action is allot better than someone who sits on the couch all day watching espen

Answer 5

maybe you are just looking in the wrong places. if you want to be a player and get as many girls as your friend then you basically have to be a di ck with no other reason for talking to the chick then to get the chance to tap that.. but if you actually want a relationship and not a booty call then i would suggest you dont change.. i would love it if my guy did that for me

Answer 6

I hope you will take wisdom from the over 50 person. go online and take the $5 myers briggs test and the tons of results and books and all will give you great ideas and hang in there, I was looking for someone like you, that cheater is called "instant pleasure" and in the end he will be old wrinkled and miserably lonely

Answer 7

Sone ladies want to find a BAD boy
Why is it so ?
Because thet think he is cool
You can try and act like one
but in reality be good
and many ladies will go for you
-A

Answer 8

(I consider myself to be a classic gentleman hold the door for her let her go in first pull out her chair for her.)

thats why it's hard for u to get a piece of ***, u talk like that dude from American Pie, try to be more like Stifler, next time ur with a chick grabb her ****, u never know she might like it

Answer 9

aww im sorry! i feel the same way! one of my ex bfs has had soo many gfs and has cheated on every single one.. including me. but yet, he still gets the girl. and as for me.. im still single. not fair! i hate players!

but we should talk.. IM me sometime

xcrazyobrunettex

Answer 10

because you are a the typical nice guy. just like my hubby. you just wait till all of these girls are tired of being treated badly-they will come your way.....just ask my hubby. best of luck to you! It will be worth the wait.