OK yeah I'm a freshman in college and I never made out or even kissed a girl in the lips before. Cheeks and hugs yes. So if I were to ever kiss a girl for the first time, how should I do it? I know I would approach slowly and just touch lips but I don't know what happens next. So then when does the making out part happen? How will it happen? Thanks for reading.
2007-10-11 17:54:42 · 13 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When the time is right and when you're with the right girl, you'll know. Like you wrote, approach slowly, lean over and gently kiss her lips with yours. Take it slow and give her soft, gentle kisses.... forget what you see on tv and the movies.... do what comes naturally for you. DON'T just put your lips on hers and leave it like that.... there needs to be some soft gentle movement, ok? Kiss her bottom lip only.... her top lip..... both lips..... lick a little even. Predictability is boring, so keep her guessing. AND eyes closed is soooo much better.... actually eyes opened to me is um... creepy.
Get lost in the art of kissing, learn, and enjoy. It does get better with practice, ok? Gently holding the back of her neck to draw her near, or gently touching her face..... all are nice... but don't shove her face to you... THAT is not good.
AND, don't look like you're thinking through all the steps... enjoy ok? and........RELAX, she's just as nervous as you are!!
2007-10-12 04:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st kiss, approach slowly and yes just touch lips, after that step back and that's it, not hard
2nd approach as if is going to be a just lips kiss, but nooooooo then you just start taking your time slowly introducing your tounge, opening and closing your mouth with the same motion she does
3rd Get a room!!!
2007-10-11 18:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lavender 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lucy K. basically has it down. While you're kissing her, run your hands slighly through her hair and brush her hair away from her face...it's a major turn on. Plus, girls love it when you bite lightly on her bottom lip then pull away. She'll go crazy and want you to kiss her again...at least that's how it goes for me. Good luck!
2007-10-11 18:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ginger F 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey there,
It's pretty natural. Just start moving your mouth slowly. Youtube "best kisses" or something of that nature and practice on a piece of fruit if you have to. Just be gentle. No one can resist a gentle kisser.
2007-10-11 17:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Hitch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first kiss her softly with your lips together, maybe slightly parted...
If she reponses open your mouth slightly more and kiss her again...
Continue in this way, you will feel what you have to do...
Good luck
2007-10-11 17:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u move in slowly and u and her lip mets and than just keep goin. if u want a tounge kiss than just put ur tounge in her mouth and move it around alil. hehe lol ^.^. hope i helped
2007-10-11 18:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea, do what you said you would do at first, do everything slowly, and after that you will realise you are a natural, I think almost all men are.
2007-10-11 17:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Flova 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just go with it
normally it start fairly quikly after you just regularly kiss her.
she'll probably just open up her mouth
so if she does, you do too and just go with the flow
slow and smooth.
watch for teeth.
2007-10-11 17:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by COFFEE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be confident, if you arent confident youll hesitate and that could ruin the moment.. trust me i did that lol
2007-10-11 18:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Sebastian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would tell you but i havent kissed anyone also
2007-10-12 00:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋