Family & Relationships - 8 October 2007

im 23 and live at home with parents. As soon as I have money or buy something my mother yells and screams wanting me to give half to my sister 22 and my brother 14. i don't want to bc im unemployed, don't get an allowance and they do. This makes me angry bc my mom doesn't understand that if I don't take care of myself no one will. I try not to ask my mom for any money. If i do it's about $1 - $5 at the most sparingly.

2007-10-08 04:33:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my bf and i have been together for 21/2 years we have a daughter together and sex is good its just that i dont make noise do you think that maybe he feels like he isnt doing agreat job or should i start meking noise. i dont know

2007-10-08 04:33:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my hubby have been together for way too long. We have a 6 year old and a newborn. I hate that we dont have that spark anymore. We love each other, but we just work, come home, cook dinner, take care of the kids, watch tv or movies, and go to bed on seperate sides. lol I want to know what we can do to make "us" not so boring. EVen it's a vacation for just the two of us or having some friends over. We need to do something. I am just feeling kind of blah right now.

Sometimes when he kisses me or trys to hug me i find myself pulling away and getting mad because I am trying to walk by in the middle of doing something.

2007-10-08 04:33:19 · 8 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I loose my temper without realising it. Sometimes i just get annoyed and i don't think how it makes the other person feel. Any tips for controlling temper?

2007-10-08 04:32:43 · 9 answers · asked by wildnmad 3 in Family

2007-10-08 04:31:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When u have this feeling about someone u love that they are not telling you the truth.... is most of the time you r right?

2007-10-08 04:31:46 · 8 answers · asked by spontanious 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-08 04:29:45 · 2 answers · asked by aurora546 1 in Singles & Dating

is this ok?i think that guy has a girlfriend..i have never met a guy in my life befor who are of my age.is it ok?i have not told my arents n not going to tell.i'm 14!

2007-10-08 04:29:25 · 6 answers · asked by coolgal 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend had this party and we were all drinking. My best friend (guy) and I were flirting all night. (I really like him.) We were spending the night after the party. Laying on the couch in the basement, he rolled over and kissed me. The problem is, my other bestfriend (girl) used to like him and is just getting over him. I spoke to him the next morning and he said he does like me as more than a friend, but we should take it slow. I havent talked to him about it since. I am not sure if the only reason he kissed me was because we were drunk, or he really likes me. And I also dont want to hurt my friend, if she still has feelings for him.
What should I do !?

2007-10-08 04:28:22 · 16 answers · asked by Alanah 1 in Friends

So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for sometime. It's getting to the point where it's get married or break up. Well, I want to get married. The other night, my boyfriend kind of did a fake proposal. I had left my right hand ring on the bathroom counter after I was done washing my hands. I completely forgot.

Well, he came into the living room, sat next to me, took my hand and said "Will you Marry Me?". It was in a light hearted manner, so it was not the real thing. He was testing me. However, I feel like my reaction blew the whole opening for a very important and much needed conversation.

I'd been waiting for him to bring this up for a few months now, then he finally did and I froze. I was just really tired from starting a new job and I was completely caught off guard. I know my face had some sort of express on it, b/c I froze for a few seconds. Then I said,

2007-10-08 04:26:17 · 11 answers · asked by Je Adore 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-08 04:24:53 · 23 answers · asked by MADELINE 2 1 in Friends

i have been with him for already 2 months.do not know since when our relationship become worse.during the first beginning,everything seems smooth.even when we argued,we will fast reconcile.till that day when he scolds me saying that i controlling him,making things big from small and contacting him nonstop especially when he did not respon.i feel very hurt that i giving him such awful feelings.i feels he no longer like me.today in office he asking me whether i off but actually he did ask me to apply leave,but he seems forgot about it.i feel really hurt.i feel he want to break up with me.what you guys thing?i did not sms him neither.all my friend says why i so idiot still entertain him after being humiliated.but i loves him.so i forgive him.but i do not think he will appreciates me.i still need face him in office,i feel really uneasy.i would not sms him but i think he would not.what should i do?please advice.do he still loves me??

2007-10-08 04:21:16 · 7 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-08 04:20:44 · 20 answers · asked by EasyMoney 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-08 04:20:14 · 21 answers · asked by Kim 5 in Singles & Dating

i don't know why the divorce rate is so incresing da by day.why women dont want in a relarionship?.why they will not adjust?.women are becoming so selfish they want thier life only.
they dom't want to think about thier children's futhre.i personally belive that if a child have no father he have no future. father teache's the child the character and give him good education and he teache's how to behave in the society.mother only give's love and food anly but father teache's so many things.
my farher also taeched me so many things therefore i alwys gratituted to my father, i love my father so much.

2007-10-08 04:17:25 · 19 answers · asked by p.praveen b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has a problem with constant nagging and always blaming his issues and screwups on me. Somehow it's always my fault. Now, he works at a hospital and just called me and told he'd just called my father about some money he owed him and my dad told him my grandmother, who is 96 and who lives with my dad, woke up shaking and the ER was at their house now. I didn't say anything for moment because it took my surprise. My grandmother was kind of cold while I was growing up, but in her later years she has been kinder and I have developed a closeness to her, although I don't see her often. So, anyways, he's like "What's wrong with you!?" Like i'm giving him attitude because i'm pretty speechless over what he just said. Now, mind you, things have been pretty tense the last couple days because I'm just sick of him overreacting to everything, blaming me for whatever is wrong and just being a downer. But, I felt like this was totally self-centered and insensitive for him to say that.

2007-10-08 04:16:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've known that i'm bi for over a year, and a few months ago me and this girl used to get drunk. then when we played dares the last time we got off. all this has done has convinced me that i'm bi. now i've fallen for my best mate who's a year younger than me and definately straight!! any advice as to how to deal with it. like when we're hugging and stuff all i wanna do is kiss her and never let go..... please help me... i don't wanna lose her as a friend but i don't know how long i can go on like this for..... :S

2007-10-08 04:13:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It is sick and stupid and immoral.

2007-10-08 04:12:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-08 04:12:53 · 8 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Singles & Dating

I wanna have a good day out with the missus no kids we'll get a babysitter and cant think what to do,i want to be able to have a right good crack together something we can both get involved then go out in town afterwards any suggestions would help thanks

2007-10-08 04:09:36 · 8 answers · asked by Paul R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

With your partner.

2007-10-08 04:09:31 · 6 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband adopted my daughter 2 years ago. His own parents are divorced and his Dad was super supportive of the adoption, while his mother protested it-saying he shouldn't tie up the rest of his life on someone else's kid.

Two years have gone by and how his mother has grown to love my daughter and apologized for everything she ever said. She and I are getting along much better.

Then, out of the blue, I get a phone call from his dad (who was supportive) asking me if I divorced my husband, does the adoption mean he'd be liable for child support.

I'm hurt, because stuff like that shouldn't matter. I mentioned it to my husband who talked to his dad and told him he would expect to pay child support if we ever split up (Big if) because he's her Daddy now.

I'm so hurt that his family goes back and forth on their feelings about my daughter. Short of cutting off all contact, what can I do for her and myself?

2007-10-08 04:08:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've had light-bondage fantasies ever since I became sexually mature, but for 12 years I have never acted any of them out with any of my boyfriends - I just fantasize about it in the privacy of my own bedroom.

Now I'm single, and a friend of mine suggested that I place an ad. Well, I did, and I received tons of responses! But of course I'm scared - there's the safety factor for one thing. Also, I don't think I could ever have a serious relationship with someone if we acted out my fantasies. It would have to be just sex and nothing else.

So I'm not sure what to do - play it safe and just keep torturing myself with unfulfilled fantasies? Or take a risk and see what happens? Has anyone ever been in a similar situation?

Thanks!

2007-10-08 04:07:16 · 18 answers · asked by Kiz M 2 in Singles & Dating

I need serious advice, I'm so worried. My husband and myself have been going through a bad patch in our marriage, really bad arguing and so on. We have a two and a half year old and a six month old and hes made me so paranoid about my body I'm now dieting and getting breast surgery. Last time we did anything it ended in disaster, its always the same and I feel he doesn't want to do anything anymore. For the past week I have got the kids to bed early got bathed and he falls asleep in front of me. I feel boring and horrid I know I don't do anything for him at all. I need to do something to spice things up but I don't wana do anything that makes me feel uncomfortable till I feel okay with my pre baby body which I am working with. Help please

2007-10-08 04:06:52 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Linz 2Boys Due A Girl 23/07/10♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What does it take to lose your friendship?

2007-10-08 04:03:08 · 15 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Friends

hi: my husband and i are going on a marriage retreat this weekend and i was wondering if given the chance what would u want from this experience???? I know i want him to be more of a father to our children then a playmate and to help out a little more around the house and be there for me when i have had a stressful day... but i want to know what would u want to get out of a marriage retreat and would u go on one??? thank u so much for the answers and have a good week and god bless all of you...

2007-10-08 04:01:07 · 18 answers · asked by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i would feel stupid hinting around

2007-10-08 03:59:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 2 yrs to a wonderful man in which I love very much. We both have children from our previous marriages. He has an 11 yr old daughter and I have two boys 16 and 12. He's a wonderful step-dad to my kids, very involved in their lives and he gets along with them great. On the other hand, I do not have that same type of relationship with his daughter. I feel bad because he is so good with my boys but I cannot seem to develope that same type of relationship with his daughter. She doesn't act like a "normal" 11 yr old girl. She is very negative and has alot of emotional issues. I cannot stand talking to negative people. It just drags me down and that's how I feel when I talk to her. My husband is aware of his daughter's issues and he has suggested counseling to her mom but her mom is totally against it. I've gotten to the point where I do not want to be around her when she comes over the house. I don't know how to handle this. Please Help!

2007-10-08 03:58:48 · 9 answers · asked by HOPEFUL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-08 03:58:17 · 15 answers · asked by jenanderz 2 in Weddings

I've been married for 8 years and have watched my wife interest in sex decrease rapidly. Before marriage we had sex pretty much daily now its maybe every other week.

It used to be that if we couldn't have sex for one reason or another she would give me oral (mind you I give it to her every opportunity I get). But now it has been over year and a half with out a BJ. Also keep in mind due to pregnancy complications we were unable to have sex for a year and a half, (4 years ago no sexual attention at all during the entire time) and she's never made an effort to try and make up for that lost time it was straight back to 2 times a month.

She enjoys sex when we have it but I need more and talking about it just leads to a fight so now I just try to ignore my needs (like she does). I need some advise.

2007-10-08 03:57:51 · 21 answers · asked by Beagle_Boy 2 in Marriage & Divorce