Family & Relationships - 8 October 2007

Okay here's the story.. I started talking to a friend over the phone but I never met him becuz he lives in another state. We became friends and began to really like each other. Even though we never met we agreed that we are boyfriend and girlfriend. We sent each other pics and letters for a while, but I really wanted to see him. But everytime I ask he always said he will but never showed up.Recently he decided that he wanted to be in the army. I didn't wanna talk him out of it becuz it was something he always wanted to do. But I still cldnt help the fact that he was so far away and I cldnt see him, and he cldnt see me. After a while he stopped calling for a while, the letters stopped showing up and I didn't speak to him for weeks to months at a time. So eventually I got tired of waitng and got with someone else. He is so hurt now, becuz he says I cheated, But I don't really know if its called cheatin cuz I never really went out with him. What do u think?

2007-10-08 21:22:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its are 3rd year anniversary and I dont know what to get her. She is very nice and sweet. But every time are anneversary comes she tells me not to get her any thing. But she gets me some thing all the time. What should I do? Should I get her some thing?

2007-10-08 21:20:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey all....
me and my guy have been dating for 2years now...and our relationship has gradually taken the turn towards de physical thing...i told my mother almost three times that v both r in love n that we want to get married after i graduate...n she plainly said no coz he has a social and financial status lower than mine...i tried breaking off with him so many times before...but we land up coming bak together again...i dont want to hurt my mother by being selfish...but wat do i do with my own heart??!!
anyways..now that we've got bak...we've been kissing each other, hugging each other etc..which i know is fine...but yesterday he took me to bed..nuthing happened other than him taking his top off n mine...n kissing me on my face n boobs.i'm really freaked out on this...i have this gulit in me that i did someting wrong, even though it was not sex...my parents are more important for me..what do i do...???
my guy wants to get married n he has made that clear...hopin u'll understand me..

2007-10-08 21:11:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My marraige certificate has X prakash (say my name) and X lakshmi (my wife name), x being my surname. Is it valid? or should marraige certificate should have her maiden name?

Now i am chaning her surname to my surname in passport.
My question is should the name on passport should be consistent with name on marraige certificate?

In the case of marriage certificate has maiden name, and in case of surname change both will differ..

so what is the right thing...i mean should the marraige certificate have her maiden name or my surname?

2007-10-08 21:07:41 · 7 answers · asked by mohan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does a 35 year old single mother, want with a 22 year old?

I met a new friend of my mothers the other day, becuase she is helping me paint my moms bedroom and kitchen, before she comes home from the hospital( Lung removed-cancer) We spent most of the time chillin in the living room, just talking about life and other stuff. She happens too be going though a devorse after 12 years, so I thought she just may need a friend, but she was telling me about stuff I don't need to know about. At the end of the day, on Friday she gave me her number and said " I know your mom won't smoking/drinking I could us a compaion...or somthing close to that. She even told me that she hadn't been having sex with her husband for quite awhile? Why tell me that? It just seems like she was hitting on me. I can't figure out why she gave me her #. We have very different lives.

2007-10-08 21:06:52 · 36 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what I mean is I like her but I dont want to rush things, were freinds right now and I like that, but I wannna get closer, little by little, I dont have a phone right now so I cant call her.But I wanna do it so that we one day wake up and we are like a couple, but it happens slowly, that we dont even notice how much closer were becoming. I have respect for her and Im in the tenth grade
Ive liked her every scince I first met her but I really dont want to rush into anything with her.


P.S Ive never had my first kiss before

2007-10-08 20:59:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a boyfriend who's away right now. he was still in school while im working already. when he needs something im providing him by all means.

2007-10-08 20:56:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been married for 3 years and found out early this year when my wife's close lady friend told me that my wife told her she was having an affair. I confronted my wife and she said it was all an imagination story. She has always denied she did anything though there were previous situations like when she went on a vacation for two weeks she never called me. In a way I gave our marriage a change but 8 months later I now find I don't even love anymore, I don't trust her and she has changed by living more her own life by going out more by herself with friends. Has anyone still tried to save your marriage or did it just fail anyway and its better to start my new life again.

2007-10-08 20:56:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have two kids, one in second grade, one 4 y.o. He moved out a year after he started an affair with a women who lives four blocks from me. My husband moved 3 blocks down the street.

It has been a year and I should be over this by now. It is hard because I run into them all of the time. Friends and family in the neighborhood have just taken to them like they are the couple of the century. I have tried three therapists and they all say that it is natural that I am having a hard time with this given that it is in my face all of the time. I can't move because of the terms of the custody order. Also, my daughter's school is two blocks away. If I leave this house, I can't afford anything that is less than ten miles away. That means that when I have my daughter, I will have to get her up an hour early and drive 50 minutes to get her to school.

The divorce is pending but he keeps asking for a continuance.

Anybody have a similar situation? How did you handle it? What helped?

2007-10-08 20:55:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please help me to move on..im a battered wife emotionaly abvious,i feel so down i left nothing to my self,i used to understand him everytime he make mistakes even in his betrayal i forgive him but i cant be with him anymore i feel so empty...all i want is to move on with my past relationship,but one thing that always remind him is our 1 child every time i saw her i remember him.how can i move on incase?please help me!thanks to all!

2007-10-08 20:54:30 · 13 answers · asked by Casey25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have already mentioned the size of my penis, but i am not circumsised. I still have my skin intact. I was wondering whether a girl would laugh at me because of this?

2007-10-08 20:51:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 15, 16 next year and i know im young, but why is it so hard? I live in the western suburbs where all the guys are either emo/ or muzza. Why isnt there anyone like in the movies/ america. The nice looking boys with the natural brown hair thats kinda longish 4 a boy like logan lermans hair & jared padalecki?

WHYYY

2007-10-08 20:37:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My x-girl friend is pregnant and she found out just around the time we broke up and she told me that she was seeing some one elts at the time some times we wore protection but not always I never cummed in her tho . I always jerked it out she says it's the other guys could the baby be mine?

2007-10-08 20:35:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

idk why?
she just said she dont like it
why is that
i never knew a girl that doesnt like that

2007-10-08 20:33:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-08 20:30:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a BIG problem. I am seriously in love with the guy. I think he is perfect and i compare him to everyone. And i hate it. I think its going to ruin my any chance of getting a boyfriend.
I think about reality and how i will never get someone like him, because not only would it be impossible, but i would think 'Hes trying to be like him' i don't want anyone LIKE jensen. Because there is only one jensen.

PLEASE HELP!

2007-10-08 20:28:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why or why not?

2007-10-08 20:26:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

OK.. so say there's this guy.. right and hypothetically say that somehow viable spermatazoe of mine got on his penis and then he had sex.. (a threesome you don't have to use you rimagination for this hypothetical) .. and the dear lady is now pregnant with twins but she said one is mine and the other is his... and if I didn't even do it with her.. should I have to pay maintenance or not?

I mean, I shouldn't have to pay the maintenance should I?

Or do you think she is just trying to have a joke wit me? IS it even possible.. hypothetical of course... this is. (Just pretend I'm writing a short story - a thriller). :)

2007-10-08 20:24:16 · 21 answers · asked by Icy Gazpacho 6 in Singles & Dating

its one of the most expensive cost to endure, divorce. since i have been through it, its better to leave (especially when the love is lost). i would marry again; i do believe in marriage though.

all answers are welcome

2007-10-08 20:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by just hanging around 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He tries to find fault with me, his mother my parents in useless discussions. We were away to Canada for a year and the change in his behaviour started after we had spent about 3 months there. He could not make friends there in school nor in the neighbourhood. His mother was also not happy living there. So, we decided to come back to India. How do I address this problem pl? Valuable suggestions welcome. - Vikram

2007-10-08 20:19:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was wondering if when ur about to have or have an orgasm does it feel like it hurts or feels good like you dont kno the differ. Like an example maybe reallly hot water...its so hot u dont know if its hot or cold. it was done in the bath and needed to stop bc couldnt handle it felt like woa but maybe it was painful?

2007-10-08 20:17:15 · 9 answers · asked by coookiesssss 1 in Friends

once he meets the right girl?

2007-10-08 20:16:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’m the ugliest girl in this whole planet.
I didn't choose how I look I really want to cry

1: graduated from the best Uni
2: working in the best Company in Colorado.
3: has the best fashion car that is in the market.
4: high income
5: my cheapest watch was 9 thousand dollars.

I know all what am doing is wrong but I want to have attention just like any person like in this life. I want to love and be loved.

why should I live alone and sticking with my mother forever.

I build my future because I think it will the people respect me for who I am. But I don’t think it helps. It also hurt to see an average pretty girl having a bf even she didn't has any career.

2007-10-08 20:16:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-08 20:14:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what can i do to get the man that i love to know i am alive? he looks right past me most of the time....so is this the way its going to be? what can i do?

2007-10-08 20:08:25 · 9 answers · asked by tabbytabby847 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i met this guy we hit it off.. but he a hardworker always working.. well we finally met..he calls me and everything cool..i ask him out a week ago he told me he was working all weekend..should i give up.. or how can i turn the table and let him ask me? help me !!

2007-10-08 20:07:26 · 11 answers · asked by not so innocent!! 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend often does our laundry, but I do mine as well from time-to-time. I offered to return the favor and do her laundry with mine, but she refused. I offered again about a week later. Same response, even though I knew she had a hamper-full of dirty laundry.

I finally asked her why, and after some hesitating and avoiding the question, she told me that she doesn't want me to see her "stains" on her clothes because she'd be embarrassed. That was confusing. I'm assuming discharge stains and the like.

I don't get it -- what's the big deal. Ladies, are most of you like this? Would you refuse to let him do your laundry?

2007-10-08 20:03:44 · 19 answers · asked by Warren Peace 1 in Singles & Dating

ive got nothing...beside my ability to sing

2007-10-08 20:03:11 · 4 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

1 is my friend, 1 is my best friend.They HATE each other. They have good reason not 2 like each other.They dont get along and talk about each other bad all the time. It got way out of hand. I didnt want invloved, i like both of them and just wished it would stop. But it didnt. They have almost fought several times. And they say really hurtful and horrible things to each other. I dont want to put in details but the situation got really ugly. It got to the point that rachel said if i was going to continue to be friends with tiffany she couldnt be friends with me because she believes that u should stand up for ur best friend and if someone hurts them and is horrible to them u shouldnt be ok with it, and u certainly shouldnt be friends with them. I want so bad to be rachels friend and she really is my best friend but i dont believe u should have to hate someone just because ur friend hates them. I like tiffany, and i do want to still be friends with her, but i cant loose rachel.Wat do i do

2007-10-08 20:03:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Mine just turned 37. I am about to turn 18. I feel special.

How about you?

2007-10-08 19:51:26 · 20 answers · asked by randomdude 3 in Family