How do I move in slowly to be lovers and friends with the girl I like?

Question

what I mean is I like her but I dont want to rush things, were freinds right now and I like that, but I wannna get closer, little by little, I dont have a phone right now so I cant call her.But I wanna do it so that we one day wake up and we are like a couple, but it happens slowly, that we dont even notice how much closer were becoming. I have respect for her and Im in the tenth grade
Ive liked her every scince I first met her but I really dont want to rush into anything with her.


P.S Ive never had my first kiss before

Answer 1

Use the force, young jedi. Don't let your dark side take over you.

Answer 2

Don't rush anything! Do nothing physical but continue to be a good friend. If she reciprocates your feelings, at some point she will think that you're shy and may start brushing your hand and will eventually give you a quick kiss goodnight. Things can progress from there.

If she does not reciprocate your feelings, you've still got a friend.

If you're both shy and reticent. there's nothing wrong with letting the friendship ripen over an extended period of time and eventually the time will come to take things further with no risk ( of rejection ) for either of you.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Be a good friend to her, listen to things she says, be her shoulder to cry on. Ask her to a movie, or out to do something inpublic. No aloneness for awhile. Touch her hand when you hand her something. Put a hand on her shoulder while talking, but just for a moment. Touch is very important. Remember that women are 90%emotional, so try to stay in touch with that.
MOSTLY be good friends..... then when you become more it will be even better.

Answer 4

Back off or just tell her whats up. Its lame to do the secret lover crush thing. Be cool, be honest, and be confident. Thats your answer.

Answer 5

first thing you have to do is open a dialogue with her. This will build trust with her.

then you have to be a genuine friend, which means you have to let her be herself and not judge her, and only wish her the most happiness for her anytime you can , as well.

then you have to share the same values that she does. she craves honesty and caring and respect as well as appreciation and a sense of humor, and unconditional love., just to mention a few .

they want to have someone to look up to each and everyday too. women need that because it helps them with their own self esteem and self confidence and self worth, when you show that you are yourself , always.