I'm 15, 16 next year and i know im young, but why is it so hard? I live in the western suburbs where all the guys are either emo/ or muzza. Why isnt there anyone like in the movies/ america. The nice looking boys with the natural brown hair thats kinda longish 4 a boy like logan lermans hair & jared padalecki?
WHYYY
2007-10-08 20:37:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOTICE I SAID 'NICE' ATTRACTIVE GUY??
2007-10-08 20:59:49 · update #1
No offense, but at your age, I don't think you need to worry about finding a boy. Besides, a lot of boys your age, still need to grow up. So why not enjoy your youth and wait for the boys to grow into mature men?
Sorry if that isn't the answer you wanted to hear. I do think it is possible to find a nice guy who is attractive. Some of them may just be quieter. Try paying a little more attention to the quiet ones, maybe there is an attractive nice one, you've overlooked? But don't worry if there isn't, your chances of finding one should improve as the boys around you grow up. :)
2007-10-08 20:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by KB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if a young good looking 16-or 17-year-old male is perfect for everyone, they can have a quick relationship at the drop of a hat and most likely don't want to give it all up just for you. They have to grow up enough to realize that one good woman is better than a bad one every night.
You should be patient, and you won't be called shallow if it works. Besides, YOU will probably grow a lot and may have a change in preferences when you discover more of the world. I did.
2007-10-08 20:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When using the word 'muzza' I am assuming you live in Australia? lmao.
Generally if you find a guy who is nice, down-to-earth, and easy to get a long with, and their is nothing wrong with a good sense of humour... I would find him attractive.
You're only fifteen. Hold on to you're horses, mate. Woah up tiger! You've got your whole life ahead of you - and let those boys come to you.
See ya on the north side of Australia.
2007-10-08 20:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by Raquel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're sixteen. Hopefully with age you'll learn that looks aren't everything. I'm only saying this because I'm not the most attractive guy on the planet, but i have a lot to offer in a relationship. And no one looks like in the movies, because movies are sooo far from reality.
2007-10-08 20:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by sanelunatik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the phrase "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"...what you find UNattractive may be attractive to someone else. Perhaps that's why there's another cliche "all the good ones are taken!"
You are young and have lots of time to find the "attractive" one! Till then, you have the movies!
2007-10-08 20:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by TeeK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to go outside your circle of the usual places where you look and live to find a nice guy.
first off, good looking nice guys don't go to bars or hang out on the street either. they don't do drugs and they don't roam the streets at night either.
secondly, they are usually where you least expect them and that means you have to find an interest and pursue it. chances are they will be right there waiting for you to come into their life too, when you do that.
2007-10-08 20:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
haha poor girl.
You've obviously never lived in the south. If you want even better versions of those Hollywood pansies, you're going to have to look south of the Mason Dixon and east of El Paso.
Good luck.
2007-10-08 20:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by thewon4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not going for looks, most good looking guys think they are better than everyone else and are VERY shallow, try lowering your standard just a little. Odd as it sounds, emo boys are normally very sweet, give one of them a shot, you may like being with a sweet guy who gives you all kinds of attention.
2007-10-08 20:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria Sparda 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because life isn't a movie.
Call me old(23) but whats a muzza?
2007-10-08 20:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that people become more attractive when you care about them. I'd say look for a good person first, and the attraction will grow.
2007-10-08 20:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋