Family & Relationships - 8 October 2007

Clean the inside of your fridge? I search high and low for that guy, LOL!!

2007-10-08 13:37:05 · 7 answers · asked by Holiday Magic 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

All the places we have been to want personal check or cashiers check for the reception and final payment due two weeks before our wedding day. Even if they made payments, they still can't pay that much cash for the wedding. What are some things that parents do to pay for the wedding?

My fiance's parents will pay for the rehearsal dinner and really that is what they can afford.

We will pay for the dress, accessories, and photography, etc.

Mom wants to take out cash advance but, I think the interest is high, someone else said her parents borrowed against their 401k...I just want a reasonable answer for them. Please help.

2007-10-08 13:31:40 · 15 answers · asked by kay r 1 in Weddings

I've been living with my partner now for 5months and some how i still feel like a single woman.
Everyday he comes home from work all he wants to do is eat then straight to bed, he even does that on the weekends to so we never really communicate and have conversations unless we are arguing which i'm getting fed up with cause we argue everyday.
We was happy together before i moved in but since i've been living with him (which he wanted me to) this started to happen, I've tryed telling him my feelings but he makes it out like it's my fault and if i leave him i will never be happy with another man and i would want him back.

I love him but this has been going on for to long with the arguing and feeling lonely and sometimes i feel like leaving but im not sure what to do.

Pls any advice on what to do or should i move on?

2007-10-08 13:28:25 · 37 answers · asked by Pink_lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-08 13:22:17 · 36 answers · asked by Jena 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not married of course whats the secret?, I just want advice,thanks for answering

2007-10-08 13:13:57 · 22 answers · asked by Nando 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-08 13:11:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was on my AIM buddy list when I looked at my friends Away Message, it said "Too sad to talk. R.I.P Bailey". Bailey is my friends dog. What you must understand is she loved this dog so much. How can I help her? I need to say something, but how? What do I do? Please help! No rude answers please, I am trying to help my friend.

2007-10-08 13:09:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I posted an ad online and a few guys sent me messages. I responded and they gave me thier telephone numbers. I called both of them yesterday and left a message. How long should I wait on a returned call before I give up on them and assume they are not interested?

2007-10-08 13:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by candiceo1o7 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 14 and i'm a girl

2007-10-08 13:06:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So there's a bunch of "steps" I guess to asking a girl out right?
I mean, first, you have to meet her, maybe talk to her etc. Then eventually, you gather enough courage to ask her out, and things go on from there. So for me, there's this girl, I've seen her a couple of times, not many, because we go to different schools, but we IM a lot, and we share lots of the same interests. I was considering asking her out, but I feel like I'm being too hasty, and that I should get to know her better first, but I also don't want to run into the friend zone, what do you think I should do? I am pretty sure she is interested in me, and I really really like her, and I don't really want to screw it up.

2007-10-08 13:02:52 · 20 answers · asked by ayo 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my boyfriend and i just stated to go out and before he was all like sweet and stuff to me like he would be like i miss u and i love u and stuff, but now that we go out he doesnt do that stuff as much as he use to.
Iam I doing something wrong?
Does he not wanna be with me?

2007-10-08 12:55:37 · 21 answers · asked by Blackberry. 1 in Singles & Dating

A few days ago my best friend and I got into it,he had jammed my finger by accident.And I took each anger out on him,and now my boyfriend won't want to talk to him because he doesn't want to say sorry.I miss him and the way we used to always go over his place to chill with him and his two roommates who I grew closely to.I don't want us to hate each other,because my boyfriend and him knew each other since pre-k.I feel as if I tore something apart,but my friend once told me nothing could tear them apart,because he's known my boyfriend too long than anyone else.And the things I said I feel so awful for.So any advice on what to do?

2007-10-08 12:54:22 · 1 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Friends

Im not sure what to do, but I am now realizing that the person who has been calling me a best friend has been treating me like nothing more than just an assett. I am just someone to use, and when I have no use for her, she abandons me. Even while she is using me she treats me bad. The problem is, I see her in college, and she is in many of my classes. Im tired of being used by her, but I dont think I should just end the friendship. WHat should I do? Advice? Please!

2007-10-08 12:53:52 · 1 answers · asked by . 5 in Friends

I was not surprised to read that people spend more time with their computers over their spouses or significant others.
Do you think this "overbusyness" is healthy or do you simply attribute it to societal and economic expectations for this web based generation.

2007-10-08 12:53:21 · 12 answers · asked by QuiteNewHere 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a girl friend in germany we commicate every night she will be here soon how should i show her a good time? i live in las vegas

2007-10-08 12:51:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you seen any? She has such a unique appearence, and usually you can spot someone that looks like a celebrityor someone famous, but I have never seen anyone like her. Have you?

2007-10-08 12:46:57 · 1 answers · asked by skoda_pop 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for seven years, she was 21 and I was 27. We also have a 4 year old child. today she tells me she's not sure she wants to stay married any longer. Her reason is that, we don't have any passion left. She say's she loves me, but she is curious about other men, and living on her own. She did tell me she has been talking to a man for a week. What can I do?

2007-10-08 12:46:18 · 31 answers · asked by Doug S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I'm 16 years old, on the varsity soccer team and have the life that a lot of kids in my school want to have. I have a lot of friends but I still feel pretty empty. I've moved 5 times in the past 3 years, and all of my real friends are down where I spent the first 14 years of my life. I moved back once, but didn't stay for more then a year. No one where I live now really understands what I'm going through, so I have no one to tlak to about it and no one to help me through this. If there's anyone out there who's willing to get to know a stranger, or is willing to listen, send me an email and we can talk.

deanna.delbiondo@hotmail.com

2007-10-08 12:46:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-08 12:45:46 · 3 answers · asked by sand 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-08 12:43:16 · 23 answers · asked by SAM K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl. She is currently going out with someone else, and they seem to like each other a lot. I would guess that unless something goes terribly wrong, they will go out for at leeast another 2 months.
I like the girl, and when someone asked what she thought of me, she said "He's wicked awesome!!! and really funny!".
So, I think I have a decent/big chance of getting her once they break up. So, I'm wondering, without doing something rash or stupid, is there a way I can either...
A) Get her to like me enough to forget about the other guy
B) Get them to break up
Sorry, sounds evil, but I don't feel like waiting 2 months.

Also, when I got my friend to ask what she thought of me, she said this "He's wicked awesome! and really funny! So is [name of boyfriend], but he's not in band"

Could this mean she is comparing me to her boyfriend in a possitive way?

2007-10-08 12:40:30 · 8 answers · asked by George F 1 in Singles & Dating

We were bffs 4 10 yrs.:she's alwys been selfsh,sumtimes being the only ride sumwhere,canclling & make us all miss out, but no1 said nething to her bcuz she'd overemotionalize & bsically make it all about her, & 1ce I told her taht sumtimes she acts like a drama queen and then she called me the nxt day and started crying about how it hurt her feelings and how I was acting bitchy and all this,so I didnt want us to lose our frndship and just said sorry becuase it was sooo stupid. Thats how it always is, I always have to say sorry to make the whole situation die down. Well, 3 mo.s ago, senior yr, I needed a crucial emrgncy pickup or i wouldnt graduate, & wen I askd her she said , ".i dunno." I got REALLY mad cuz of course she only thinks of HRSELF ! I got sick of it. I got to skl and didnt talk to her.havnt talked snce, she ddnt call me for my bday.Ihave low slfestem,she turns away, and acts bitchy.A frnd told her I wantd 2 talk if shedid. noanswer.but istill love/miss her.Worth it? Help!

2007-10-08 12:39:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year, hes the perfect guy, nice, caring, smart, but not too smart, my parents love him, sporty, but not a jock, laid back, but cares about important stuff, anyways.. romantic, but not sappy, very faithful, sees pretty much everything with me eye to eye. i just dont feel like hes special anymore, like theres anything there. we've talked about marriage and i dont wanna break up with him because that would make me a liar, and i would feel terrible because of my consience i dont wanna break up with him unless he doesnt wanna be with me, but he loves me unconditionally and its great! he would make a great husband and father. im just losing what was there before, should i dump him, move on, find someone with a little more "fire" or stay with him because guys like him make happy families or just see what happens.

2007-10-08 12:37:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because this guy asked me out and he looked high cause his eyes were red.

2007-10-08 12:36:06 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I can't ever do it. I wish I could just leave my husband. I am 34 weeks pregnant and have a 3 year old. My husband is so nice to our son, but treats my like crap in front of him, for example my son will say "moms crying, moms sad". And my husband will say "Your mom is crazy, she's psycho". Which just makes me cry more. And I can't ever turn to my son and say I'm crying because of your dad. Or your dad is so mean to me. I can't he will yell at me and say why are you crying in front of your son. You are sick, demented, insane. Look what you are doing to him.
Its like the more he yells at me, the harder it is for me to leave him. I cry all the time, and he has no feelings. He can't ever say Sorry, just calls me more names. I feel like if I leave I'm the bad guy, I'm walking out on are marriage.
And the other thing is I'm a Stay at home mom, and I can't work being 34 weeks pregnant. And so if I leave him, where am I going to go. I have no famliy and no money.

2007-10-08 12:35:35 · 10 answers · asked by ml 2 in Family

I posted this earlier:
I just moved in with my boyfriend about two months ago. The first month we were having sex almost everyday but now he only wants to do it once a week. I, on the other hand, would like to do it at least every other day. I'm I wrong? Is that too much? Or is he wrong for not wanting to compromise on this issue?

I also should mention that I asked him yesterday if he has materbated since I moved in. He said yes, plenty of times! Now I'm just confused!

2007-10-08 12:34:36 · 1 answers · asked by Lady Y 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm kinda shy and i really want to flirt with this guy. can u give me some tips??

2007-10-08 12:18:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i'm falling in love with my boyfriend blaine and well he has a problem he's always an *** to me in front of his friends he treats me like trash when his friends are around i've tried everything i've tried treating him like crap in front of my friends and i've even told him if u don't straighten up ur attitude ur going to loose me but he don't believe i don't want to break up with him b/c i'm falling in love with him and he is too we have been going out for 3 months and i don't want to end it

2007-10-08 12:11:51 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 24 and my Husband is 9 years older than I am. We met online and have been married for a little over 2 years. I love sex and could do it at least once daily- he cares nothing about it and if I try to bring it up to talk to him, he turns it around on me and says that is all that I ever think about. He says that his age has alot to do with it- not being able to stay hard--etc.
I know guys his age and people that are older that didn't have that problem.
Before we got married we had sex all the time and I know things change once you do get married, but that much? I just don't know what to do.... Is this normal? how can I make him want me (I have tried MANY things!)

I am very open and am willing to do pretty much anything! any answers are appreciated! Thanks!~

2007-10-08 12:10:00 · 21 answers · asked by Nessa131 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime i go away for school the girl who is suppose to be the love of my life tends to lose feelings for me?

She flirts with other guys while im away and she knows that i have a problem with that?

The guy she was flirting with while i was away i cursed her out about it she made an irrational desicion now she dates him when i came back home she told me it was a mistake and she doesn't know how to break up with him?


Everything was cool for about a couple of weeks she started acting fishy so i cursed her out about it again now she's pushing me away and tells me because i called her the h word she began to have feelings for him and she doesn't love me anymore what should i do stand for love or move on?

2007-10-08 12:08:34 · 21 answers · asked by D-BLOC 1 in Singles & Dating