What do you do, if a so called best friend treats you more like an assett?

Question

Im not sure what to do, but I am now realizing that the person who has been calling me a best friend has been treating me like nothing more than just an assett. I am just someone to use, and when I have no use for her, she abandons me. Even while she is using me she treats me bad. The problem is, I see her in college, and she is in many of my classes. Im tired of being used by her, but I dont think I should just end the friendship. WHat should I do? Advice? Please!

Answer 1

Talk to her honestly about the way you feel for one. Then TWO change what you consider a best friend that way selfish people like this never get that power in your life again. A more realistic thing to do is SLOWLY work her out of your life. If theres stuff she needs from you, make it harder for her to get it. Don't be moody, just matter of fact, and let her move away from you to "greener" pastures for herself. Maybe even pretend you care a little, but just let the relationship move apart the best you can. Chances are, if she can't get you to do those things she needs you to do, she'll lose interest and move on.... this way thou since you have class with her, she can't just confront you on that, she'll be forced to play the game the same, be tackful, and she'll be out of your life eventually...