Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year, hes the perfect guy, nice, caring, smart, but not too smart, my parents love him, sporty, but not a jock, laid back, but cares about important stuff, anyways.. romantic, but not sappy, very faithful, sees pretty much everything with me eye to eye. i just dont feel like hes special anymore, like theres anything there. we've talked about marriage and i dont wanna break up with him because that would make me a liar, and i would feel terrible because of my consience i dont wanna break up with him unless he doesnt wanna be with me, but he loves me unconditionally and its great! he would make a great husband and father. im just losing what was there before, should i dump him, move on, find someone with a little more "fire" or stay with him because guys like him make happy families or just see what happens.
2007-10-08 12:37:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No your getting comfrontable enough with him to confront the BIGGEST issue of all, namly the purpose of the relationship. Because this is oviously something you've neglected to do on your own, your at a lost of what feeling to put in its place. So you don't know how to associate him into this new aspect of yourself you havn't got to yet, namly what is your purpose with your life? If it was to fall in love, your done! Die happy! If not, well you need to figure out what it is and see if its going to fit into this relaitonship that you have....
2007-10-09 10:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋