i'm kinda shy and i really want to flirt with this guy. can u give me some tips??
2007-10-08 12:18:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, don't do it. You don't know what you're doing and it'll come off as cheap and weird. You'll be the laughing stock around all your friends and the guy you're thinking of trying to flirt with. Just be a clean cut nice girl and let the guy know that you like him and that you're available. If he's not interested, so be it. Just don't try to do tricks to get guys to like you. It'll back fire on you BIG TIME!!!
2007-10-08 12:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
So, you're shy and you wish to learn how to flirt, hm?
I would be more than happy to teach you various techniques and then practice them with you to help you open up.
See? It's all about *what* you say, *how* you say it, and--above all--make sure that what you say can be taken two ways. It's called "double entendre", and is the essence of flirting--saying one thing while you could mean something else.
2007-10-08 19:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if he looks at you, try to smile at him, and if he talks to you some times then you have the open chance to figure out if he likes you due to the way he talk and what you guyz talk about. anyway, some guyz are shy too. like myself, im really a shy guy and my advice might not work to you coz i may be different. so just wait and see whats gonna happen. he may asky you out or not.
things dont always go the way we plan and sometimes if you feel much about someone who might not care about even dont know your feelings then you get sick. lots of things sucks in this world. make your plan and approach and that might help, actually im not a professional or that experienced in relashions, im just someone sick of that kind of thing too. good luck honey....
2007-10-08 19:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start with the basics get to know what his interests are ask him how his weekend was and how work or school was.Men are like puppies give themm plenty of attention and he will e eating out of your hand I would say in a week or two depending how persistant you are.Goodluck...
2007-10-08 19:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by do4107 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um...I'm not sure how I can help but I'll try. Smile a lot to him. Look into his eyes. Pick on him occasionally. Laugh. Talk to him whenever you see him but don't be weird or stalk-ish. Find common interests with him. That's a few things. I hope that helps! :-)
2007-10-08 19:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by suzyqnelly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've noticed that guys react really well when I act like a third grader. Tee hee!
2007-10-08 19:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by Julia V 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
winking at him as you walk by... make eye contact and smile at him ... poke him gently on his side ...
2007-10-08 19:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋