Family & Relationships - 8 October 2007

Ok, first of all, me and my husband are very old fashioned and he is head of the house, so I don't wanna hear any feminist crap or yelling abuse at me cause of how we live.
So the yesterday while my hubby was at work my girlfriend and I decided to take his '66 Mustang out for a drive, which is a HUGE no no. Let's just say while backing it up I barely scratched it on the mailbox. You can't hardly see it. Here's my delima. My husband is a spanker. And he spanks hard too. Should I tell him the truth now and settle for a pretty harsh spanking but probably just with his hand or my hairbrush? OR, lie and hope he doesn't find out...BUT...if he does my punishment will be three times as hard and he's more than likely gonna use his belt on my bare butt! I HATE the belt. If any of you other wives ever gotten the belt, you know what I mean. My girlfriend said that I should just tell him now and get my spanking over with cause she's been spanked with a belt from her husband and knows how much it hurts. So ladies, and gentlemen, what should I do?!?!

2007-10-08 09:07:55 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I see shows and know of men who call a baby awful names, I guess to punish the babies mother, but if she changes her cheating ways, and you still love her, why would a man not accept the baby as his? I mean what difference does it make, it will become a loving person, if treated lovingly, right? What difference does it make if the babe came from your blood, or not?

Yes, I know men probably cheat on women more than men, but that isn't the question. Thanks, folks!

2007-10-08 09:07:28 · 14 answers · asked by xenypoo 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-08 09:07:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and telling her he doesn't want to go. What can I do to make this transition easier and things easier on my ex-wife?

2007-10-08 09:02:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are divorcing, and he's not being cooperative about the house. The mortgage is in my name, as his credit is very poor, bu tthe house is in both of our names. I volunteered to take over the mortgage payments and our remaining balance from when we put work into the house (15k) in return for him moving out. We've lived there under 2 years, and with the poor housing market we won't get close to what it's worth. Since the mortgage is in my name do I have al legal right to ask him to leave?

2007-10-08 09:01:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I ama married woman I have 2 beatiful kis and I work nights 5 pm til 2:30 am. Well my husband works during the day because daycare is just too much I work nights. My daughter is the only one home because my son is in school full time. Anyways, heres my dilema. I am with the kids all day and I work 5 nights a week and I do all the cooking cleaning appointments.Anything thatgets done around the house. Well my husband goes out the 2 nights a week that I am home and I am stuck with the kids. He wont let anyone watch the kids for distrust. Which I understand a friend of our loss a child last year. Iam so misrable because all I do is work and take care of the kids I neverget time to go out alone, with him ,or with friends and this has been going o for almost 3 yearsnow and I am at my wits end. I feel as if I am a single mother because I have the life of one. He's never here! My ? is do u think this is right? What should I do? Leave? Help Please :(

2007-10-08 09:01:08 · 45 answers · asked by littlemama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 6 months pregnant, i am due at the end of january.....my wedding is may 30th, 08.....i am 5foot, size 0 jeans, 32dd bust size pre pregnancy.....

i dont know if i should find a dress now....and just guess on my size and what the dress will look like or wait till feburary to find a dress.....i know the dress will have to be made shorter for me....is febuary cutting it to close to the wedding? also, today when i looked at dresses the person at davids bridal told me ballroom gowns look bad on short people....do you beleive that is true?

2007-10-08 08:58:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We aren't on talking terms. She's really made at me, but I still love her and want her to know I remembered her on her birthday. I want to give her something that will fit in the card I'm sending.

2007-10-08 08:56:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-08 08:54:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are 25 have 2 kids one just born, he went out with him and the single guys girl buddy at work, they ended up going on a back road up a mountain about 45 miles he pulled over to smoke, and truck almost fell off side of cliff. they walked 5 miles to get a ride home he tried to call me but phone died so I was mad cause I heard the girl giggling in the background, and then the phone died, so I was up all night and all day w/ no sleep. so I ended up taking the kids with me to my moms and styed there and he came over in his brothers car to get us all drunk, and rude and said it was my fault because I left and didn't wait for another call back from him. so I'm supposed to feel sorry for the drunk driver and it's my fault???

2007-10-08 08:53:35 · 1 answers · asked by rhilex1982 2 in Singles & Dating

he says she listens to him and she says she will make a better wife than me

2007-10-08 08:49:37 · 21 answers · asked by holla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am going to buy a home but am not divorced yet? is it possibile to have wife sign something legally stating she will not go after home in divorce proceedings?

2007-10-08 08:41:00 · 21 answers · asked by raistlin7262000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-08 08:33:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay i'm going on a runaway scheme with my friend and we r leaving on thursday and coming back on monday.
any ideas on what to do and I'm not being talked out of this!
Me and my friend are doing this to get respect from our parents bacause we are underappreciated.

2007-10-08 08:33:29 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was stood up today. I waited for one hour in town. His phone was turned off. He's been acting weird since yesterday, hardly keeping in touch. This was supposed to be our second date. He asked me out 2 days ago, he wanted to have dinner and go to the movies. I don't understand what's up with him. I'm at home now, his phone is still turned off. I really liked him, and I thought he liked me too.

I don't know what to do. I feel like not contacting him anymore. But I kind of want to tell him that he was mean to me. What should I do?

2007-10-08 08:30:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do they/you feel respected? Any sex? Long disputes?

2007-10-08 08:29:47 · 2 answers · asked by Willster 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for five years now, but I am not in love with my wife. To be honest, I'm not sure that I ever was in love with her. I do care about her as a person, and I do love her like a friend.
I know I never should have married her in the first place, but I did. To make matters more complicated, we have a daughter together. I adore my daughter, and I am a devoted father. I am sickened at the thought of a divorce and the pain this would cause her.
On the other hand, I would like my daughter to see a loving relationship. I do believe my wife deserves a partner who loves her, and I do believe I deserve someone to love.
I want what is best for my daughter, and I am not sure what to do. I have been able to tolerate my current relationship because my daughter is a part of it. She is only four years old, and I want her to be happy. Should I stay in my relationship for my daughter, or will this only make things worse for everyone? Please help. Thanks.

2007-10-08 08:25:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm looking for some good "opinion" openers during the day that can transition into a topic or story that can create some attraction. What can I open with besides relationships?
What opener would you use that'll get the girl to let her guards down just a little bit?

2007-10-08 08:23:38 · 3 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

what I mean is I like her but I dont want to rush things, were freinds right now and I like that, but I wannna get closer, little by little, I dont have a phone right now so I cant call her.But I wanna do it so that we one day wake up and we are like a couple, but it happens slowly, that we dont even notice how much closer were becoming. I have respect for her and Im in the tenth grade
Ive liked her every scince I first met her but I really dont want to rush into anything with her. I apreciate any answers

2007-10-08 08:20:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was just wondering because I've seen all types of interracial couples but never a latino or latina with an Asian. what do you guys think about this type of dating. I being latina find asian men attractive, so just wondering if its just me.

2007-10-08 08:19:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So heres the thing my now husband and I started dating in May of last year when his ex girlfriend decided to pop up a month later and claim she was pregnant and it was his. He proposed to me in October we wed in March while the whole time planning a wedding we were coping with the possiblity that he may have a child. She had the baby in January, 3 months before we got married so my husband being the responsible man that he is told her in the beginning that he would pay for things if she would get a paternity test done. She didnt agree and so this has gone through the courts. A court ordered paternity test was done about 2 months ago now mind you the baby is now 9 months old, her mother is a complete psycho and would love nothing more than to make my husband miserable. Well she has drug her feet on everything, calling and making excuses about why the test results havent come yet we finally received them on October 4th. The baby is his. How do I deal with her feelings towards me?

2007-10-08 08:19:16 · 24 answers · asked by One Confused Chick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my Sister-In -law were having a debate. She thought that the In-Laws in our family should not be in Family photos because In-Laws come and go and are not considered "True Family". I on the other hand disagree. I think Family is anybody you consider it to be, whether they be steps, halfs, In-Laws, friends, dog, cat , etc. And, that they should be included in Family photos and displayed accordingly. What I also find hypocritical, is the fact that my Sister-In-Law's family consists of alot of half brother and sisters, and a Stepfather with many other half nieces and nephews to follow. I think that with someone who has a unique family structure such as her would have a difference of opinion. What do you think? I see everyone in my family as individuals and I treat them equally regardless if they a "blood related". And, when I have my own home one day everyone's picture that I have will be displayed proudly. Which opinion do you side with?

2007-10-08 08:18:22 · 9 answers · asked by Yahoo Anwers 5 in Family

TYPE A Women

I have an ideal image of "my kinda woman" (Type A) - my mom is a strong, confident and attractive woman (even at the age of 50) and a perfect role model. In my teenage years, I was attracted to both my Physics and Biology teachers who were confident, charming and highly mature.

TYPE B Women

Every time I dated in life, it had to be the same attention-seeking loser specimen (Type B) who're not sure about themselves. I was p!ssed off at their indeciseveness and their inability to judge properly- also they showed psychological dependence on men for every aspect of their lives and were looking for their "father" as a male mentor in their prospective boyfriends. I had to sit and console them, listen to their emotional wham-wham and it was such a one-sided affair.

Honestly, I do see the Type A women around me (though it's like 3 out of 50) and most of them seem to be older (35>).

Is something wrong with me in not being attracted at all to Type B women majority?

2007-10-08 08:16:58 · 11 answers · asked by Tripitaka 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-08 08:16:22 · 7 answers · asked by me1234529 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Over the summer i asked out a girl she said no and she didnt feel the same. I asked her about all the flirting she was doing. to that she said what flirting. Its hard for me to believe that she didnt know she was flirting with me. other people say it. I know when i am flirting. I may not know at the time, but later i realize that was flirting.

2007-10-08 08:15:39 · 6 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

Our daughter (16) goes to a military boarding school in Virginia. To make the story short, 4 girls decided to "get" her by alleging the use of pot. The school's drug policy is zero tolerance - expulsion for illegal drug use. No second chances. These girls all independantly told the same story and went around telling everyone that she had been busted for drugs.
The school drug tested her (which has since come back NEGATIVE), locked her dorm room down pending a search, searched her person, made her sleep on a couch outside the guard's office for the weekend - essentially treated her like a criminal.
I do NOT blame the school for their actions on this. However, now that our daughter is exonerated I am not happy with the school's lack of interest in pursuing these horrible girls who now giggle about how they "got her good", and of course most people haven't heard about the negative result.

I think there may be a criminal case here. They tried to get her expelled. Anyone know?

2007-10-08 08:15:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you think Divorce is right? Why & Why Not.

2007-10-08 08:13:09 · 21 answers · asked by Bud 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have gotten many good replies to my previous questions. I have one more. Is there anything else I can do to disrespect her? I've cheated on her, slept with my girlfriend in our own bed, been caught sleeping with my girlfriend in our bed and I even slept with her sister. Please help!

2007-10-08 08:13:07 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-08 08:13:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at the grocery store and my cell phone rings. Its a telemarketer from the same marketing inc that keeps calling me every day. I nicely interuped her teling her I wasnt interested and that I get calls all the time from them. I even asked one telemarketer to please put my number on there no call list. She continued to talk and tell me about there other free products and she sounded so sweet that I didnt want to be rude. In the mean time, I have my two sons with me and Im pushing a heavy cart full of groceries with my youngest in the seat and Im due in 4 weeks with our third boy. The kids are screaming they want things or they are teasing each other and everytime I talk to my kids the lady asks if im still there. So by then Im getting mad. I tell her my situation again and she says sorry and that she has only a couple more free offers and starts reading off my address and how she was sending me magazines now. So I now have to try to get her not to do this etc etc. WHAT DO U DO?

2007-10-08 08:09:02 · 21 answers · asked by Kelly+Ian 4 in Singles & Dating