Family & Relationships - 8 October 2007

uhmmm... this is gonna be quick... i'm 16 years old, and i'm in love with this girl whose in the same year in high school as i am. now, i already told her that i love her, but she said that she wasnt ready and that she was in love with someone else. after she told me that, i told her that i would wait no matter how long, and i got a shaky "ok" in return. now, something weird has happened. you'd expect that this girl would distance herself from me after telling her that. that didnt happen. instead, the both of us are becoming better friends than before i told her i love her. There are also clues all around, including one of her friends hinting to me that she isnt happy with the guy she's in love with. also, i also had the chance to ask her out. she said yes, but she had to beg off bcoz of curfew. at least i asked her out and she said yes! my question is: am i on the right track? please give me your opinion... thanks! God Bless! :)

2007-10-08 14:53:55 · 3 answers · asked by rjsi143 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. here it is. it is sort of complicated. there is this guy who was in one of my classes last yr. and on myspace, i told him i liked him. yeah. he replied telling me how he didn't knoww mee and tat he will remember me if he sees me at school. and i triedd talking to him at school in person, but that was sort of hard cuz MOST OF THE TIME, he was with his friends. and he's one of the people in the popular group and that is a toughie too. and i heard lot's of rumors about him liking another girl, but i can't blame him considering he barely knows me. andd noww i don't know what to do anymore. i sort of already gave up, but i still have feelings for him.

2007-10-08 14:52:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Healthy sexual satisfaction results from harmony in other areas of marriage.

2007-10-08 14:52:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I caught him in the woods with the neighbors wife. Now he's going broke, after I got 100,000 in the divorce. I'm free as a bird and living a new life. His friends don't know what really happened; he went around telling hateful lies even before we brokeup; he even lied to our daughter and his whole family, telling people that, "she's just crazy." He also had to pay for my new car we had just bought a year before not to mention 250 a wk. for 3 months before the divorce was final. He took our autistic son to a lawyer behind my back and had him sign a paper saying that he wanted to live with him. I just wanted to get away from him; she had him recording my phone calls and he was still spying on me 4 months later; they get drunk and call and harass me, and then I get into trouble if I respond to it; they take ME to court.

2007-10-08 14:51:03 · 8 answers · asked by dotell 3 in Marriage & Divorce

it seems like guys just look on the outside and not feelings

2007-10-08 14:47:12 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Really... Theres 3 big black guys living in an apartment (building next door, but our windows are really close to eachother). they have friends coming over day and night. They block my garage, they don't let me sleep. And forget about talking to them.... They always have an attitude. What can I do? Should I call the police? This is happening every single day!

2007-10-08 14:47:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-08 14:39:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she always makes life difficult plays games and always wants to argue with me or debate what do i have to do do stop this iam tired of jestifing and arguing and her getting on my nerves i wish this one lady was my aunt

2007-10-08 14:36:46 · 15 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

My divorce will be final next week. I'm the one who filed. He was unfaithful.(more than once) I was doing alright at first but now the anger feels like it's wearing off into just sadness. But he doesn't really even seem to be bothered. I didn't tell him beforehand that I was filing & yet he still hasn't even said 2 words about getting divorced. But his lack of words has made me think he doesn't care. I can't help but think of the good & not the bad when I think of him. I don't want to get back together b/c I don't trust him & things wouldn't be the same. I miss him though.. the man I THOUGHT he was. I don't miss the man he really turned out to be. I hate the idea that someday(if not already) another woman will be w/my husband(& possibly married) He was supposed to be mine forever & now he won't be. What if he treats her better than me? Has anyone else felt like this after divorce? If so, does it get better? I just wish we could be together the way it was supposed to be.

2007-10-08 14:28:22 · 11 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, I love my dog very much and I'm very affectionate with him. I hug him a lot and he reciprocates.

However, the other day as I was leaving to go to the bar and my friends were picking me up I kissed my dog goodbye (like always do) but they saw me and told me that it was a 'weird thing to do.' Now I know none of them have dogs themselves so I don't think they're used to the idea. But on the other hand maybe they're right. geez I don't know.

I'd hate to stop doing it because now I'm used to kissing my dog everytime I go out the door. Much like a mother would kiss her children after dropping them off at daycare.

2007-10-08 14:26:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

most of the peoples' advice on here is "break up with them."

Do you think maybe that's why the majority of people end up divorced? Because the majority of people think thats the best solution?

2007-10-08 14:26:16 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this girlfriend and she is beautiful i like her and all and weve been dating for about 1 month but latly she has been like she is not caring anymore. I dont feel as if i can be myself around her because im scared she will judge me. But theres this other girl and she is my best friend that talks to me everyday she never judges me. i can totaly be myself around her. She understands me and knows what i want and we knew each other last year but our friendship has grew tremdously and she can tell me anything and same with her but the only thing is she isnt like crazy beautiful but shes pretty which thats not rele a problem but i dont want to ruin our friendship you know. so telle me wat u think about both things be as detailed as possible

2007-10-08 14:24:12 · 1 answers · asked by NubShotz 1 in Friends

Ok i need help to be date able in ten days. Ok im 5' 1'' im 131lbs, 13, have brown hair with highlights, have some acne, and im pale. I really like this boy, Garrett, but he only likes this one girl , or at least says he does, and i want him to notice me so i need a makeover so i can at least look nice for school and for him.

2007-10-08 14:16:01 · 1 answers · asked by hannah j 1 in Singles & Dating

ok here my story my cousin came to live with my family and he told us that he wets the bed so he wears diapers .it has been 3 weeks since he has been living with us and we tryed every thing to help him with his bed wetting we tryed every thing and now we found his diary and he wrote that he likes to be treated like a baby and getting diapered. so my mother got this bright ideal (stupid)to diaper him 24/7 know hes really acting up like a 2 year old and we know hes doing it on purpose so my mother got this great ideal (stupid)to treat him like a baby so when he acts up we sit him in the corner . my question is Do u have a good ideal to scare him out of this.hes 17 and he crys when he dosn't get his way. thank u

2007-10-08 14:11:34 · 7 answers · asked by beauty 1 in Family

im dating a guy who just got divorced, but he is telling me that he will help her with anything she needs no matter what.

like for example: lending her HIS car or changing a dead light bulb in her house.....

DO U THINK IM WRONG IN FEELING UPSET?
or what should i do?

extra info:
he just got divorced
we have been dating for a couple of mths,
they have two children.
she has no new boyfriend or anything.

thanx 4 ur help

2007-10-08 14:09:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy whom happens to be a professor that i've been crushing on for while and i'm always catching him staring at me. When I catch him staring his face turns red and he looks dazed or lost. Well I asked him to hang out through an email and he never answered back. However, I saw him this past week for the first time in five months and he was with another girl. But when he saw me he couldn't take his eyes off of me and seemed distracted from her because he saw me. He kept on doing the same thing staring at me and blushing. I don't understand why he does this if he didn't want to hang out with me.

2007-10-08 14:09:07 · 1 answers · asked by shanta 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend Dawn was been with this guy for at least 4 years, and they got married in june of this year, three weeks later she leaves him for another mean,uglyer,fatter,grosser guy and now they're getting married! And i know this relationship will not last! is she a whore?

2007-10-08 14:05:49 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-08 14:04:43 · 1 answers · asked by i wished i lived in nanaimo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-08 13:53:37 · 1 answers · asked by Lina 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy that ive been going out with for like 2 months is asking me if i want to go to bed with him he said that i would be his first and that he really wants me to be the one he loses his virginity to.every time he ask me i just laugh cause i dont know what to say....also i myself am not a virgin..and pregnant i dont know how to tell him but i really like him what should i do

2007-10-08 13:53:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in college but is there anything I could do? I don't have a job myself and my mom doesn't work either. I don't know how financially stable we are and if my family would have to move or not. Should I worry?

2007-10-08 13:52:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he is saying that he doesnt have the time or energy for me right now ....i would do anything for him and i feel like he doesnt care...even though he tells me he still loves me i am having doubts but i love him so much...i want to play hard to get i am sick of feeling like this and having him treat me like crap when i am waiting on him and hoping he calls me :(

2007-10-08 13:51:52 · 12 answers · asked by Jul 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i do theres this girl she suposidly likes me and i like her too but shes like come find me at lunch? and i talk to her on aim like every day then i would come find her at lunch then she doesnt talk to me she talkes to this guy that some one said she liked and i asked her and she said she was just friends with him but yeah shes very pretty and i am tired of being the one i think the ball is in her cort but i am not sure what to do?

2007-10-08 13:51:36 · 2 answers · asked by dweed1503 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

" when i was 17 my father was the most ignorant man i'd ever known. by the time i was 21 he was the smartest man i'd ever met. i never knew how he learned so much in just 3 years"...mark twain (maybe para phrased)

what do you think?

2007-10-08 13:51:08 · 10 answers · asked by bl 4 in Family

He is always asking me who i'm going to homecoming with and why i'm not and stuff. he has a girlfriend. he is kind of a dick, and stares at my chest a lot. I don't think I should persue him, but what should I do to get him to see me as a friend, not as a piece of meat?

2007-10-08 13:45:26 · 11 answers · asked by Zoe 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-08 13:44:14 · 16 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Family

Mine is if he has kids or if he curses way too much! . what really turns you off when it comes to the dating world?

2007-10-08 13:41:03 · 11 answers · asked by JillardG 5 in Singles & Dating

Its not bad, but does anyone have any suggestions on anything I feel like I'm a bore.

2007-10-08 13:40:46 · 12 answers · asked by alex-mommy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he has a gf who dumped him for "blackmailing" her, which is completely out of character for him, and then they got back together a week later. over the time they were broken up, he was looking at me and flirting with me a lot. i returned interest, but he still got back with his gf. i like him, but he seems to like her more even though he showed strong signs of liking me.

that sounds like my love life since freshman year. how can i keep a guys attention longer to ask me out instead of another girl? this guy i sit next to in ap physics flirts with me too, so how could i keep his attention before it goes to some other girl? or how could i get the first guys attention back?

2007-10-08 13:40:01 · 1 answers · asked by Ducky 3 in Singles & Dating

Every one has wedding on Saturdays. I'd like to know if it's acceptable to have a Sunday wedding service? Has any one had/been to a wedding that was held on a Sunday??

2007-10-08 13:37:47 · 23 answers · asked by Gem Jewelz3 2 in Weddings