i need help with a guy...pleazeee?

Question

ok. here it is. it is sort of complicated. there is this guy who was in one of my classes last yr. and on myspace, i told him i liked him. yeah. he replied telling me how he didn't knoww mee and tat he will remember me if he sees me at school. and i triedd talking to him at school in person, but that was sort of hard cuz MOST OF THE TIME, he was with his friends. and he's one of the people in the popular group and that is a toughie too. and i heard lot's of rumors about him liking another girl, but i can't blame him considering he barely knows me. andd noww i don't know what to do anymore. i sort of already gave up, but i still have feelings for him.

Answer 1

This is your problem. #

Answer 2

i'm lik going thru the exact same thing
the problem is u don't have any control over who u lik
it just refuses to work that way
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n it might help u,
don't immedialtly disjudge it as 1 of those things that don't work
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i think talking to him on myspace is the best thing to do for a while, then just talk to him in school
i kno it's hard n i gotta do it my self
but i'm gonna try and so should u

Answer 3

if you really liked him you wouln't care what group he's in. Plus if he was a decint guy he would at least notice you as someone. I would talk to your friends or just concider the thought. If you trust rumors stay with their flow. It would depend on your type of person. If your shy then "glance" and take a smother route. If your "popular" don't even think off going out. and if you "not" popular to others don't care about any thing says and do it your own way. I hope this helped!

Answer 4

Reading your piece does not clarify what your problem is and there is nothing complicated about it.You liked a guy from last year in one of your classes, let him know on my space, he does not recall who you are, you got cold feet in school and did not make your self known to him,he is popular and maybe likes another girl, but you still have feelings for him. Have I left anything out?Please look else where for another guy you can build a relationship with ,one that has love, compassion, respect, mutuality, and support for its foundation.You are not going to find it where you are currently looking, unless you want to be abused and taken advantage of.

Answer 5

Huney, its just a phase. You'll snap out of it here pretty soon. Not meaning to be harsh but if he really liked you he would have made the effort to talk to you, because im guessing he's not shy if he's in with all the popular guys. Go find a real man, not one you started liking on cyberspace.

Answer 6

Leave him a note and talk to him on Myspace. Then once you guys talk on myspace enough, he'll want to talk in real life if he likes you, then he will leave his friends for a while each day to talk with you. Then you've got him lol. If he doesnt do this, then hes not worth your time. Good luck hon! ☺

Answer 7

Yeah, you could've interpreted the way he replied alot differently than what he meant.
Guys see things as, staying in their own group of friends, and his friends probably spread a rumor about him liking someone for the fun of it, my friends do it to me all the time. Being "popular" has nothing to do with it, who the Hell cares what social standing it's in, it's all a game. You should go for it, if you want him so bad, don't worry about his friends, it's you business, not theirs.

Answer 8

Give up all the way and focus on another guy. You don't need a toughie who makes no effort to separate you from the crowd.

Answer 9

Try talking to him more on just myspace. Dont even try to talk to him at school yet, just smile if he looks at you. Then, once you've connected on myspace, work your way up to talking more at school. And dont worry about the rumors, they arent important unless he's actually dating another girl. Good luck!!!!

Answer 10

well..honestly, if you barely know each other, how deep could these feelings be? but if you must him, confidence is the sexiest thing, just assume you already have him, and walk right up to him and start chatting. remember, we choose the boys, not the other way around.

Answer 11

I think it's time to move on.

Next time, try getting to know a guy in person instead of just telling him how you feel on My Space.