she always makes life difficult plays games and always wants to argue with me or debate what do i have to do do stop this iam tired of jestifing and arguing and her getting on my nerves i wish this one lady was my aunt
2007-10-08 14:36:46 · 15 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Friend,
Just IGNORE HER PRESENCE.
Do not argue.Do what is best as per your conscience.
Leave her to herself.Do not entertain any topic.After ranting ,ranting ...she stops.
Just IGNORE HER,
2007-10-08 14:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Radhakrishna( prrkrishna) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you live with her? IF so perhaps you get on her nerves too. Ignore her, don't respond.
Is she elderly and maybe needs some attention? If so find a day place for her to go and argue and debate with people her age. In most cities there are cards clubs, flower clubs and crafts. It would give her a place to vent about you....
2007-10-08 21:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Grace P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your aunt.... your mother or father's sister? Speak to the parent related to her. Let her or him know that you are having difficulty with your aunt and you'd like to make a peaceful resolution. Maybe its just something you are not seeing eye to eye over. Or maybe she's just the argumentative type. Your parent would probably be the best one to help you with your problem. Good Luck!
2007-10-08 21:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by bakfanlin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When Auntie wants to argue and debate. Just smile and say " OK auntie you win. She'll soon get tried and leave you alone. It takes two to argue. So you make it one less.
2007-10-08 21:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by cat walk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes and most of the time Silence is loud! really deafening as the saying goes. She wants/needs food. food like emotion driven back talking --it is her fuel~and when you succumb to her "game" then she wins. If you excuse yourself and leave or sit and change the subject then the 'game' is defused. here is the catch though: you MUST be polite and un affected with emotion. you must be indifferent other wise she will still win. People like that HATE when other people aren't affected by them ... can you tell I have dealt with similar? good luck!
2007-10-08 21:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by catpat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mayeb you should tell her how you feel but dont make it like your just coming at her. you guys need to talk it out instead of biting eachother heads off and get closer to the one lady that you want to be your aunt and spend more time together
2007-10-08 21:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Marcie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This wouldnt be right if u just ignore her or dont talk to her.. May be u should listen to what she says at certain times then she might have no problems.. be clear and positive everytime.
2007-10-08 21:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucks, doesn't it....too bad we can choose our friends but not our family. Unfortunately, there's not much you can do about it except maybe talk to her and tell her how you feel.
Aunts and uncles (and parents and grandparents) feel that because they are older, they can say what they please to you and you can't answer back. Tell her how annoyed it is making you, and that someday you might just snap and say or do something that SHE will regret.
2007-10-08 21:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by PreciousBabyGirlHasArrived 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight out that you don't want her speaking and acting that way toward you otherwise don't bother to come and visit again.
2007-10-08 21:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what u mean, eh, just don't talk to her if you get the choice. Or take her view and she'll eventually stfu.
2007-10-08 21:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by David U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋