What do you think i should do about this problem?

Question

I have this girlfriend and she is beautiful i like her and all and weve been dating for about 1 month but latly she has been like she is not caring anymore. I dont feel as if i can be myself around her because im scared she will judge me. But theres this other girl and she is my best friend that talks to me everyday she never judges me. i can totaly be myself around her. She understands me and knows what i want and we knew each other last year but our friendship has grew tremdously and she can tell me anything and same with her but the only thing is she isnt like crazy beautiful but shes pretty which thats not rele a problem but i dont want to ruin our friendship you know. so telle me wat u think about both things be as detailed as possible

Answer 1

Your making the classic mistake of thinking love and friendship are two different things, there not. Guaretteed if your "girlfriend" (the real one) and your "girl who is a friend" were hangin on a cliff and you can only save one, it would be the girl who is your friend that you save, well I hope. Maybe thats not the best point. Lets put it this way, when you love someone, you understand them. Which one do you understand more? Guess what that means!?!? IT MEANS YOU LOVE HER MORE!!! Thats right!! Now heres a chinesse proverb for you, if you want more advice, e-mail me...

Friends can become great lovers, but lovers rarly ever become good friends.

Sound like your situation? Lets just say your making the classic mistake most people do, and its costing you the true love your life..... don't feel bad we've all done it.....