i like this guy...?

Question

he has a gf who dumped him for "blackmailing" her, which is completely out of character for him, and then they got back together a week later. over the time they were broken up, he was looking at me and flirting with me a lot. i returned interest, but he still got back with his gf. i like him, but he seems to like her more even though he showed strong signs of liking me.

that sounds like my love life since freshman year. how can i keep a guys attention longer to ask me out instead of another girl? this guy i sit next to in ap physics flirts with me too, so how could i keep his attention before it goes to some other girl? or how could i get the first guys attention back?

Answer 1

Well I'm sorry to say this, but the reality of the situation is that it doesn't matter? Its not that they don't care, its just that them caring doesn't matter. Don't sell yourself short like that, going into competion with other females! HAHA, don't trust me. You by the very VIRTUE of being you, well get someone great for YOU!! If you change YOU, you'll change the people you get, which trust me, guys that have no clue what there doing, are the worst possible ones to change yourself for.... don't be upset because you don't have anyone yet it isn't your fault, trust that there IS a HUGE LACK of good, decent, honest, deep, wonderful, motivated people in this world, don't blame yourself for that, be patient and leave the dark-hearts alone.....