Family & Relationships - 8 October 2007

2007-10-08 15:42:06 · 51 answers · asked by live for today 4 in Family

If you grew up with two siblings, one who is 7 years younger than you, and another who is 10 years younger than you, would you say it's normal to turn out as a somewhat immature adult? How could you become more mature, even though it seems hard?

I am 19 and my siblings are 9 and 12.

2007-10-08 15:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how do i get this guy to like me? wat is something i can do?

2007-10-08 15:39:19 · 12 answers · asked by sweetpea 1 in Friends

i have never met someone as much as she is like me. the thing is she REALLY likes this boy and i do, too. i also have this obsessed and major crush on someone else which we laugh over but i like him as well. i know i found my true friend and i don't want to lose her! how do i work this out?

2007-10-08 15:31:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I told her everything abt this guy who Claims to be in love with her but was a no.1 Flirt... I dont know what she said to him he came to me and we have a big fight physically.. we both hurt each other.. then this Girl goes to him and says Sorry to him and they both back together as usual... I phoned her to explain but she didnt let me.. was i a jerk to guide her.. What was my fault?

2007-10-08 15:30:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're trying to decide what to give our wedding party for gifts. I'm thinking of sterling silver jewlery for the girls, but I haven't found any good web sites. Any ideas for guys and girls?

2007-10-08 15:29:54 · 11 answers · asked by Why? 5 in Weddings

2007-10-08 15:29:03 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so here's the deal. My oldest brother passed away last year. He and I were very close and of course it hit me pretty hard. He had a business, but my sister-in-law didn't really have a handle on the finances so I volunteered to pay for the headstone and the flower spray. All told about $2000. I did it for my brother because I loved him and for no other reason.

So a couple of days before the funeral my sister-in-law tells me that she already has the pall bearers picked out, two of her brothers and 1 of my uncles. In addition she tells me that she has decided not to put the names of me and my brothers in the paper because my brothers are, frankly, thugs.

At the funeral I felt like a complete outsider, like a funeral crasher, no one even acknowledge that I existed. I realize that she had just lost her husband, but I thought that the whole deal was kind of shitty.

So should I feel bad about being a little hurt and angry about this?

2007-10-08 15:24:51 · 7 answers · asked by kmcpmgoodson 5 in Family

Ok I have done some previous posts about this girl In my p.e class. The first moment i saw her i fell in love and same with her. About a week ago we went to the movies and she like me and i like her we had a good time but it was like we were friends.So i found out she like me and we texted for a week while i was gone on vacation . We liked each other and we both knew it and now im back wut should she expect when she sees me Please help. Like do i act nicer to her like we have something or Be like it was before we found out like kinda talked.

2007-10-08 15:24:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is this normal or dose everyone else climax everythime they make love

2007-10-08 15:24:08 · 1 answers · asked by nena 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if u are my boyfriend and call u and say love, i think i might be pregnant cause i miss my period for a month. and u love me because u can sleep with me whenever u want. my question is what is yr first respond respond will be remember u want me because u can have free s** with me

2007-10-08 15:23:17 · 2 answers · asked by mystic m 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I've decided i need to tell my friend how i truely feel. We flirt in school alot then talk on aim, and text. But now that i want to tell him that i like him more than a friend....how do i? i want to causally tell him the truth but HOW??

2007-10-08 15:22:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have 2 guys friends that are brothers and are very close in age 23 and 22... And they have such hate towards eachother and it kills me to see this... It all started when they was kids . The oldest Ryan and Then Andre had somewhat a bad childhood . When they were kids there mom always treated one better than the other and till this day she does it and now they have this jealously towards eachother and i try to understand it but its kinda hard. Ryan isnt as Popular as Andre . Andre has always been the popular one and Ryan was the outsider the under dog and Andre was mean to him at school and mean to Ryans friends I know , I know very mean but that was when they was kids and now they are older and they still argue about it ... They fight over the tiniest things ... What can they do to make there relationship, Friendship better with one another ... They sometimes get along really well and have fun with eachother and then boom they start to argue ???????????

2007-10-08 15:17:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am 16 and i have been with 16 guys and i think thats ok because as long as you dont go over the number of your age its ok. but ppl are calling me a hoe is that true? and how can i take all the guys back that i had sex with if that does make me a hoe???

2007-10-08 15:17:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This kid called me ugly not to my face, but still why did he? We were supposed to be friends. He told this other kid that he thought I was annoying and ugly. He has no room to talk though because he's a nerd and has bright red hair. Why are all boys so mean?

2007-10-08 15:16:06 · 11 answers · asked by abbyharleydog 2 in Singles & Dating

My divorce will be final next week & my husband and I haven't even talked about it. He cheated...I filed. We live 4 hours away so we don't see each other that often except when he comes to visit our son. I feel like I want to talk to him about some things & maybe that will bring some closure to this, but I don't know if I should bring it up or not since he hasn't. He knows I know he cheated but has denied it.(i have proof) I want to question him on why he's done this to his family. We've been married for 7 years & have a son together. Should I try & discuss what went on & why or should I let it & him go w/out saying anything? I don't want details about him & any other women I just want to know what he's thinking & feeling & I want him to know what I'm thinking & feeling. It has bothered me that he didn't even put up a fight for his family. I mean NOTHING has been said between us about the divorce. (and he does know about it..he has an attorney, too) What would you do?

2007-10-08 15:14:19 · 16 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-08 15:13:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

JACKAS*SES??? How do i make them back off?
Ok, I have a big problem in one of my classes, the guys are JackAs*es! They come up to me and ask if i wanna screw them, they even ask if im a slu*!!! I dont know what to do, but if i dont do something soon, my grades are going to be horrible, i also dont want to go to the teacher. How do i make them backoff, of me! Dont forget, this is 11th grade yall!!

2007-10-08 15:13:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why do men have to always lose

2007-10-08 15:11:47 · 2 answers · asked by tanmoorer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hey i was just wandering how do i ask this guy out AND THIS IS THE FIRST TIME IVE ASKED OUT THE GUY I LIKED??? that i have known for years but dont get 2 tlk 2 that often anymore and i wanted him and a group of ppl 2 go 2 the MOVIES AND THE MALL???

2007-10-08 15:11:47 · 5 answers · asked by ♥twilight series ADDICT♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, ladies...how can we tell if our men are thinking about the "m" word? We discussed it months ago, and at the time, I wasn't ready. I have since told him that I am. He says he is too, but hasn't given me any indication as to when he might want to "tie the knot". I don't know if he's thinking soon or years from now. I don't want to seem pushy, but I'd like to know. What do you ladies out there think?

2007-10-08 15:10:52 · 3 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-08 15:10:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-08 15:10:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been spending SO much time with one of my friends during the summer, and this month, he's asking me to come to another party for Halloween. I told him I'd go, but then there's my other friend from my old school.

This other boy is from my old school, and I haven't been able to spend time with him at all. He invited me to go to a church party with him, where there'll be a lot of snacks and food and games and whatever. I told both of them that I've been deciding in between them.

Most likely, you'd probably think I should do the right thing and take the offer that was first given to me. But I feel horrible, I haven't been able to spend time with my old school friend in forever because he has really strict parents. He won't be able to invite me to this kinda thing in a lifetime.

But I care about my first friend very much, I just feel that I've committed too much to him, and that I need to spend time with the other.

So I'm not sure, should I do the right thing? or the wanted thing?

2007-10-08 15:01:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 22, he's 24 and we'll be together a year. We're spending Christmas in Canada with his family (a week) then probably taking a snowmobiling trip the week after. He's a mechanical engineer and enjoys autocross and poker mostly. Being from Canada he loves hocky (and plays himself). I know it's early but i'm obsessive compulsive about getting Christmas presents early and not putting it off. I'm in graduate school and we're doing the long distance thing. I don't have a ton of money so that's a consideration along with the fact that i'll have to take it on a plane (or ship to Canada) for Christmas.

2007-10-08 15:00:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This has happened quite a bit lately and I'm about to be terminated. Thx a lot, whoever you are.

2007-10-08 14:59:35 · 6 answers · asked by Chiksita 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boy-friend broke up with me because he thought i wasnt spending enough 'time' with him. AND WE HAVE ONLY BEEN DATING FOR A WEEK AND A HALF!!! I didnt have his number his adress ANYTHING!! and he wants me to spend time with him at school!!??? now, he wants me to come back with him, because hes lonely or something retarted like tht.


the question is..
should i?

2007-10-08 14:57:36 · 20 answers · asked by crazybubbles14 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for five years but I just dread the idea of marriage. It's like a life sentence to hell for the man. Even the wedding is all about the woman

2007-10-08 14:57:05 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When my husband has been on answers in the past, he asks questions like "girlfriend problems", or "ex-wife is a *****" . It is strange.... we have been married for 14 years.... he also has alot of girl "fans" .... Should I care??

2007-10-08 14:55:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-08 14:54:43 · 6 answers · asked by muzzella 1 in Marriage & Divorce