My boy-friend broke up with me because he thought i wasnt spending enough 'time' with him. AND WE HAVE ONLY BEEN DATING FOR A WEEK AND A HALF!!! I didnt have his number his adress ANYTHING!! and he wants me to spend time with him at school!!??? now, he wants me to come back with him, because hes lonely or something retarted like tht.
the question is..
should i?
2007-10-08 14:57:36 · 20 answers · asked by crazybubbles14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! He is trying to control you, don't let him. How can you spend more time with him if you have only been dating for 10 days??? He's too needy. Find someone else.
2007-10-08 15:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by my 2 cents 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
that guy has some issues. a week and a half??? my last boy friend and i hadnt even gone on a "date" after a week and a half. this guy needs to be more understanding. he should have given you his number at least.
also, with school he should have understood that public displays of affection in the hallways may be romantic to him but to the rest of the people in the hallway...no one wants to see that.
talk to him and ask him why he didnt give you his number? also, how old are you? this sounds like a middle school question to me.
My best advice is dont get back together with him (he still needs to mature a lot more) but ask him what his problem was and if it was something where you were the one at fault, then dont make the same mistakes with your next boy.
best of luck sweetie, remember, all guys are confusing!
2007-10-08 22:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by MissSamanthaAnne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had a friend going through the same problem she kept getting crap from him and stuff and really tirying to talk to him but he didnt care. she wanted to dump him but she really still loved him. He ended up dumping her and she was crying for days. so get over him. now if he wants to get back with u think about what u really want, theres noone better to decide ur feiling than u!! about the talking if u sort thing out a get back together, just be yourself have the guts to walk up to him because some guys just have problems doing that, act like its ur last day with him and u want to be with him all the time. LOL the girl i helped before called me her counseler! hope i helped!!
2007-10-08 22:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Dustin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you've only been together less than two weeks. You have a life so you, were doing your own thing. Should you? what go back with him? Think about that long and hard,if after such short time you weren't giving him enough time,what might happen if you go back. Think long and hard. Good luck!
2007-10-08 22:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by misty m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, he sounds like a control freak. move on, there are much better guys in the world. I have been with mine since sophmore year and if i wanna do my thing with other people hes cool with it.
dont do it because relationships where the guy is controlling can be very dangerous
2007-10-08 22:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jinglz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's nuts. move on. anyone that acts crazy like that in the first week you are better off without him. trust me. if you dates him for years and he did that... I bet you anything he will be hiding in the bushes with duct tape, a shovel and a car trunk lined with plastic. you got lucky.
2007-10-08 22:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by mishle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...
it sounds like you don't want to.
If you want to start dating him again, then you should.
If you have any doubts, you may want to wait a little longer.
So if you like him enough, and you want to date him again, then i would go for it.
Don't leave him hanging though, you should give him a straight up answer, dont beat around the bush.
I hope I helped at least a little!
:) :) :)
2007-10-08 22:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by Abercrombie_Hippie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do, it should only be on your own terms. Let him know what the limits are in advance and ask him if he can live within those limits.
Personally though, it sounds like he isn't mature enough to handle a relationship at the moment.
2007-10-08 22:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel T 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that if he wants to spend time with you but not give you his number, find somebody else.
2007-10-08 22:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by krow1125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a control freak to me...I would stay clear of him and let him know you have another life that doesn't include him....I doubt if he will understand though..GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-08 22:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by Eileen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋