What should i do?

Question

Everytime i go away for school the girl who is suppose to be the love of my life tends to lose feelings for me?

She flirts with other guys while im away and she knows that i have a problem with that?

The guy she was flirting with while i was away i cursed her out about it she made an irrational desicion now she dates him when i came back home she told me it was a mistake and she doesn't know how to break up with him?


Everything was cool for about a couple of weeks she started acting fishy so i cursed her out about it again now she's pushing me away and tells me because i called her the h word she began to have feelings for him and she doesn't love me anymore what should i do stand for love or move on?

Answer 1

move on .. she isn't worth it. the "love of your life" should never push you away. shes playing with you.

Answer 2

This girl's feelings for you aren't very strong. If she was really into you, she wouldn't be dating/flirting other guys.
"Not knowing how to break up with him" is a lame excuse - if she wanted to be with you and not him, it would have been a simple matter of telling the guy it's over.

Sorry, dude, this girl isn't a ho, she just doesn't know what she wants or how to keep it. She's young and immature, and frankly, a waste of your time. Don't waste your love on someone who clearly is very unsure about you. There's no need to be bitter or angry - this is just how love goes, sometimes. Move on, and let this girl figure out her life on her own.

Answer 3

Well number one, why curse her out? What ever happened to civil conversations, because that's when the facts come out... Honestly in my opinion you need to leave the girl, she is not committed, and isn't dating for the purpose of marriage? So why waste your time on a girl who is fickle... I think you need to end your relationship with her completely, because she is not worth the your time to be dating or just being friends. You need to let your emotions run their course, because being in love with a girl who is as obnoxious as she sounds really is quite a mistake on your part.

Answer 4

If nothing else, let this be a lesson that you shouldn't curse people (especially girls you're interested in) out.

Silence can speak greater volumes than the nastiest words at times...

Think about what you say before you say it and people will respect you more for it in the end.

Answer 5

i think you should move on. if you can't trust her, you are just going to keep getting hurt and calling her the ''h-word'' and getting into fights. you may love her, but this doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. i think you should end it with her, at least for a while. maybe some time apart will help you both realize your true feelings.

Answer 6

I think you should forget about her, she is obviously doing the same. If she really really loved you then there would be no other guy in the picture. Move on and have fun in school.

Answer 7

Move on she'll just keep using you and making you feel sorry for something you didn't do. All you did was to let out those feelings. Let her go. You deserve someone way better.

Answer 8

No one that really loves you would treat you this way. You should stop calling/seeing/talking to her. Move on to someone else who can really appericate you for who you are.

By the way....what is the "h" word?

Answer 9

Move On.

Answer 10

Move on dude, you dont wanna be like jerky girls that cheat on you the rest of ur life. Ul find the perfect women for u someday, every1 has somebody for them, trust me. :)