1 is my friend, 1 is my best friend.They HATE each other. They have good reason not 2 like each other.They dont get along and talk about each other bad all the time. It got way out of hand. I didnt want invloved, i like both of them and just wished it would stop. But it didnt. They have almost fought several times. And they say really hurtful and horrible things to each other. I dont want to put in details but the situation got really ugly. It got to the point that rachel said if i was going to continue to be friends with tiffany she couldnt be friends with me because she believes that u should stand up for ur best friend and if someone hurts them and is horrible to them u shouldnt be ok with it, and u certainly shouldnt be friends with them. I want so bad to be rachels friend and she really is my best friend but i dont believe u should have to hate someone just because ur friend hates them. I like tiffany, and i do want to still be friends with her, but i cant loose rachel.Wat do i do
2007-10-08 20:03:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just continue to try to be good friends with both of them. If Rachel refuses to be your friend because you like Tiffany, then damn, that's tough, but you may have to lose Rachel as a friend. Sometimes in life, a situation has no nice resolution.
2007-10-08 20:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by SoulDawg 4 UGA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let people manipulate you. You have a say in it as well. Rachel in my opinion is not being very nice to you at all. She is trying to drive a wedge between you and tiffany. Are you actually going to be friends with someone that does that to you. Someone that says if you don't do this then I won't be your friend. Look at it this way, It is her loss not yours. you let Rachel know that although she is your best friend you will not let her manipulate you. Someone that is that way shouldn't be your best friend anyway. They will do this to you again and again. Then again take advice with a grain of salt. Don't let anyone manipulate you. that includes me. You can take or leave my advice.
2007-10-09 03:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by computerexpert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is never take any of their sides. be neutral. Talk to them and let them face each other and hold an open forum and tell them to express their feelings to each other openly and without reprocautionn and in doing so you should not tell the other that the other is coming so that both of them can come and work things out between them. If this does not work just it might just take them a long time to accept each others flaws and be friends in the future
2007-10-09 03:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get in the middle! Don't ever talk about the other one, and if they start to talk about the other friend change the subject don't even acknowledge the negative. Don't fall into the ring of fire, it will surely blow up on your face. Find some new friends.
2007-10-09 03:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋