im 23 and live at home with parents. As soon as I have money or buy something my mother yells and screams wanting me to give half to my sister 22 and my brother 14. i don't want to bc im unemployed, don't get an allowance and they do. This makes me angry bc my mom doesn't understand that if I don't take care of myself no one will. I try not to ask my mom for any money. If i do it's about $1 - $5 at the most sparingly.
2007-10-08 04:33:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your mom is only doing this because she wants you to move out!! What you should do is get a job. Then, it's acually YOUR money you EARNED and she can't take that away. Then get an apartment... and do whatever you want !!
2007-10-08 04:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by BrY <333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother understands perfectly... she is trying to get you out of the house. Don't expect this situation to improve until a year or two after you move out of her house.
You are old enough to be on your own, and so is your sister.
Get a job, and see if you can share an apartment with one or two friends... and keep your distance from your parents' house so your mom won't mug you to support your kid brother.
2007-10-08 11:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once upon a time a cute Little Red Hen had no problem with not sharing her goods that she planted, watered, harvested, made into flour and baked the bread all by herself. At eating time all the losers showed up wanting some. Follow her lead and send them on their way.
2007-10-08 11:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, a bigger question is why are you unemployed and living at home at 23? Get a job and move out - that'll solve ALL of the problems!
2007-10-08 11:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if your 23 why are you still living at home get a job and live on your own then you wont have that problem
2007-10-08 11:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by lschleichardt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to go and get some counsellings ,i bet your self esteem is low and you have no confidence ....go and try and get a job get some money together move out go and get your self a life im not being nasty when i say that you need to go out and start living ,dont let your family walk alover you x good luck x
2007-10-08 11:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a job and move out, and then you can do what you want.
2007-10-08 11:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont u get a job and move out...then u wouldnt have this problem
2007-10-08 11:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by kp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋