Family & Relationships - 1 October 2007

ok i moved very far away from my bf and my best friend asked if he missed me and he said no he also said that we had broken up.What should i do?

P.S. i really really like him!

2007-10-01 04:27:09 · 8 answers · asked by Haley G 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this situation where ive been seeing this guy for 4 months on and off. It's basically fwb and he stays over once a week. For the past 3 weekends I have either text him or called him, only to get a voice mail and he doesnt return my calls until after the weekend. He tells me he has been taken his son on the weekends and not going out, when i call him its usually after 10 and you cant tell me his 2 yr old son isnt sleeping. I decided i would just keep him around until someone better appears but i'm finding it difficult to keep my emotions out of it. And i'm thinking he has another arrangement on the weekends. Why is it guys can handle these arrangements without feeling hurt? Do I just keep using him like he's using me? Should i not answer his calls during the week to see how he likes it? or should i just end it? Really, I know alot of you are gonna say get a back bone and dump him, but the s e x is really good. And no.. a vibrator wouldn't even compare. What should i do?

2007-10-01 04:24:16 · 3 answers · asked by Steviemercury 2 in Singles & Dating

They say in true love you lose yourself..."the self" ceases to exist.To my mind this means heading for disaster coz if you hand over all the control to someone else then in today's world you are bound to get pushed around, misused and even abused.Besides I believe you got to love yourself first to be loved by anyone else.So does it then mean that we cannot afford to really love? and what do you do when there is a conflict between yourself and the one you love (or the one you think you love)?

2007-10-01 04:24:07 · 26 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 04:23:06 · 15 answers · asked by kirstyere 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 30, she's 28, no kids. Married just over a year. Having fights more and more often. In previous fights she has said that she married me because she didn't think she could get anyone else, and inside I felt the same way, but didn't tell her. She has threatened to leave me several times, although I didn't think that she'd go 100% thru with it. Now I find myself on empty with her emotionally, and I think divorce will ultimately be the answer, but I don't want to make a mistake. I never thought that *I* would get a divorce. I think she thinks things are going ok for us now, but i'm a wreck inside. We just bought a house that if apart, we can't afford on one salary. What should I do? Talk to a laywer? Councelor? With or without her? Talk to her? I know the second I tell her that i'm not "in love" with her anymore, she's going to literally go berzerk. Any help would be appreciated..

2007-10-01 04:20:40 · 13 answers · asked by two_22515 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am can't get over my last relationship. We were super intense for 8 mnths. We talked about marriage, best friends. But near the end we were both going through really bad times and fighting constantly. So, I thought we should break up so we could both get our lives together and he reluctantly agreed. I ended up having a one night stand while we were apart and decided to be honest with him even though we weren't together. He freaked out a little but then seemed ok with it. Well, out of nowhere one day he tells me it is totally over. Then for weeks I am writing him letters and he tells me he is confused and needs time to think. Well, him pretty much hating me and blaming our relationship failing was too much to bear. And I ended up for weeks in the hospital. He said we'd have a nice talk when I was better. A month later I find out he has a new gf a sister of one of our friends. Now I can't hang out with our friends and he has completely moved on. I am a wreck.

2007-10-01 04:20:02 · 15 answers · asked by Princess V 1 in Singles & Dating

well u c if been at it for about 7mnths. & His Daughter caught us well u know.....& she Threated to tell my husband who i have been with for 6 years. what should i do?

2007-10-01 04:16:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-01 04:14:35 · 34 answers · asked by ozzi 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-01 04:12:54 · 28 answers · asked by . 2 in Weddings

they have been separated for years ... he once gave her some fake papers that was not notarized a few years ago but shw told him they were fake and get it legally done. they even file separated in taxes with dependents.

2007-10-01 04:12:01 · 11 answers · asked by mickey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you suddenly grew to be 20000 feet tall one day who would you choose to stomp on and expalin how youd step on them with your giant foot?

2007-10-01 04:11:28 · 15 answers · asked by garyx22002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's ex has his 13 year old twins all week and every other weekend leaving us with them only 4 days a month (and during some holidays). My husband misses them terribly and has lived with this situation for about 5 years. The kids also get weepy on the phone and when they have to leave us when they visit. We want to have them more often, maybe every weekend or a couple days during the week but we don't want to involve a lawyer because they cost so darn much. We live close enough to them (within 6-7 miles) that schools, friends, cheerleading and football wouldn't have to change. There would be a deduction in her child support which is why I don't think she's willing to go for it. The kids are all she has, no boyfriend or husband so she'll be really lonely without them, which I sympathize for. Since the kids want more time with us, we want to address it. Any great suggestions on how to talk to her about it within this turning into war?

2007-10-01 04:06:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met this girl, her last relationship she was wit this guy for 9 years which he took her for granted and left her. i do not know too much details in this, she has been single for a while like probably 5 years. dated here and there but nothing serious. i like her, she seems very genuine and very nice, but when i go to hug her its like weird cuz she looks at me like if u can read her facial espression " what re u doing" so i back off but the next day she will call me to see me and all. she told me she scare to let loose cuz of the fear of being taken advantage she also told me she thinks too much and when she thinks it stops from doing things like for example she told me the other day she wanted to grab n kiss me but when she thought about it she stop herself, this is very confusing to me i like her and think theres potential but how can i handle this situation
what can i do or say
thanks if any one has been in this please share thanks

2007-10-01 04:06:27 · 16 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Singles & Dating

My wife recently had a miscarriage a little over weeks ago. She only told a handful people about it: a few close friends, her older brother, and her parents. Because of what happened, her parents came to visit us this weekend. Once they were at our house, her brother more or less invited his family and their other sibling's family over to inform the entire family that they were pregnant with their second child. I felt that the timing was awful as they were only several days pregnant and that they should have waited until my wife had gotten over her miscarriage. I wanted to throw him out of my house at the very moment, but just sat there in disbelief of the lack of consideration for his sister's feelings. I am filled with rage now, but my wife told me not to say anything.

Am I justified in being angry, and, if so, how should I handle the situation? BTW, he also preempted our wedding by getting engaged after our engagement and slipping the wedding in before his sister's.

2007-10-01 04:06:01 · 15 answers · asked by FilledWithAnger 1 in Family

2007-10-01 04:05:56 · 11 answers · asked by kissertoni 2 in Singles & Dating

A bit of history.... Ty and I have been on and off for the past 2 years, we practically grew up together.. we've been talking, and we've snuck out to see each other...
I was talking to him on the phone and he said if I messed around with other guys it would make him mad. Is he implying that he likes me? To what extent would you go if you liked someone? Would you sneak out for them, if your knee was broken?

2007-10-01 04:03:15 · 12 answers · asked by ~Just_Jessica~ 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been together for almost 2.5 years. Personally I feel that it is important to dicsuss about what do we expect for the future. Eg: How many kids , who do the cleaning, shall we hire maids and so on so forth. To me a common understanding and agreement of what to expect is important as I do not want to realise that we are not suitable for each other till too late.. He however always get irritated when these issues are brought up and says that way I am handling things show that I am treating him as an idiot. To him these things need not be discussed and are based on mutual understanding and such discussion only shows distrust. It is just so difficult to talk to him . I dun understand why he sees it that way and I am not sure how to reslove it.

2007-10-01 04:02:50 · 18 answers · asked by happie_julie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

am 24 (Female) and my boyfriend ,22, reckons he's not good looking. What do you think

This is a pic of him

http://www.friendsreunited.co.uk/fr.asp?wci=gallery

2007-10-01 04:00:02 · 1 answers · asked by mip_010 1 in Friends

well there is this guy i have been seeing for 2 weeks.. we slept together on 2nd date. we have somewhat of a unconventional friendship/relationship.... well the problem lies here. Well this guy I have been “seeing” right.. well I thought I caught him in a lie this weekend. Well I totally just said he lied and I was hurt/pissed. Well he was like it freaked me out that you acted that way.. and well I was pissed that I THOUGHT he lied to me.. he was like well I am hurt you accused me etcetc. I do believe him now.. but he’s like are we on the same page and I was like of course.. 2 adults who realize that no one is perfect.. etc. and well I was like you can either forgive & forget or whatever.. do you think he truly forgives me and is he still freaked out???? He said I was acting like we were already bf/gf and we had only known each other a short time which is true, but I need to protect myself…. What do I do to make it up to him and show him I am not a complete and utter psycho path???

2007-10-01 03:59:13 · 9 answers · asked by pink 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 03:57:39 · 7 answers · asked by Sorry deleted 4 in Friends

im a 17 yr old MALE virgin and getting chances to have s-e-x over and over but have never took them cause of the whole ''save your first time for someone special'' crap.

should i just go for it ? im sensible n will use protection and all that but i just wanna be sure if i should.. im being offered so why not? and plus guys dont care as much about their virginity as girls right ?

2007-10-01 03:55:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 03:53:43 · 22 answers · asked by meagain 4 in Singles & Dating

this is a serious question. Is the sex boring or do people spice it up

2007-10-01 03:49:41 · 14 answers · asked by halfman_hafamazn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been made an offer for standard visitation for my 4 children. this has been a 6 year fight with my ex and I'd like to know exactly what it means. my attorney says its a legal term and there is a nation standard they go by.

My children have been thru so much and my relationship with them is greatly diminished due to many times in court and the ex being in trouble 4 times over neglect and abuse issues. ranging from plain neglect ,psycal abuse (son mostly) felony neglect without harm etc. this issue is becoming more and more convoluted in the court system and the effect is showing in my kids son 9 now on prozac! I must get some relief for them!
my Ex has turned the kids against me even as far as now the kids tell me im not thier father.

2007-10-01 03:46:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i love my girlfriend. she means more to me than anything. Just recently i asked her to marry me she said yes. Anyways i feel really happy she said yes but after that she's been talking to guys and not telling me. She just dont tell me so she lies to me about everything little thing u could think of and it hurt me to know thats she does but i really love her. so i be mad at her and brake-up or just forget it?

2007-10-01 03:46:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad told me he would buy me a car but she tells me that i dont need one and shell be my transportation but yet when i want to go somewhere she tells me to find my own way, she drives me crazy with this crap!

2007-10-01 03:45:03 · 7 answers · asked by Beauti 1 in Family

Now what can I say to get them back?

2007-10-01 03:44:13 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

after he betray me and hurt me so much..
pwomising that he already change..
and he become more sinceere??
pls answer tnX!

2007-10-01 03:43:36 · 7 answers · asked by =_kzeL_= 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a month now, and when it comes time for me to head home, he always asks me to stay the night. I don't, and it isn't because I don't want to because I'd love nothing more then to be wrapped up with him all night, it's because I have never really done it before. I'm 20 he's 28, my parents like him & plus, he's my neighbor. If we lived miles apart I could understand, but I live 1/2 a mile from him. I just don't see the point in it. Is that wrong? Or am I just scared?

2007-10-01 03:41:41 · 20 answers · asked by texasgal_8705 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex girlfriend just broke up and we were going out a really long time. Now homecoming is coming up and of corse im going to go. I've been asked by a lot of girls but i dont want my ex to think that i moved on in just a week. I want to have fun but i dont want to hurt her. I think i should just go alone.

2007-10-01 03:39:52 · 11 answers · asked by Jordan M 2 in Singles & Dating