Family & Relationships - 1 October 2007

Do u want more from her??
thks for answering....

2007-10-01 05:28:27 · 19 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce

cuz that what my ex did

2007-10-01 05:23:24 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR ABOUT 6 MONTHS AND FOR THE LAST MONTH OR SO HE HAS BECOME COLD IN THE WAY HE ACTS WITH ME. HE HAS A JEKYLL AND HYDE PERSONALITY. HE IS HOT AND COLD ON DIFFERENT DAYS. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? HE GETS UPSET WHEN I MAKE PLANS ON MY OWN BUT HE AVOIDS COMPLETELY THE WHERE ARE WE HEADED CONVERSATION. ANY ADVICE?

2007-10-01 05:22:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

evrery time i have a girl aroud, and we are having sex my mates keep coming in and smacke on the *** and say GO ON MY SON!! it gets quit embarresing, 1 girl actually liked it!!

2007-10-01 05:20:24 · 20 answers · asked by slick dik 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I'm going to college next year. I'm really considering UT or other good universities in Tennessee. The problem is, I live way far from there...In Miami. I have to start looking at colleges now since I'm a junior already and the whole college thing starts at around this time. The problem is, is that I don't know what to tell my parents. They want me to go to college in Miami, and they will be devestated and think I just want to get away from them if I try to go to a school far from here. I don't have anything against my parents and I do NOT want to get away from them, but I hate Miami, and I'm originally from Chicago and I am just not used to it down here...it's so different! Anyways, I love tennesse, the mountains there, just the whole package is really nice. But my parents won't see a reason why I should pick a school in Tennesse far away from home, over one right there or in west palm beach or something. I don't know what to do and I do NOT know how to tell my parents.

2007-10-01 05:17:46 · 17 answers · asked by GJ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think this question is fairly straightforward. In addition what are the signs one can look for in any case a woman is in fact faking the big "o"?

2007-10-01 05:16:29 · 21 answers · asked by Curious1 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm gonna be a bridesmaid and i was really looking forward to it untill i found out i didn't have a say in the dress. what shall i do?

2007-10-01 05:15:19 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am Really paranoid And scared to what will happen when my boyfriend finds out. I dont want him to ask whats rong with them and i dont want him to freak. He has had sex a few times i havnt im so bloody scared. But be honest....If you were about to do it with your girlfriend for the first time and she takes her bra of and you see that her nipples arnt errect what would you think or say or do..........Would you be grossed out what i need to no............And please just be honest!
xxx

2007-10-01 05:14:58 · 12 answers · asked by Shae- 1 in Singles & Dating

just wanting information about what that word really means. thanks

2007-10-01 05:14:06 · 6 answers · asked by cuteness 4 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be ex husband an i finaly decieded to get a divorce. What am i supose to do with my rings? I don't want to give them back and then he thinks that i'm rude, but then i don't want to keep them, and he thinks how come she didnt give me back the rings , since he paid for them. What is the proper thing to do?

2007-10-01 05:08:45 · 32 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-01 05:08:12 · 28 answers · asked by Patricia Ann 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I came back to work today and one of the women that I work had the day off on Friday. There was this issue with a patient that was scheduled and how we also have another patient of the same name but younger. Well the other patient was not put into or new system yet so when the appointment was made it was made for the wrong person. When we called for the appointment the other woman was like you have the wrong person scheduled I did not make that appointment you have two Jane Smith's in the office and are always confusing me with her and sending me her CL's. She had a nasty tone and instead of being nice about it and saying "You know what I don't believe I scheduled this appointment there is another Jane Smith and you should give her a call because I believe the appt. is for her." Well the woman I work with kept insisting it was for her and I don't think she checked to see if we had another file. She asked me to check and the tab was off the other Jane Smith's file and...

2007-10-01 05:05:23 · 2 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in very serious realtionship with this guy months ago. I loved him, he was one of the first guys who actually cared for me. The only prob;em was he was too old fo rme. He lied about this age he told me he was 20 but he was 26. I was 16 at the time now I'm 17. He was trying to marry me after i finished college.

2007-10-01 05:02:55 · 16 answers · asked by Ayita 5 in Singles & Dating

i have a dilemma, i was told that my hubby won't be at my daughters wedding if she didn't want her sibling to be part of it, as in part of the bridal party. she wants her sibling to be in charge of the guest book, but this is not good enough for father. it's her day and his money.
where is the compromise supposed to come into play, when they both feel so strongly. i don't want it to be his way or no way, but he has a way of that being the case, sometimes.
what is a mother to do?

2007-10-01 04:59:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Do you have fantasies that you're just too embarassed to tell your husband or your wife? Or maybe you're just not sure of how they'll react? Is there something you wish the two of you could do together that drives you crazy every time you think about it, but you're just not sure? Mature answers from mature people only please! (after all this is the MARRIAGE and divorce section)

2007-10-01 04:58:00 · 16 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are noral serious couple after a little more than a year. Yesterday I was out for a few hours, when I got home telling him about some fun and exciting things I wanted to tell him...I was bored and was like "let me see your phone", He grabbed it back looking at his messages - I said what something I cant see? He said "yea youll prolly get mad, let me look" We have issues with him and drugs and thats usually what i get mad about if I see some textes. But thats no secret so Im mad he held his phone for a few secs. I let him be and was mad. You think there could be more to hide? Should I have not even attempted to see his phone? Later he siad he was just about to hand it to me, But I told him he chose too late. We havent talked since yesterday - I think he should approuch me about it....

2007-10-01 04:56:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, here is an example. she had at one time said she wanted an outdoor wedding at the park, no problem, but she also stated that she'd like the guests to bring covered dish and lawn chairs. i know it's her day, but come on. there has to be a way for her to understand that there are just certain things people expect when coming to a wedding.
how can i give her and her father what they want?

2007-10-01 04:55:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-01 04:51:48 · 8 answers · asked by Spartacus 3 in Singles & Dating

Why dose this girl at my work keep bugging me when I do my best to ignore her.?

This girl that I work with was rude to me from almost day one so I do my best not to look at her and try to stay away from her the best I can but she will sometimes just stare at me in a rude way trying to make me look at her why dose she want to bug me when I am trying to just stay away from her she is starting to get me very upset and one day I will say something not so nice to her if she keeps it up. She knows it bugs me but will still do it I think she is crazy.

if you hate someone like I hate her I think it would be ok to ignore her I could never see myslef talking to her it would make me sick and I could never forgive myself. I also belive she is married with a child so I find it hard to belive she wants anything from me but just to bug me.

2007-10-01 04:48:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Best friend has been divorced for over 5 years.
His wife and I were friends (w/ bennies) even before they
dated and eventually married. I even introduced them waaaaay back in the day. Out of respect for him, I have made no attempts at talking to her or anything. This past summer, we ran into each other for the first time in long time, probably over 3 years. We ended up going out to dinner, talking about life and just picked up where we were, like we were still best friends. Since then, we have had a tension and have hinted towards each other, but I still have this best friend protocal I'm living with. He has no idea that we're talking to each other.
Do I say screw it and bang her already or what???

2007-10-01 04:46:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and in this time period we both have had unsteady jobs so we haven't gotten engaged because we neededsomething steady.

It's been a few months now and we both have steady jobs and he's getting a regular paycheck but wants to buy a nice TV (which we already have) or other things which we really don't need. Meanwhile I'm thinking...you should probably buy a ring or something for me...we're finally at that point we've discussed where we'd want to start our lives together but he hasn't gotten the hint of BUY A RING with that money. His first thought tends to be anything technological. Any advise?

2007-10-01 04:45:02 · 3 answers · asked by flynn 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 04:41:51 · 26 answers · asked by Tanya C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 13 ive been going out with a girl for 1 month and weve only just hugged for the first time how do i get her to kiss me on me kiss her.
plz help

2007-10-01 04:39:47 · 12 answers · asked by mr i don't know 2 in Singles & Dating

SO I've had this guy friend for over 8 years, and I fell HARD for him immediately upon meeting him , Like a dummy I confessed my feelings & broke down crying; but he gently told me that he wasnt ready for a relationship tho he thinks the world of me & i'm one of his best friends..
The thing is we dont get together very often at all (at his choice) but when we do he somehow manages to get me in a position where I'm um, intimately touching him, which I LOVE but Now let me say that altho this must sound slutty I am not like this with ANYONE else. We've known each other 8 years now & slept together twice (he was my 1st) which I hold very dear & I wouldnt change what happened because I STILL love him to bits & see i always will. Before u say hes using me, I gave him the opportunity for #3 & he turned it down saying he was hurt i'd think that was all he came over for, he even cried a little. Is the intimatcy his way of saying he loves me tho hes not ready for commitment

2007-10-01 04:38:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi everyone, i am a gal who is going nuts and doesn't know what to do... i have been with a guy for 5 months & we were sailing smoothly until NOW! me and him we love each other alot and he recently started and managing "businesses" in manhattan 2 wks ago and told me where he works and i went to go surprise him n dint find him there. also he told me he's a "floateR" and doesnt stick in one place. AND WHEN HES WORKING I KID U NOT HE WILL NEVER CALL OR TXT ME OR MAKE TIME TO CALL ME! n e ways i went to the same place 2x supposedly where he wrks n didnt find him there, and he told me i caused trouble 2x cuz i asked other ppl bout him 2. now i asked him clearly again where he works n he doesnt want 2 tel me n told me straight up he's not gonna tell me even though im his gf..i mean i feel sumthin is very sneaky cuz hes acting like a a$$hole. i dont wana stick with sum1 who wont even reveal where he wrks n is actin like a complete idiot.. wat should i do?''he wont tell me where he wrks!!!

2007-10-01 04:35:53 · 7 answers · asked by EpicFail 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

paying it forward......

2007-10-01 04:29:57 · 5 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Singles & Dating

I have to give my daughter away, any help please.
Her and the son-in-law to be have a 12 month old baby and been living together for over 2 years, what do i have to do in church and at the reception

2007-10-01 04:29:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently bought a home. Now I have room to entertain. I thought it would be nice to have my soon to be 81 year old mother and my 86 year old father along with my kids and my sister to a nice family dinner.
I just received an email that my mom told my first cousin, whom I'm not close with, about the dinner at my house which happens to be close to where he lives. He wants to see my parents. She more or less invited him to join us. I really wanted to make this just immediate family, and she should have asked me before she invited him. It isn't a big deal to have one more person and it is her birthday. I just think she used poor judgment and I'm a little mad. What should I do?

2007-10-01 04:29:48 · 21 answers · asked by Oh Wise One 2 in Family

with another woman although she is involved with a man. She says it is not being unfaithful as there is no penetration involved.

Does anyone agree or disagree and what are the reasons?

Ta

2007-10-01 04:29:07 · 16 answers · asked by LOAJP 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

help! im scared!

2007-10-01 04:27:35 · 15 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating