Why dose this girl at my work keep bugging me when I do my best to ignore her.?
This girl that I work with was rude to me from almost day one so I do my best not to look at her and try to stay away from her the best I can but she will sometimes just stare at me in a rude way trying to make me look at her why dose she want to bug me when I am trying to just stay away from her she is starting to get me very upset and one day I will say something not so nice to her if she keeps it up. She knows it bugs me but will still do it I think she is crazy.
if you hate someone like I hate her I think it would be ok to ignore her I could never see myslef talking to her it would make me sick and I could never forgive myself. I also belive she is married with a child so I find it hard to belive she wants anything from me but just to bug me.
2007-10-01 04:48:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's just playing you and you should jsut ignore her and after a while she will stop. And if she stares just stare abck and when she looks at you with a frown give her a frown back. Use whatevers she does do it back to her and it will amke her feel foolish enough to stop. She thinks she knows how to push your buttons but show her she doesn't
2007-10-01 04:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats one hell of a situation .. i was gonna say she might have a thing for you .. you never know .. all people have different insights on flirting .. some make it very obvious .. others want to show it, but their just too shy .. and in this case there's people that are rude and obnoxious.
there are more ways but i just named a few .. i noticed u said she is married with a child .. well im sorry to say but in this world there are so many ppl that will still flirt when married regaurdless if they have a child or not ..
this may just be her way of either pushing u around cause ur not doing the job to the best of your ability .. or you could be and it's just not the way she wants it .. maybe shes getting sick of you ? .. or maybe she just really likes u and knowing shes married, that's her way of dealing with the situation .. you'll never really know unless u ask her seriously but i say just do ur job .. work - and tell her ur busy just keep doing what ur doing .. i mean just don't let that get to u .. because ur at work ur not there to fight with her ..
another thing .. if you show that her bugging you is gettin to u .. that will make her do it more, because it shows your volnerable and easy to walk on .. never show when something makes u mad because ppl will taunt the heck out of you .. that may be another main reason she does it .. i don't know why ppl get a kick out of it .. but then again the world is crazyy ..
Good Luck and i hope i helped for the most part :(
2007-10-01 04:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Bella Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, try not to be rude but something must be said. Say it only once and then continue to ignore her. If she continues you should speak with your employer and let them know that what she is doing is distracting and unprofessional. If you get passed this point and there is still no resolve, be rude.
2007-10-01 04:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really freak her out, and go out of your way to be extraordinarily nice to her. Say "hello" and ask her how she's doing, hold the door open for her. When you go to get coffee, ask her if she'd like some. Try this and see what happens. She will either leave you alone, or treat you better.
2007-10-01 04:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm thats weird maybe she suspects you, if you work with her, it depends on the type of job you work, she might think that you are either stealing, cheating, etc so you have to be careful and try ur best to ask her if there is any problem with your work as politely as you can, i hope that works!
P.S. You might have done something wronge to her without knowing especially if you're new to he job so try to find out, i dont think it will bother her and it obviously wont bother her if she likes you... GOOD LUCK
2007-10-01 04:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentleman to her & see if that changes things at work. Ask if there has been problems with employee theft there in the past. This problem is so huge! I discoved what a big problem it is by doing security work.
2007-10-01 04:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are people out there that just want to annoy others. you found one. just go to her and find out what her problem is. hay dont put it past her to like you sounds a little off but ya some women are like that. if she is indeed married doesnt mean she wont cheat. happens all the time. good luck.
2007-10-01 04:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes u or she could just be rude for no reason at all just take her to the side one day and let her know u don't like the way she's been coming off to u could she please stop it if that don't work then u might have to get nasty.*
2007-10-01 05:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by shay love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is crazy. Either that or she likes you despite the fact that she is married with a child. You should tell her that it isn't polite to stare.
2007-10-01 04:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill tell you tow things this girl so much envying you and don't as why just because she feels that way and the second one when a girl does that to a man that means she likes him.be patient and don't give her big deal and good luck.
2007-10-01 05:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by viny616 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋