I am Really paranoid And scared to what will happen when my boyfriend finds out. I dont want him to ask whats rong with them and i dont want him to freak. He has had sex a few times i havnt im so bloody scared. But be honest....If you were about to do it with your girlfriend for the first time and she takes her bra of and you see that her nipples arnt errect what would you think or say or do..........Would you be grossed out what i need to no............And please just be honest!
xxx
2007-10-01 05:14:58 · 12 answers · asked by Shae- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shoud'nt be scared... if you are confident he wont pay much attention ,trust me be confident its nothing to be ashamed of , you are special and unique and if he dosn't like it too bad 4 him ... there are millions of guys who think its even kinky lol
2007-10-01 05:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much about it. You are still beautiful. Go take a cold shower & I bet your nipples will get erect just fine. Another thing that you can do is run your 4 fingers gently up & down over your nipples. This should work. Kind of like strumming a guitar. Honestly, you should wait until you get married to have sex. But, it is your body, so do as you please. I hope that you make a wise & informed decision.
2007-10-01 05:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him beforehand, like someone here has suggested, that just shows you are ashamed of your body and lack confidence. People generally don't go around pointing out their minor flaws to others.
There are so many women out there with imperfect breasts, that if you had been born with regular nipples, chances are, there would be something else you would dislike about your breasts. You just have to accept yourself, and don't let the guy sense that you are ashamed about your body.
2007-10-01 05:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by bunny_b. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't matter to me as some(very few actually) women's' areolas are pretty big without thier nipples being overly pronounced, even looking flat or in your case inverted. (I can't remember where I read about this but somewhere on the net a long time ago.) Just talk to him about it as he'll find out sooner or later. If he really loves you it won't matter to him, because we all have minor imperfections with our bodies. After all, we are imperfect.
2007-10-01 05:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by jose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this will work for you, but on a lot of people whom nipples i've teased (really hurting teased) their nipples became more erect over time.
But I really squeeze them and pull them till the person screams. And I've put clothespins on them to make them hurt more.
And in every case, their nips got stiffer.
But I don't know if that would work in your case.
LD
2007-10-01 05:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi babe..
I wouldnt have sex with anyone for years while all my friends were off making out and having sex in our teen years. i was too scared and always kept my top on even with boyfriends and eventually i fell in love and let a guy see me with my top off but i made a big deal out of it and used to hide myself anf try and get them erect without him noticing and would only have sex in cold places.. haha i know it sounds stupid but like you i was so completely paranoid and hated myself and thought i was weird. Especially as i have small breasts i thought it looked even weirder. It got horrible when i split up with the jerk who i went out with that took me so long to show my breasts to and build up the courage and he went around callin me alien breats etc. it was mean and horrible. I continued to date but never let any guys see me with no bra on which was a big hinderance in relationship as you can tell. I got to 20 and i was in a club and drunk and i felt i looked good and i was single and for the first time in my life i felt so sexy for some reason - maybe the margaritas haha . i thought what the hell and met this bloke who was through in my town on business and was due to leave the next day. I went back to his hotel and did the deed. Wipping my bra off with no shame and not holding them and hiding them throughout sex. He said nothing about them. He kept saying wow you are so hot etc etc he loved every bit of my that night and From then on i realised... they are my breasts they are my body. Millions of women all over the world have them just like some men have them. Some guys have bent willies some guys have purply coloured penis some have a brown coloured one - we are human and different. I am now with my man and he thinks they are the bee's knees. I didnt tell him my anguish about them at first but as we grew closer i told him and he thought i was crazy! If a guy doesnt like a part of your body then thats his problem but ill tell you something darlin.. I betcha he is so goddam happy to be having sex with you he wont notice! p.s I tried something you can buy from boots chemist for £30 called nippette it brings the nipple out. it didnt work for me but apparently it has for many women..
I wish you all the luck in the world and im sorry I have written so much but i spent so many years of my life hating my body when really i should just love me for who i am cause if you dont love your breasts then why will he. Confidence!!!! key to happiness.
all the best x x x
2007-10-01 05:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you tell him about it first and if he can't handle it then it is time for him to move on down the road.
2007-10-01 05:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely natural.
A lot of women have this situation. Boobs are boobs we don't really care if your nipples are not erect as long as something of ours is.
2007-10-01 05:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
That would be a total turn on. Different, and wild. Total turn on. Blow his mind honey.
2007-10-01 05:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wouldn't bother me any but unless your married to this guy why are you having sex with him
2007-10-01 05:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋