Family & Relationships - 1 October 2007

so i have been in love and still am with this guy even though we had our differences at times.we have been and off yet now we are on the best terms.the thing is that we are attending the same university and this is his last semester here.i just found out yesterday since he just found out as well.it took me by surprise and i am trying to make the most of it.we have known each other since august 2005 so it is hard to let go.i am trying to spend a lot of time with him and get the heck out of here and graduate since he is willing to wait for me so i have 50 credit hours and am pushing for 15 credit hours in the spring and 3-6 behind my parents back which is unfair since they pay yet i wanna be with him at the same time since i dont know i love him and it will be weird not seeing him at least 3 times a week on campus or having dinner or me spending the night at his place.i am trying to get away for my own sake and have my own life as well.how are we supposed to keep in touch?

2007-10-01 06:37:43 · 1 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

i see alot of women living at home with their parents, and its seems norm or ok , while men is seen as a "momma's boy".

2007-10-01 06:37:17 · 20 answers · asked by kathy c 2 in Family

I have lost interust in sex. Not too long ago I was described as a "nympho". The last few months I just don't care to date to get into a relationship to get to that point. Any sujestions? Ever have this problem?

It started when I was lead on by someone then we did things then he said he wasn't interusted after that. Now I am dating a really nice guy but have no interust in sex. I am thinking about breakin it off so I can get over my problem with out hurting him.

2007-10-01 06:34:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a few items I need to a shop for, or do you know of a better one?

2007-10-01 06:34:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy only thing is he has a gf at mo which i wouldnt do anything bout unless he was single. Shes in uni at the mo so were just friends. Anyway hes had three relationships in total 2 lasting a year each and 1 for the latest one 2 anyway he has been asking me if theres any guys in the pipeline or if i want kids when im older which is a personal thing to ask someone. I havent known him long been to lunch with him in work twice and went to look at his new flat. Is it his way of checking im single? He just came out with it walking down the street

2007-10-01 06:32:55 · 9 answers · asked by chinwag 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would like to renew on our 10 year anniversary (3 years away). Had a very quiet ceremony first time round

2007-10-01 06:31:09 · 3 answers · asked by heather c 3 in Weddings

Is it normal for your guy friend to ask personal questions like if u want to have kids and is there any guys on the scene. My male friend is very flirty and has been asking me the questions. Im a gal by teh way . I havent known him that long

2007-10-01 06:28:22 · 12 answers · asked by slinkthemink 1 in Friends

help! im scared! i dont want to pay for anything!

2007-10-01 06:28:17 · 18 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 06:27:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I starting dating 8 years ago, and we have been married for a little over 5 years now. I have an 11 yr old from previous marriage. He knew before we got married that I wouldn't be able to have children and he said he was ok with that. Now he's telling me that he's been lying to himself and me for the last 5 years and that he has started to regret getting married at all. I told him that there were things we could do to have a child but he said that he didn't know if he was still in love with me or just love me as a friend; and that it wouldn't be fair to anyone if he didn't want to continue being my husband. I am still very much in love with him and always will be, he knows this, but when I told him that he said he just needed some space. He doesn't want for either of us to leave, just sleep in different rooms. Is there any hope for us? I am willing to do whatever it takes for him to be happy. What can I do to get through this? It's really ripping my heart out.

2007-10-01 06:27:49 · 28 answers · asked by rcarnalla@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want a man who's: 1.) Be nice to me, and be a gentlemen, not a player whos looking for a booty call. I want him to be nice to everyone else.
2.) I want him to talk about his problems to me, I want a man who doesnt mind crying, someone i could talk to about my problems. I want him to release his emotions not keep them all bottled up inside. I want him to be sensitive to women.
3.) I want him to treat me like his friend not his sex toy.
4.)I want him to be really funny.

I'm sorry, I just want someone to be with, and someone i could talk to. Everytime someone has a crush on me, it makes me think, wait I must be beautiful if someone loves me.

Am I asking too much from men?

2007-10-01 06:27:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have you ever squeezed a big butt? what did you think? random question. i had a friend that was going off about how she did that and how it was amaaazing. i dont get it. why?

2007-10-01 06:23:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have inored him countless times. I have told him to leave me alone to go away, but he wont and every time I log off that then back in he can im me. I have tried every thing I can think of. Please help me
email me at my other email it is with yahoo.com and is the name I am useing as deslpay name thank you

2007-10-01 06:21:45 · 17 answers · asked by nightmare_shadow_2000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife had an affair a few years ago. It was a long distance thing with an old boyfriend. I first discovered it because of some flirty e-mails on the computer. Then, over a period of months, it came out that he had come to our city to meet her, and that she had arranged to meet him out of state as well, etc.

Well, we are over that. We've been in counseling for a few years, and that has helped. It is a challenging process. I've learned a lot about myself, and her, and our relationship. Its very positive.

But here's the rub: She never admitted to actually having sex with him. Its weird, but that is the only part that is still bothering me. I've gotten to the point where I really don't care one way or another, but I still feel betrayed by the fact that she never admitted it. I haven't brought any of this up for over a year.

So, do I just leave it alone, or do I bring it up? If I bring it up, what if she still denies it? Its not about the sex at this point. I just want the truth.

2007-10-01 06:15:00 · 29 answers · asked by AngiesHusband 5 in Marriage & Divorce

okay gurls if your boyfreind/husband of 3+ years(or however long, thats just how long iv been with my man) had been asking and hinting for years that he wanted to have sex with you in front of someone would you do it? the other person would not touch you at all! my boyfriend has been telling me forever that this is his fantasy and he really really wants to do it!! i want to make him happy but im really nervous! i would feel like such a s l u t!!! and guys what would you think about your woman afterwards?? please dont report me this is a serious question that i really need as many answers as possible!! and please no rude answers!!! thanks in advance!!!!

2007-10-01 06:07:54 · 19 answers · asked by lizzylou859 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-01 06:03:31 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My step-father died almost a year ago but did not leave a will. He was my legal guardian since I was about 14. I have recently had family problems with my mother and we are currently not speaking. Therefore I have not heard wether or not I am entitled to anything. He was married to my mum for about 5 years I think and he has 2 other children from a previous marriage who I assume are entitled to something. Do I have the same rights?

2007-10-01 06:02:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hmmmm, its date 3...should i invite him over to chill at my apartment? i already chilled with him at his apartment on date 2 after our movie date. do guys care about how apartments look? how do i set a nice intimate mood without being too romantic? will he expect sex? he playfully mentioned "sleeping in my bed" among other sexy flirtacious comments that didn't bother me WHATsoever *wink wink, tho I think I'm not ready to do the do yet. oh AND, should we get drinks and then go to my apt...he's coming from out of town.

2007-10-01 06:01:21 · 19 answers · asked by RN81 1 in Singles & Dating

All the kits i've found are for children.We want the ones made for adults!!!

2007-10-01 05:59:37 · 5 answers · asked by debik26041 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, I noticed that I have a pattern in my (so called) relationships (to have physical interaction and go out for a few times but not really get involved emotionally and in no way to enter a controlling relationship where I am influenced or bossed. I can be pretty secretive too without any reason (I don't cheat); I just want something to be left for myself.
to make a long story short I have long periods that I stay alone and in the few relationships I've been , to be honest I don't consider them real relationships because I wasn't really communicating with the guy (I thought he was inferior intellectually to me) and it was more of a sexual outlet. I suppose there comes a time when you really want to be in a real relationship.
my father was abusive in many ways and we never communicated and I guess I loved him but he wasn't very bright but always tried to force his ideas to me. in a nutshell a very disappointing experience of fatherhood.
I wonder if that is the reason I can't let go

2007-10-01 05:55:37 · 34 answers · asked by sarah kay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

dont want to be with him but i want to be with someone else but dont want to cheat

2007-10-01 05:54:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we had an argument about an issue we just dont see eye to eye on we jut look at it different.. were both annoyed at each other.. not sure how to make it right so we can get back to normal life..... any ideas.... yes been married 12 years and still have these issues...(yuck)

2007-10-01 05:53:39 · 10 answers · asked by halfman_hafamazn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-01 05:49:15 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I heard they have a credit card you can get to pay for the stuff. I don't have a lot of money, nor a lot of credit. Do you think I would be apporved? How easy is it and how do you apply for one?

2007-10-01 05:48:20 · 10 answers · asked by luvinmykevin 4 in Weddings

ok is there any guys on here that is between 14 and 12???

2007-10-01 05:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by witl_bianca 1 in Singles & Dating

what are the feeling you have ? what seems to be the first things to go ? been married for 6 years , but be with him for 19 teen years . Have 2 kids under 18 years old.. what do I do I love him , but not in love with him .. really do not even want to have sex with him any more ..

2007-10-01 05:46:38 · 13 answers · asked by nikkie k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have filed for divorce and he changed for a while so I cancelled the papers and now he is back to his old ways!! I cant imagine living another 20 years of misery with this man and his bad vibes. He just brings me down to him bad mood!
YES WE HAVE DONT THE COUNSELING THING AND NO I AM NOT GOING TO PRAY TO GOD TO MAKE IT BETTER!!

2007-10-01 05:44:24 · 34 answers · asked by L 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Have or are you cheating ?
Why ?
Where you caught ?
was it some one close ?
how long did it go one for ? one night , days , or months ?
Do you feel guilty ?
Girls , Did you concive a child ?
Tell me your thoughts . Thank you

2007-10-01 05:40:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am quite attracted to him but he is a bad boy with a wild past. He always asks me for money and takes off and does not return. When I ask h im he come up with excuses. I stopped calling but he still calls me. I am now dating other men and wh en this man found out, he now is calling more and seems jealous. He called last night and wanted to know if my 'male dinner guest' had left (at midnight) when i had to get up for work, he woke me up. He doesnt seem interested in sex m uch either and has a problem in that department. I have invited him to sleep over and he has taken off. He may be into drugs. I see him as my future husband this sutuaiton is making me depressed! How can I change a bad boy to love me and change his ways.

2007-10-01 05:33:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have done the three some with a lady but now she wants a 2men, just wondering any advise from someone who has done this thank you

2007-10-01 05:31:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce