we have done the three some with a lady but now she wants a 2men, just wondering any advise from someone who has done this thank you
2007-10-01 05:31:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she got the threesome with the other woman going
2007-10-01 06:32:10 · update #1
Done both....now divorced from first hubby...still want to do it?
2007-10-01 05:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Wow. You know, it seems to me that whether or not this is a good thing will depend on what you are looking for. If you guys are trying to replace something you are missing, this is a really bad idea, and so is a threesome with a woman, for that matter. If you are looking to share an experience, though, and get closer together through a sharing, I think it can be a wonderful idea. The whole thing has to do with the "why" of the activity. If you are doing this for all the right reasons, go for it, but it is always a good idea to have the ground rules laid out. One common practice among swingers, is that you handle any "connection" with the guy while she handles "connection" with the girl, in other words, you make the arrangements over the phone with the male. Another practice some couples like to employ is the "no contact after" rule, which means the male will not calll either of you after the night, that you will always be the initiator. You dont want a single guy trying to pressure your wife into a one-on-one meeting. I can tell you first hand that some of my best sexual experiences were in threesomes, foursomes, and even more-somes, but you have to make sure you and your wife are good with everything. My wife has only recently been interested in the lifestyle, though I have been invloved for several years, and she knew before we met that I dont have traditional values of Monagamy. Whe has always respected that, and in turn, I speak with her and respect her views on my activities. As with all other aspects of a relationship, just keep open the lines of communication, and have a great time, if thats what you want to do!
2007-10-01 12:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by BIG P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never tried either but seems fair if she allowed another woman .But be careful that it is only a sexual thing and that any 3 some could break a marriage . But there are many couples that do this and stay faithful to each other ,requires a lot of trust.
2007-10-01 12:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I think these people are confused..What i believe your asking is how do you deal with a threesome with two men..Not as tough as you think...You simply tell the other guy what is and is not OK..It's no different the the talk your wife had with the other lady
2007-10-01 13:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you expect?When she gave you a 3 some with another woman she was setting you up for this.You had your fun now it's her turn.Shut up and do it!I had a friend that loved to watch his wife with other guys and then cried like a baby when she fell in love with one of them and left him for one of the guys he brought home.There are no free rides and NO woman does something for nothing.If she is doing something she WILL expect something in return.
2007-10-01 12:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by notagain49 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends. Did she want the threesome with another woman or did she give in to your wants? If it was your request, then it is only fair that you should grant her request. I wish my wife would go along with this.
2007-10-01 12:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by Gary H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just better make damn sure you're the best and biggest working penis in the room. Because you'd hate to walk in there and pull out an average d!ck and the other guy pulls out a tree limb and pounds your wife better than you ever have on your best day.
2007-10-01 12:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's only fair. Im sure it was your idea for two women, so she should be able to have two men. In my opinion three somes are BAD for realationships. You've started the snowball effect..
2007-10-01 12:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Silac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she wasn't jealous the first time around, and she didn't run away with that other woman. You better make sure you return the favor, don't be jealous and don't run away with the dude! LOL
Enjoy!
2007-10-01 12:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anthonylikes2...☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool that you two are open like that. From what I've heard there is too much jelousy with two men. I guess it all depends on how secure you are. If you think that there's a chance you won't be able to handle it, then be honest with your wife.
2007-10-01 12:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by good girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only fair you help her out like she did for you.
make sure the guy is not bigger than you in the downstairs department or she will want a repeat.
live in or near Phoenix? im me.
2007-10-01 15:51:34 · answer #11 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋