2007-10-01 05:49:15 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Quick answer: Get rid of all the liquor. Sadly, it may not be this easy. There's different factors to contemplate. For example, is he violent? If he is, maybe you should just leave because it isn't safe to stay. If he isn't, you may have to file for either a separation or divorce and have him served. You can request in the filing that he not be allowed on the premises until the issue is resolved via the legal system.
2007-10-01 05:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by CUrias 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move his alcohol to a tent in the backyard.
You can't reason with the irrational and if you have decided to separate, then leave.
If his drinking causes enough problems for you to attribute the deterioration of your relationship on alcoholism, then you should probably do anything to put space between you and him immediately.
There's no law that states 'because your husband is drinking he must be the one to leave the house'. If you REALLY need him gone and you have nowhere else to go then, provided assault actually happens call the Police. Otherwise, leave.
The best thing you can do is 1) talk to your husband, 2) talk to a lawyer.
2007-10-01 05:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by jct101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is prone to violence when he drinks then you get a restraining order and have him removed from the house by the police. The proccess is not hard to do. The police department can help you get the forms filed with the courts. If he is not violent or threatening when he drinks then you may have to move out and file for divorce. Either way, talk to a lawyer to find out the laws in your area. Many will do a free consultation. Good luck.
2007-10-01 05:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had an alcoholic ex and its very hard for them to take a hint. if he wrongs u, u should call the police and make a police report. after the getting the report go down to the family court house and get a restraining order on him. then while the order stands, file for divorce. u shouldnt have to put up with his drinking problem if u dont want to. i hope all works out for u. good luck.
2007-10-01 05:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by shutupndrive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've tried before then you know what all the games are he'll play to get you to let him stay. I suggest first off knowing what games to expect and understanding them thoroughly. Google anything that has to do with chemical dependancy, co-dependancy, or alcoholism so you have something to bring to the table. I looked up co-dependancy and since then I've gotten my husband to stop drinking all together. Good luck with what ever you do, I know it's hard but you can do it.
2007-10-01 06:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make plans ahead of time and be ready for your shot. Pack his stuff and put it outside. change the locks to the house and lock the windows etc. Get a seperate bank account if you do not have one and take the money out of the joint account.
Tell him that it is over and that you want him to get out. He will object and you just say that it is over and leave it alone. Next time he leaves the house put outall his stuff and call the alerted locksmith. By time he gets back he is out. Do not open the door or let him back in. He'll get the message.
2007-10-01 05:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce. You might have to move out and dont tell him where your going. If he refuses to leave be mean to him. Dont keep giving him chances. If he wont move out then the best todo is move and dont tell him where.Dont let him take advantage of u.
2007-10-01 05:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by kenniana m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lovely Husband should be moved in
Lousy Husband should be moved out of your life totally
2007-10-01 05:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make things easy for both of you...
You move out and a divorce should be automatically permitted after living one year apart.
2007-10-01 05:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you get a alcoholic wife with non minor kids to move out?
2016-10-10 15:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋