Family & Relationships - 1 October 2007

Seems like everyone i know is getting married, having kids, or starting new relationships. I cant seem to find any man i click with. Either they are moving away, we arent compatible, i'm not into them, they're not into me. I'm getting worried...and there's nothing i can do. Im attractive, smart, good job, in shape, in grad school...I'm not a loser..why is it so difficult?

2007-10-01 09:00:07 · 19 answers · asked by meggerpepper 1 in Singles & Dating

Every guy (well most ever guy) I have ever been with has told me at some point that I was the best they ever had? This annoys me b/c I feel like it's a bunch of crap. Do guys just say that or WHAT?

2007-10-01 08:56:53 · 9 answers · asked by Lola 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going through a divorce and I met this guy through a friend, we both have children. I am attracted and he seems to be also. He called and would txt me here and there and we have hung out a few times with friends and that and we eventually slept together, it was bad, he came within 10 seconds, no joke either. Well since then I have not heard hardly anything from him. I like him, we can always do something about the sex later. I've txt him and asked him out a few times since then and he declined. Well he txt me the other night and him and his daughter ended up coming over and haging out at my house, we ended up sleeping together again and I found some new info out, he is not circumsized and claims he's always had this problem of coming so quickly and thinks the reason is because he is not circumsized. I'm just wondering what people think may be going on with this guy? I'm kind of confused as to what his intentions are.

2007-10-01 08:54:58 · 4 answers · asked by crchtnbbb 1 in Singles & Dating

okei...so i like this guy named justin...and i think he likes me 2...but im not relle sure....he always plays with my hair and today he was rubbin ma shoes(i know...its weird..lolz) and he always pokes my face and plays with my earings..and we ALWAYS talk....one time he got dissappointed because i changed my hair from straight to curly and he liked it straight...do you think he likes me...or am i just imagining things?

2007-10-01 08:54:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend's birthday is in a couple of weeks, and I have NO clue what to buy her. She is into cooking, scrapbooking and video games. The problem is that anything she says she wants, she goes and buys, leaving nothing for her friends to get her. Any suggestions??

2007-10-01 08:53:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I are taking care of his sister's (my sister-in-law) children while she is away for 5 months. We have no children ofour own. The children have different fathers. Each child of course have his own personality. It's been hard on us and the children. One requires a little more disciple then the others. (Her middle son went off on his teacher today because he could not do something he wanted to do) Should my husband be the only one disciplining him or should I also share in this responsibility. I feel because I am not their mother, my sister-in-law would have a problem with me disciplining her children. What should be done? Also what oter ways of disciple can you use. (he's had his game boy, the TV taken, staying in his room, standing in the corner, his favorite movie taken away, spanking) nothing bothers him. He is only five and he cares about nothing. His grandmother told me that even this summr he got angry while with her and he turned over a table. What can be done?

2007-10-01 08:50:13 · 16 answers · asked by good-n-plump 1 in Family

A man who all of sudden starts picking his greys, a dying his hair. Staying away from home for reasons that don't sound to kosher" in that, his friends are always the excuse. (Not being a fool as to what it really is 'cheating) Should i run for cover or do they get over it, I AM A FIGHTER FOR WHATS MINE.

2007-10-01 08:49:39 · 1 answers · asked by rainwatergirl 1 in Singles & Dating

is there better time to go through with it than some other time?

2007-10-01 08:43:59 · 14 answers · asked by ballyhoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Our wedding anniversary is coming up and I can't decide between
~ a season pass for snowboarding
~ weekend away

2007-10-01 08:40:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with my boyfriend for neary a year he is a bit older than me (hes 32 am 18) and already has two kids of his own, i am concerned that there wont be a future for me in this relationship hes had a family etc but one day i might want one of my own and from the way he talks i dont think he would want that, its not a definte "i must have it" but is it too much to cut out of my life just for a bloke? i do love him n i wuld be in a state if we were to break up but it could affect me in the future if i wanted more! im not sure what to do, my friends think that he shuld hav considered this we started goin out becos im younger and havnt lived my life, but im i over reactin?

2007-10-01 08:39:46 · 25 answers · asked by xtootsyboopx 1 in Singles & Dating

Christina Aguilera

In my opinion

2007-10-01 08:39:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok... My husband and I got married a year this December. No one was present but our son and 2 witnesses. His parents were told but didn't come, Well all of a sudden...his mother is ranting and raving that she was NEVER told of anything, never invited nothing..well we know better but she's an alcoholic and doesn't remember anything anyways...but now she wants to us to renew our vows FOR HER. We are not willing and telling her so and telling her that a BAR is not a place we would ever consider simply does not work. Telling her to back off does not work either. She truly believes that we should do this for her...and that I need to learn to "roll with the flow".. I think she should have gotten ride of the booze bottle and shown up for her son (which would have been the first she'd ever done anything for him) Short of losing her on my mothers 300 acres of wooded land...what can we do?

2007-10-01 08:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

First a little background info: she fights all the time with her boyfriend, tried to break us up by saying little things that she doesn't like about him, or how he treats me, and she is pretty unstable at times.
Anyway, she calls me this morning to tell me that my boy (lets call him ray), called her and tells her that he loves her, he doesn't want her to move, if it didn't work out with me would she consider going out with him, etc etc etc.
I just called "Ray" at work, and he said he didn't get in until 8:20, he didn't call her, he didn't have time to talk about this at work, he loves me to death (and more than anything) and we will talk about this when we both get home.
he can't talk on the phone at work, so it's understandable why he wouldn't talk now, however, i was crying really hard and i thought he might stay on the phone with me to talk.
my friend can be sneaky at times, but i never thought she'd do anything like this. and i trust him with all my heart, but when i think

2007-10-01 08:35:03 · 9 answers · asked by sparkle7776896969 3 in Singles & Dating

I do not know why.... he is so so good person that no answer me when I attack him... I strike him, and he never reacts.... Why?... I want that he is more evil, but is so good person....
What can I do please?.... Thank you very much.
Melbourne,Vic,Australia

2007-10-01 08:34:12 · 13 answers · asked by Marie J 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine's in Vermont.

2007-10-01 08:33:55 · 26 answers · asked by Chichiri 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend wants to try A N A L S E X wiv me, i think it hurts and i find it pretty sick doin it that way...but my bf says it wont hurt if he uses lubricant...but im still insure about it...
have you ever tried it???
does it hurt???
do you think is a bit sick???
My bf is 21 and im 16, i told him that maybe wen im older.
what do you think???

2007-10-01 08:30:27 · 85 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today is my and my husband's one-year wedding anniversary. We were going to go out to dinner to celebrate, but we have a barely three-month-old baby and our babysitter just canceled. What should we do? (I'll repeat, we have a three-month-old baby! lol) I canceled our dinner reservations because it wasn't a baby-friendly kind of place. To make dinner at home, it's too last minute to make it as special as I'd like. (I'd have to go food shopping too...)

2007-10-01 08:30:09 · 17 answers · asked by Susan S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-01 08:29:18 · 13 answers · asked by Odile O 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

know i did i found the lady of my dreams my friends told her that her so she knew and when i had the chance to talk to her IT WAS LIKED I CHOKED OR SOMETHING THERE WAS SO MUCH PRESSURE IT COULDNT SAY A THING!!!! and everyday i regret it %1000 have u ever had that feeling

2007-10-01 08:27:17 · 7 answers · asked by angry stewie 4 in Singles & Dating

This past Saturday was my husband's 30th birthday. Originally I was going to buy him NFL tickets but then he wanted a tatoo so I said I'd get him that instead. He had to work the evening shift Friday night and was supposed to be home at 12:30am. He did not come home until 3:30am. He said he was drinking with his buddies right after work. So the next day, his birthday, he sleeps in a bit. He wakes up at noon-ish and we watch a movie. Then he has to leave for his tatoo appt. I thought I was going with him but he made excuses why I shouldn't go. He gets home at 9pm, gets showered etc. and goes out with his friends till 7am. I get mad b/c we spent a total of 2 hours togethter for his b-day. I wanted to do some special things for him and didn't get to, so he keeps calling me selfish b/c it's his b-day and should be able to do what he wants to do without getting $hit from me. Am I being selfish, or do I have a right to be angry?

2007-10-01 08:23:48 · 35 answers · asked by Jenny D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-01 08:23:37 · 8 answers · asked by Dianne S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can be really thoughtless sometimes and that causes him to be upset.

2007-10-01 08:22:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my ex and I tried the whole "remaining friends" thing. (which obviously doesnt work) And it was going ok for a while, and then yesterday he called me and told me he needed to pick up a few things. He walked in my house with hickies all over his neck. It bothered me a little, but he has a right to do what he wants. Then as he was going through my room getting some of his things, he asked me where I kept the condoms and then asked if he could take some! Why in the h*ll would he do this?? I kicked him out of my house, because I thought it was disrespectful and knew that he was trying to rub his new girlfriend in my face. I then texted him and told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, and he acts like he doesnt know what he did wrong, and thinks I'm just being jealous. Am I wrong here???

2007-10-01 08:22:05 · 31 answers · asked by Ray Ray 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 08:21:29 · 30 answers · asked by Odile O 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he thinks he's right about everything, and he's self-centered and nothing matters to him unless you know what! he thinks he is more smarter than me despite his military career and he always makes me feel so small inside and i can't stand it! even when i dont' work (we have a kid) he says everything even my credit card is HIS cuz he worked for it. what kind of problem does that describe! i need a excuse to leave him cuz i am sick and tired of it! (we're not in love anymore)

2007-10-01 08:19:53 · 20 answers · asked by silltnwild 2 in Family

ok so i have a class with this guy, he kept staring at smiling at me in class and I didn't know why he keep doing that, he was friendly when i talk to him.. than i realize he might like me when i got home and I kind of started to develop feelings for him cause he seem like a nice guy.

I kept thinking about him a lot..well the problem is I avoid the guys I like..so the next day..I avoided him..but I thought he would talk to me instead he is avoiding me now..he's always late to class but now he's early..and im kind of surprise..he seems kind of weird now..he talks alot in class but he talks kind of weird now, he seem kind of mad at me.

dont know why..I think he thinks I dont like him cause i started to avoid him when..he started to like me? and I feel stupid around him, cause he's really smart and the guys i use to like were all players,they hurt me alot. sry if im ranting..but I dont know what to do.. I feel bad about it

2007-10-01 08:16:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a girl last year,but at that time i was dating another girl and she was dating another guy.last week we met and we went out for the weekend.the problem is we never talk about our feelings toward each other.i do like her.she's so affectionate kind of girl and its hard for me to know what's her feeling towards me.she complaint to me how bad her ex-bf was.we hold each other hands but no kissing part yet.what do you guys think??she likes me??or she's just killing her time with me??cause sometimes she gives a lot of excuse when i ask her out.we went out twice since we met last week.

2007-10-01 08:14:14 · 4 answers · asked by yankees 1 in Singles & Dating

want to avoid any "ghetto" areas and would like good schools,

How is Nanuet, Spring Valley in Rockland.....
anything in the 200K's anymore?
thanks everyone

2007-10-01 08:13:19 · 6 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is men are so into boobs? I notice that if I used photos with cleavage showing off men would send me message but if I used a friendly photo and wearing a descent T-shirt or blouse, clothes they wouldn't send any messages.

2007-10-01 08:11:36 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 08:09:18 · 16 answers · asked by Me 2 in Marriage & Divorce