is there better time to go through with it than some other time?
2007-10-01 08:43:59 · 14 answers · asked by ballyhoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when you are truly tired of all the bs that person has put you through . and the old saying is enough is enough . that pretty much says it all . good luck .
2007-10-01 08:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you are asking the question because it is on your mind trying to find a check list of when to divorce but there is no such guide in this. Just remember that if you are thinking about it chances are that you are little ahead emotionally than your spouse will be and that is the rub in this game. This is the hardest decisions to make but what helped me make it was to do a time line of the relationship and to see where and for how long things turned bad then decide whether anything I could do to make it better when I found no recourse other than ending the relationship it was time to do so. I hope this helps.
2007-10-01 16:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you tried to work things out and it couldn't be work out. Or if one of you are cheating. If your spouse doesn't respect you at all at anytime. It's best to get a divorce but it's cheaper filing for dissoultions unless there's something you can't agree on like custody of the children,house,vehicles,etc... Just make sure you have enough money for those too.
2007-10-01 16:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is never a better time.....Unless you are actually looking forward to the divorce....then do it now
2007-10-01 15:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
you should divorce when you feel like the relationship is over when you consider your significant other nothing but a friend and look at him as nothing more. you will be happier and you can move on to where your not stuck in a marriage of convience.
2007-10-01 15:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by basic324 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
There's no better time like the present. Once it's something you want, why drag it out?
2007-10-01 15:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by AlS 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its like a band aid..better rip it off quick and fast and get it the hell over with.
2007-10-01 15:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
before you split save you a good sum of money make plans on what your going to do. then make your move
2007-10-01 16:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask maybe this is not the option for you. Try marriage counseling and see if you can save your marriage.
2007-10-01 15:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! IF U GONNA DO IT JUST DO IT. STOP HAVING SECOND THOUGHTS ABOUT ABOUT TO ME IF U HAVING SECOND THOUGHTS, THAT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR MIND IS NOT MADE UP JUST YET!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-01 15:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋