2007-10-01 08:23:37 · 8 answers · asked by Dianne S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Submit. They are always right, right?
2007-10-01 08:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by ranch_tester 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming here that you are actually asking how to recover FROM the relationship...
In that case...recovering from a personality disordered person (NPD, BPD) is not an easy road...the damage done to your self esteem is the first thing you need to get a handle on.
Journalling and writing down all the crappy stuff they pulled, all the selfish, self serving, narcissitic behaviors and remind yourself of why you are NOT in this relationship any more. Finding others who can relate to what you've been thru can help as well. Get back your self esteem, work on you, find hobbies and other things that will occupy your time rather than thinking about somebody who will never be able to appreciate you.
2007-10-01 09:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by Amy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship with a narcissist is going to bring u nothing but frustration because no matter what u do, it will never be good enough. while your stringing from each rejection, new demands are being made that u won't be able to meet.so why would u want to recover this relationship? they will only use u to for fill their goals, than kick u to the curb when everything doesn't go their way, its a loosing battle.
2007-10-01 08:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? Unless that person is willing to change on their own and become aware they aren't the only person in the world, you are asking for lots of heartache.
My advice is to move on. Learn to love and respect yourself and find someone who will love and respect you. A relationship is about each person giving 100% of themselves to the other and without that attitude in both people, you are asking for a very rocky and unhappy (and unhealthy) relationship, not only for you but any children you might have later.
2007-10-01 10:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck. Narcissists, are only concerned with their own feelings, they do not consider others feelings. Any one living with them become the victims. There is some information on line about the problem. You can read up on it, knowledge is a good defense. Go to 'Narcissistic Personality disorder'. I feel for you.
2007-10-01 08:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like getting over being a Democrate, YOU WILL SURVIEVE!!!
2007-10-01 08:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even try...You'll never be as important to them as they are to themselves anyway.
2007-10-01 08:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why bother... he'll /she'll always be better than you.
2007-10-01 08:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by teritaur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋