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He talked to me about it recently and now that he feels like I know too much he has kind of shut me away too because I called him on his patterns.

He gets in relationships, moves in with the person, lasts about 1-2 years, then he decides it's over but he doesn't tell the other person. He just looks for a job in a new state and moves away and in the process breaks up with the person.

Then he shacks up again, gets a new job, one or two years later moves again, etc.

He also can't handle feeling bad. If someone says something to him that makes him feel bad (because he really did something wrong he should feel bad about) he gets very angry with the person and cuts them out of his life forever.

I have never met anyone like this before, and I am kind of feeling like trying to stay friends after these years is too hard. But I don't know what I should do.

2007-10-01 11:35:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my brother is getting married in two weeks. his friends are throwing him a bachelor party.....but his friends are all losers and have no money for a stripper. i don't want my brother to miss out on a bachelor party~~~!!! this is only his second marriage and this wife to be is MEAN!!! once he's married he won't be allowed to to anything. what i'm getting at is...would it be ok if i was the stripper at my brother's bachelor party? i would do it for free, as a wedding gift, so that would save everyone money. what do you think??? and don't judge me!!! i'm an old pro at this, i used to be a go go dancer in the 60's, so i do know what i'm doing.

2007-10-01 11:34:01 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Had a party and now my robot is missing.....Is it common to expect that if you have a party, someone will take a souvenir or two?

2007-10-01 11:33:46 · 2 answers · asked by Sunny Days 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, i am in seventh grade and i really want a cell phone. My parents say things like
No, you can use one of our phones
no, Molly, you're too little

I am pretty responible, my parents lend me cell phones to go to football games with, i always answer when they call and don't text and rack up there bills. Do you have any reasons why i should have 1?

2007-10-01 11:33:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was jus wondering and needed to know

2007-10-01 11:32:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's say that there is a party with friends. You aren't feeling to good so you leave to the kitchen. Five minutes later, John slowly walks by glancing in.
Does this mean that John cares for you or is he just weird?

2007-10-01 11:31:14 · 3 answers · asked by Cowgirl26 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been with him for over two years...and we have had ups and downs just like anyone else...I love him and I hope he loves me..(he shows it sometimes and I do beleive he does)...lately..well since we have been together he has been lying about little things but I feel as though if he lies about little things...then this will get him in the habit of lying about big things that are serious. he has lied about two major things that has jepordized our relationship...I love him and really want to make this work...I have talked to him about this and sometimes it seems as though we come to an understanding but then it all changes again...I pray abput this relationship and I want it to work..I feel insecure when I am with him cause it seems as though other woman are his main target.I would really like this relationship to be based on loving me as his girlfriend..but he always checking out other girls and doing other things that hurts me.I dont think a man should look cause he is a man

2007-10-01 11:27:31 · 15 answers · asked by old 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello,

My husband and I have been married for about 5 months. In that time, he was discharged from the air force. It took him about 2 months to find a new job. In this time, I had to have surgery, and had the only income coming in. Now he has this job, but he doesn't seem to understand work ethic. He constantly calls in late or just doesn't go in at all. I'm amazed he hasn't been fired yet. I don't understand why it is so difficult. He will claim he doesnt feel good, but to be honest, I just am not buying that anymore. On days when he doesnt "feel good" I come home and he seems FINE.

Before he moved in, my apartment was pretty neat and tidy, a brand new apartment. Since him moving in, the carpet is stained beyond recognition, there are constantly beer bottles everywhere that I can't keep up with, and he has stained furniture and made a mess in general. Everytime I try and bring it up, (the mess and the work) he turns it around and accuses me of calling him a loser...help!

2007-10-01 11:24:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've fallen out with one of my best friends over eating problems [which I've got help for] and we've had a huge argument in which she's really upset me to the point of self harming, told me I'm attention seeking and to piss off. I told her I wouldn't speak to her again. I really don't wanna lose her, she's a fantastic friend and I just wish my problems would stop getting in the way of my friendships. Do I deserve friends? Should I just give up and hide away from the world? I don't know what to do. I feel so bad for everything I've put my friends through, but, at the same time, I need my friends, they've helped me through everything so much. Without my friends, I'm nothing. At all.

But.. Also without friends, I'll just give up on myself. Let my eating problems spiral. It won't matter if no one cares.

Someone, please, what should I do? Try and resolve the friendship or leave it and let her have her life back.

If the person this is about sees this, I'm sorry.

2007-10-01 11:24:40 · 9 answers · asked by .x*Emma*x. 2 in Friends

I know I'm guilty - she says 'I told you this yesterday' but I honestly can't remember. I'm not ignoring her. Why does this happen? And no, I wasn't watching TV or on the computer! :)

2007-10-01 11:23:23 · 11 answers · asked by techtipper 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Have any of you done a threesome either with your current man or with an ex? If so, would you do it again?

2007-10-01 11:23:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1. sandals or shoes

2. taller or shorter

2007-10-01 11:22:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend deleted pictures of me and my exhusband off my computer without my knowledge. He didn't mention anything to me about them offending him. He still had pictures of his ex on his computer before he transferred them to discs.

I found out when I was looking for a picture of my boyfriend. I found out he deleted that one too. Would you be mad? Why would he do this instead of talking to me about it?

2007-10-01 11:17:04 · 13 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If you gave them the chance how successful was your relationship?

2007-10-01 11:16:53 · 13 answers · asked by Hi 4 in Singles & Dating

I believe I am ready to move on with my life with my kids. My husband is playing games with me telling me he wants me back, but he isnt tring to work on anything. He left Friday with his friend to Michigan and never called to say good bye to our daughter and I am not sure he is comeing back. Should I fight to get him to come back to me and the kids or just let my life go on?

2007-10-01 11:15:32 · 10 answers · asked by crystalr45683 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love boys that are of a mixture. I like Cubans, Brazillians, and Italians. I love a boy that is from another country. Most of all I like the everyday white boy. Why is that? Oh, and I'm hispanic by the way. Just curious. Thanks.

2007-10-01 11:13:21 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 11:12:11 · 1 answers · asked by chuminera 2 in Family

so many question about spouses cheating and they know about it but want to show proof. i have been cheated on and of course he denied it to the end and i had proof but never showed it to him because he know what he did. i never heard of any case other than cheating where people say i know it but need to proof it to him/her. i guess they are in denial still. either way, why lower yourself and run around showing him/her about what they did wrong?

2007-10-01 11:10:32 · 11 answers · asked by not this way 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to now how i can convince my mum to take me ice skating. she has never drivon on a motor way before , but i realy want to go . how can i convince her to take us?

2007-10-01 11:09:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I found several jars of urine by accident in my roommate's room. When I asked him about it he told me to mind my own business. I don't want urine being stored in our apartment, it's dirty and gross. What's next? Before I know it he'll be saving his logs!

2007-10-01 11:07:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom likes to yell at me alot! I have two other sisters and she dosn't yell at either of them. She makes me do alot more chores, and I don't deserve it, yet she finds reasons for making me do it. Another thing is that my Parents are divorced and she has very hostile feelings toward him, and lucky me, I have his eyes. So, sometimes my mom gets really worked up about something he did or she gets really stressed out and starts yelling and blaming me. I'm 18 and I've been told hundreds of times " what the hell is wrong with you". I'm a really good kid, I go to school full time with a full ride scholarship. She actually recently got a Boyfriend and while I was in the hospital she called him and told him, but didn't call my own father, then she persisted to yell at me in the emergency room,calling me selfish, and saying I was ruining everything because I said something about the fact that she told her bf and not my father. the other day she told me that I was emotionally abusing her, Con't

2007-10-01 11:02:33 · 14 answers · asked by Stargazer001 1 in Family

2007-10-01 11:01:48 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am amazed by the amount of answers justifying brides' nasty behavior by saying "it's her day." Just because it's her wedding day, does not give her the right to treat family and friends with such total disregard to their feelings. Yes, within limits, she can make the choices about her wedding. But she should not blatantly ignore the feelings of and alienate loved ones for her own selfish whims.

I know I'm gonna get a lot of flak for this question. Bring it on!

2007-10-01 11:01:35 · 29 answers · asked by ds37x 5 in Weddings

Ive been saving for a house for about 4 years. I met her and we decide to get married. She does not want to live in a house I want because her kids will have to change schools and she says its a crappy neighbor hood.. I dont see a problem with that since they are not passing the majority of their subjects. About 1 year ago she recieved several thousand$. I said " hey if you really want to get a house try saving some of that and ill come up with the other half. Well she doubled in salary since then and spent all she had on nothing. She is not willing to sacrafice having the best cable , constantly eating out, etc,etc,etc. to save a few bucks. she says "i want to to spend $180 on my cell bill if i want. BY the way the house is a 3 bdrm 2 full bath, .25 acre that needs minor repair. I can definitely afford this house its about $90,000 less than other homes ive looked at. An i anticipate maybe spending anothe 5000 to get it goin good. I just need some advice

2007-10-01 11:00:25 · 10 answers · asked by JACK C 1 in Weddings

Friend got married and found out her husband was getting serious with his cousin which was in jail, and she was writing him back with the idea of hooking up, she read the letters.. and they are not blood kin, all happened before the marriage. After 7 months of marriage my friend finds a picture of this cousin in a sexual act.. unknown if it is her husband or some other guy.. the fact is it was a four-some, why would he keep that picture of this after the marriage. So they had a fight.. he burned the photo. Now the cousin is out of jail. My friend and her husband lives with his parents right now.. so she thinks this cousin will come to visit. My friend would love to kick the crap outta her, but that would bring the police and she would have an assault charge on her. I told her to make it clear to her husband that she would not be welcomed.. but the husband cannot see why.. he uses the excuse its still family. I think its BS. I ran out of things to tell my friend.

2007-10-01 10:54:58 · 4 answers · asked by leapfrog44 5 in Marriage & Divorce

And honestly, I dont want to for one im 17 two his 20 and three we both have very different ideas of how we want life to be like. So would it be heartless to break up with him if he does ask me to?

2007-10-01 10:45:31 · 6 answers · asked by Whisper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-01 10:45:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we've been together seven years in total. He is a good father but not a great husband. he patronises me, he doesn't show any interest in what I do and he rarely ( almost never ) does things that he knows would make me happy. and i am not talking about big things here. Simple stuff, like taking a vacation together ( we've never been on holiday). I feel I am not appreciated and counted upon and I don't deserve that. I really want to be in a relationship that would have more ups than downs ( not that i am in search for a romantic relationship- far from that).

2007-10-01 10:37:00 · 5 answers · asked by eleyteria k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you get your friends to talk to you if they are in a argument about one having a friend who has a cute boyfriend?

2007-10-01 10:28:58 · 1 answers · asked by sparkyjanes 1 in Singles & Dating

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