do you think love is instantly there or it has to grow into something bigger?

Question

i was jus wondering and needed to know

Answer 1

Yes, love is there the sec you feel anything about anything. Its ACTUALLY the emotion that expires it. What most people don't realize, because of the way the brain functions. That "Falling in love" is actually a phonema of feelings, its a cascade of assciations with just about everything that makes you who you are, combined with the hope of another. So really you can "instantly", "fall in love" if your primed for it. So its not really matter of just love, but of you and the way you feel. Just remember that love is an emotion (its raw, baby yea! actually its the rawest!) thats job is to excite FEELINGS, and those feelings we call love.... go figure.... hehe but even the emotion anger, is part of love to! or a product there of, if you can wrap your head around that. Really we have two states, love=to feel, or hate=not to feel. And really the hardest thing we do is hate, were not good at feeling nothing. Try not feeling anything, well sometimes we do alright with that.... but again the truth behind love as you can see isn't what we were taught....