Family & Relationships - 1 October 2007

my best friends has been going out with this guy, & i have nothing against him hes a good friend of mine but like.. hes kinda a sucky boyfriend & he gets pissed at my friend for like the stupidest & littlest things & he told her she cant even talk to HIS best friend.. so hes like becoming controlling & he always makes her cry but she doesnt realize hes a sucky boyfriend & like idk what to do cause i cant tell her "oh brake up with him hes controlling" but i need a way to show her how controlling he is, since like everyone has told her but she doesnt do anything about it! help please?

2007-10-01 14:30:09 · 11 answers · asked by hello :) 4 in Friends

My gf of 10 months does not ever want to get married. the thing is we have a 2 and a half month old son. yeah, i didnt waste time, i know. I beleive in marriage and that it represents something special between two peopl who truly love each other, she thinks its a joke due to the high divorce rate. she says if we ever got married it would be to set a good example for our son. i respond that i would never marry her if that were her only reason. what should i do?

2007-10-01 14:28:13 · 12 answers · asked by Sparticus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-01 14:28:02 · 9 answers · asked by gentlepete07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend who I've been going to college with now for almost a year now and she is 45 and I'm a lot younger then her (22) and I knew her husband was violent and he hits on her ... She didnt show up too school today because of this very reason.. I'm soo concernd for her I even called the domestic hotline to get some help and advice for her.. they told me too let her know that there is help out here for her and to talk too her, and not let the guy know that she has been telling me things about them. I need some more advice on how I can help her. He alreadu got kicked out the house but I just want her to leave him for good.

2007-10-01 14:24:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hey guys for males only from 13-18years old and available,,,can u be my bf?

2007-10-01 14:24:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

idk what to do i finally got the guts to and now afta talkint o him it makes me feel like im the bad guy

2007-10-01 14:21:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Than the fear of being alone is greater than the pain of the relationship?

2007-10-01 14:16:44 · 18 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Singles & Dating

im 13.
he's 15 (as of last week.)

im in 8th grade he's in 9th.

is that bad? he's so sweet and funny and sensitive and cutee :)

2007-10-01 14:16:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think of ginger guys?

2007-10-01 14:14:29 · 26 answers · asked by The Ginger Ninja 1 in Singles & Dating

Without making the person feeling uncomfortable....? I know this might be a stupid question, but i need suggestions...

2007-10-01 14:14:28 · 8 answers · asked by Storm 3 in Singles & Dating

what is the word u wait 2 hear?? and who is the person u wait to hear it from ???

form me..i wanna hear ..my life is darkness without u and hear it from my dream girl

2007-10-01 14:14:05 · 7 answers · asked by no_body_wants_2_b_lonely 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 14:13:37 · 8 answers · asked by Danielle p 1 in Family

i just started to like boys and mi brother ben able to date since he was 10 aint dat stupid and the only reason why i want to date is becasue were i live everyoen dates out hea and im so embarrased casue i have to tell everyone i cant date u casue im not aloud and everyone makes infront of me

2007-10-01 14:13:30 · 2 answers · asked by Tiffany B 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, after a relationship breake up, some people might experience low self esteem . Can someone tell me what to do? HELP!!! =(

2007-10-01 14:09:44 · 25 answers · asked by kalishegirl13 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a stay at home mom of 2 I remember a time when I had hobbies and a life. No one really seems to know I exsist except the children I am feeling like a failure at everything. My marriage is rough...he cheated I am pretty, thin, dark long hair and ice blue eyes. I keep a clean home and do my best to educate and care for my girls. I just don't know how to keep going. My question is why should I? Yes the girls need me. What if I were gone though? What now is the difference? Live or die? Walk away? Just give up I am tired.

2007-10-01 14:09:39 · 14 answers · asked by just duky 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-01 14:09:24 · 8 answers · asked by dana5736 1 in Family

extremely good looks or less likely to approach her because you would feel intimidated.

2007-10-01 14:08:52 · 1 answers · asked by krypto'nstreaky 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends and i want to dress up as something. there are 3 of us. it doesnt matter if it is a girl thing or a boy thing and it doesnt matter if it is only like 3 of six. Some of the things we had in mind were like the Wild Hogs. Thing One and Thing Two, The Benchwarmers etc. Does anyone have any other ideas? we really need some help.

2007-10-01 14:08:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

OK Ive known this guy from kindergarten hes not very popular at all I am but that has nothing to do with it hes a show off and he wants people to feel sorry for him because he shows off..
And hes really gross and he asked me out Ive gotten asked out before and I said no but this time I feel really bad because he ran away crying....How can i say no without making him feel bad?
Because Honestly i dont like him at all!

2007-10-01 14:05:42 · 8 answers · asked by cbabysnugglebunny 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been friends for a while but he's painfully shy when it comes to romance (he's a bit of a jokester otherwise). He's told me that he never makes the first move and he NEVER tells the girl he likes her.. but he will hint...
I told him a few months back that I liked him, but we were both involved with other people - Now we're both single and he's kicked up the flirting to more sexual conversations and heavily teasing me about different things.
However, he does mention other girls that he thinks are attractive or whatever.
I don't want to ask him because I don't want to put him in that position because he's a real sweetheart and I don't want to force him to say something because he's afraid he'll hurt my feelings.
How can I tell if he likes me or if I'm just a close friend when he's this shy?
I'd make the first move if I were sure he liked me

2007-10-01 14:04:49 · 2 answers · asked by Judi 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 14:00:30 · 16 answers · asked by scsmith478 2 in Family

she is not just telling little lies these lies can get people in serious trouble!!! what do i do she is starting fights in our family because of the lies its been going on for years but now it getting out of control her mother past away a year ago and her father has mental problems could she?
the lies she is telling could break couples up with young children do you think it may be a jeliousy thing as her parents where not together and she has been in my mothers care since she was 6?

2007-10-01 13:59:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

TOTURING YOU!
Gah, this guy at my school,
he is the most annoying person in the world!

He throws paper, draws pictures of people, calls me names like-rapist- which i'm seriously not, and a lot of other stuff.
Besides beating the crap out of him and telling the principal, what should i do?

2007-10-01 13:55:36 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Lindsey♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I finally cracked after the 14 years of my exsistance i finally cracked and every mean word i said they deserved I can't stand them and now i'm grounded it's totally unfair i didn't say any curse words i just told them that i didn't like it when they wouldn't let me finish what i'm saying and stuff like that and they grounded me can they do that because i do believe i have freedom of speech and can you please help me find a way to deal with them!

2007-10-01 13:55:15 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

I had a lover that was amazing in bed. We had a painful breakup. Now I have moved on but haven't found a better lover than him. I have found better realtionships then him but sex w/ others has always pailed in comparison. How can I forget my old lover & move on?

2007-10-01 13:51:05 · 8 answers · asked by NICOLE 2 in Singles & Dating

Sensual? Romantic? Aggressive?

2007-10-01 13:47:33 · 10 answers · asked by Seti 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't think im ugly, but im not the "barbie" that are every were. is there anything i can do that could help me?

2007-10-01 13:45:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

idk...me and my ex just broke up a couple of weeks ago...you can say that i'm over him. anyways...i met this guy and been talking to him. i really enjoy talking to him and think that maybe it can go somewhere. but with the way, my last relationship ended. there was no closure or what not. so it makes it hard for me to trust other guys. the guy i been talking to been kinda busy lately and we hardly talk. i mistaken it as him ignoring me, or didn't want to talk to me anymore. and he was offended you can say. now, idk what to do. he probably won't talk to me anymore. he is leaving in a few days for work reasons. what can i do or say to fix this?

2007-10-01 13:44:54 · 23 answers · asked by SS3_GrL 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a girl who comes from a pakistani origin and been in this country for 22 years now pretty much i was born here and i am TOTALLY AMERICANIZED!!!now the problem is my parents have been here the same amount as me or even more and still treat me as if were back home ! pretty much im not allowed to go out alot and expect me to be " family oriented" and i do spend most of the time with them. now i have done sum crazy things in the past such as had a bf, a guy came to see me right by my house etc etc... my parents dont trust me and i need permission for every lil thing and im 22! i feel like a 10 yr old infront of them.often i always see other gals go out and chill in nighttime in the city and it upsets me cuz im in my room doin nothin! if i am allowed to go out n im expect me to come back b4 the "sunset" goes down n im not allowed to go to lounges, late night in the city around 7pm- n over -& it is killin me i feel i have no life and i feel suffocated. i really need HELP asap !

2007-10-01 13:43:02 · 8 answers · asked by EpicFail 1 in Family

He has been walking me to all of my classes. And today he came up to me and we were walking and he put his arm around me while we were walking. It was really random, what should I do.

2007-10-01 13:41:28 · 7 answers · asked by Snickerdoodle 2 in Family