my best friends has been going out with this guy, & i have nothing against him hes a good friend of mine but like.. hes kinda a sucky boyfriend & he gets pissed at my friend for like the stupidest & littlest things & he told her she cant even talk to HIS best friend.. so hes like becoming controlling & he always makes her cry but she doesnt realize hes a sucky boyfriend & like idk what to do cause i cant tell her "oh brake up with him hes controlling" but i need a way to show her how controlling he is, since like everyone has told her but she doesnt do anything about it! help please?
2007-10-01 14:30:09 · 11 answers · asked by hello :) 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friend could be attached emotionally to him. You need to be there to support her and show her that she doesn't *need* him in her life. Sometimes it's easier to substitute one for another. She might not leave unless she has a good reason to leave or sees another replacement. Besides telling her how bad he is, show her someone else who is better.
2007-10-01 14:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by SeoulGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had best watch out. If he is that controlling he may try
to get you out of her life next. Point this out to her in case
that happens. That would probably wake her up more than
anything else. However before that could happen. Take her
somewhere and talk to her. Ask her to please listen to what
you want to say and then point out all of the things that she
can't deny that he had done to control her.
2007-10-01 21:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her look at the situation. Why would you want to be with someone who is going to treat you terrible, make your life horrible. Life is too short to be pissed off and sad. So make it right and just give her the advice I would give a friend. "If he's making you feel terrible, do something." Don't let him take over you.
2007-10-01 21:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everyone has already told her, then i doubt your input will make much differance, I know you hate to see your friend in a bad relationship, but ultimately, it is she who will have to come to that realization on her own.
2007-10-01 21:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by ramona 7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a quiet place and talk to her. dont go "omg breake up with him!!!" instead try "i need to talk to u about something ur bf is doing to u" and continue on. say it to her gently cuz if u tell her in a bad way she might trust her bf not u and ur friendship will have a problem.
2007-10-01 21:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by musicloverchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have tried to tell her and so have other people there is really nothing you can do! trust me she will wake up one of these days, and yes she might get hurt. But that is where you come in.
2007-10-01 21:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by plum_snake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to tel her bf that he is to controling and to stopp being controling or get her to brake up with him its not right to date soem 1 who thinks they can contrio your evry move!!!!!!!
2007-10-01 21:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a list of evrything he's done to her and what hes done to make her cry........then write a letter and tell her how you feel about this situation...â¥
2007-10-01 21:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
research teen dating violence online and print something out which describes it - maybe a checklist and show her
2007-10-01 21:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you began to treat her like he does she will see.
2007-10-01 21:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by gr00vytnes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋