idk what to do i finally got the guts to and now afta talkint o him it makes me feel like im the bad guy
2007-10-01 14:21:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he told me he doesnt care he''ll slow down because its good im honest cuz thats wat are relationships about..that he doesnt want me for who i am not what i give out thanxs thou all of you rock
2007-10-01 14:47:28 · update #1
That shows you what he really wants. You should KNOW anyway that all guys want one thing from...whether they actually care about you or not....they still only want one thing. I don't know how old you are but I would suggest that you DON'T feel bad about it. You did not do anything wrong and it's nice to actually see a girl that would act like that. IF he has a problem with it....then ditch him and wait till you are ready.
2007-10-01 14:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by aero 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is style of of a extraordinary difficulty, yet you're no longer helping issues. at first, you will desire to settle on what you like. in case you go with to be with him, which i think of you for sure do, then the two take the possibility or supply up seeing him all mutually. If I have been you, i might take the possibility. there is not any longer something to lose in any respect (as a results of fact the different decision could be to no longer see him besides). From what you're saying, it style of feels as though the guy is pissed off. i think of he needs to be with you yet you will no longer enable him. He in all probability kissed the different female to impact a reaction and take a check out to get issues regarded after out. in all fairness, he's achieved basically that. It in all probability necessary doing. i think of he needs you. you like him. supply up being a wimp and take a bloody probability! lol. Dave
2016-10-10 03:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let anyone make you feel bad about slowing down. If things are moving too fast or you are being asked to do something you aren't ready for then slow down, it's the smart choice. If your bf doesn't like it, he's being selfish and only thinking about what he wants, never let someone push you into something you will regret later. Never feel bad about sticking to your principles.
2007-10-01 14:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!!!!! If hes gonna make u feel bad bout not wantin do do alot of stuff with him, then hes not a good person. Dont let him pressure u to do anythin u dont wanna do. 1 of my bfs did that n i gav into him n i went thru a whole month thinkin i was pregnant! THAT IS THE WORST KINDA TORTURE EVR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dont put urself thru that. Just end the relationship now.
2007-10-01 14:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might be trying to make you feel guilty by being angry with you. He might be manipulating you, so that you go back to the way things were. Don't give in. If you felt you needed to slow down then stick with your decision.
Or, he could just be hurt. If that's the case, reassure him in other ways. But, don't let him manipulate you.
2007-10-01 14:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A good boy friend would not be worried about the pace of a relationship but would be glad it exists at all. If he thinks you are the bad guy on this, think of him as someone who used to be a boy friend but isn't any more.
2007-10-01 14:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't feel bad about it. He needs to respect your desicion and if he can't then kick him to the curb and find a guy who will respect your wishes and not get mad at you like that.
2007-10-01 14:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well that means hes a loser and he was only in it for the physical benefits....hes a jerk u shud b the one madf at him! hes supposed to respect ur feelings if he doesnt then hes not much of a bf now is he?
2007-10-01 14:27:12 · answer #8 · answered by msbrightside_j 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no one is ever hapoy to hear their significant other say they want to slow down. he will get over it, as long as you are still with him he should not care to take it fast or slow. having you is all that should matter
2007-10-01 14:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by HunnyMommy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is a guy and guys are horny !
2007-10-01 14:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋