Family & Relationships - 1 October 2007

WE still owe $13,000 for the car but the insurance company only wants to give us $11,000. Is there anyway we can get them to pay for the total amount of what we owe or do we have to settle for thier first offer?

2007-10-01 19:00:48 · 2 answers · asked by jason b 1 in Friends

never hurt or harmed mine and never been in any trouble and yet I have been refused access to them and have not seen or heard anything about them for 10 years?

2007-10-01 18:56:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I decided to move to my ex's city so that my child can see daddy more often. In order to move, I need to find a job out there first which takes forever, and thus my personal life is on hold forever. I turned down guys who were interested local and realized I am soooo lonely. I am sick now and feel the loneliest ever. Had tried to connect poeple in the city where I will move to, but it all ended disappointing because long distance relationship doesn't work. I spend the whole day working and be with my kid, and now is the time I want to cry. God give me strength! I know I am doing the right thing.

2007-10-01 18:55:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ing changes. I am going crazy because I feel that because of all of this I could fall out of love with her and I see other women and am tempted because I feel so lonely and unloved but I love my boys so much I do not want to loose them or my beautifull house I built with my own hands. I have this cloud of saddness and dread hanging about me. I know what is happening in my life right now is alot and is very hard but why does it have to me so hard. how to get back on track and stop fighting in front of my beloved children and stop the negative compounding spiral driving us apart. I feel lost and hopeless at times. I feel as if she does not listen to any of my needs wants or desires and puts the children way before our relationship. even the dog before it. I am an attractive full of life person and I am suffocating under this stress. I need her comassion and love but it is as if she has nothing left to give

2007-10-01 18:54:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I ended it badly, with mean words and some vengeful actions (which he sorely deserved, believe me). Now he will have no contact with me (it's been well over a month). I was thinking, if I could somehow do something funny, I could make him want to be friends with me. He lives in another state, so it would have to be through mail, text, or email. It would have to be non-threatening and very funny for him to even consider talking to me...

It's possible I could run into him at the airport (he's a pilot) if I tried several times, or perhaps at the skatepark (even though he's 49, he skates) that he sometimes goes to (but I'd have to get lucky to run across him; he doesn't go that much and I don't know his schedule). I just want to figure out a way to soften all the pain we both went through.

2007-10-01 18:54:50 · 2 answers · asked by nondescript 4 in Singles & Dating

I will like to have friend whom will love the word of God and who can help me in any way I am a good christain I am in good home but I just want family friend , that we can talk and advice each other. we can help each others too.I lve in Houston Tx.and also who is intrested in the things of God.

2007-10-01 18:46:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello everyone,

I want to ask you, what are the things to look for in a wife before getting married? I am 18 years old right now and before I travel abroad for university my parents want me to get engaged and hopefully get married after I finish my studies and they already have a girl in mind for me. Even though I am not really objecting the idea I kinda feel I am rushing into this especially since I don't have a better idea of the concept of marriage. The girl they told me about is really great and there is nothing wrong with her and I completely trust their choice but I want to know what are the true qualities to look for in a wife before getting married? What are the essential components for a successful marriage? If any of you are married you probably have enough experience to tell me. Is it okay for me to feel a little jumpy about going through this too quickly?

Thank You.

2007-10-01 18:42:20 · 17 answers · asked by Please Spread My Question 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How much a Retail Sales Associate can make on Macys store?? i live in MN..Iam looking 4retail/customer serv?
Any suggestion about the best salary on retail stores?? i know they usually pay very little
which store usually pay the most?

2007-10-01 18:38:08 · 3 answers · asked by elizabeth 2 in Family

Ok.. I posted what is going on with my family
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Well, I need to know what to do now.
I have a 3 year old at home all day with me. So, if I get a job I will have to have daycare. I have done nothing really my whole life. So, I have no experience in the work field.
How do I do it?
With 3 kids and kicking my pervert husband out?
Is there anyone out there that has ben in this situation?

Let me say ~ I have no one what so ever to help me. No friends no family. It is just me,my kids and my husband.

Please anything will help.

Stacie

2007-10-01 18:27:39 · 20 answers · asked by stacie m 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a 16 yr. old boy that I know of, who is really having a rough time at home. Mom & step dad treat him like crap. He really needs a loving home, we are willing to take him. His family found out he is gay. Step dad is really being mean, tells him to go wash his face with fecis and instead of calling him by name, calls him c_ _ k sucker out loud. His mom will not even talk to him or look at him, just shakes her head and says sicko as she walks away. This kid needs help, love and attention, not slander, meaness or bitterness. Any advice, I am tempted to just show up on their door step and tell them they don't deserve him and bring him home to my family to live. Help?

2007-10-01 18:26:36 · 4 answers · asked by pony 2 in Family

My Bf lives 3 hrs away now and i see him almost every weekend but it doesnt feel the same as when he lived here. He aggrevates me more and i always feel like i care for him more than he cares for me. and thats bad cuz i dont get attached to guys easily. I feel like i dont have a good reason to dump him but at the same time he doesnt give me a good reason to stay with him. Please help

2007-10-01 18:26:35 · 3 answers · asked by t-pip 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I have been engaged for a while, with no date set yet. Last year, his mother and her boyfriend told us that they already have our wedding present: the honeymoon. But not just any honeymoon. She recently bought a timeshare in Las Vegas, and with the timeshare got a pack of coupons for free trips to other timeshares around the world.

Since then, she and my fiancee have become estranged for unrelated reasons, and they recently have been talking to each other occasionally, just small talk. But if the honeymoon comes up again, how do you tell someone you don't want their gift?

Frankly, I want out honeymoon to be special, and not stressful. I don't want to go to some unknown timeshare property of unknown quality. I don't want the possibility of being subjected to a sales pitch as part of the free vacation. I'd rather go on a cruise or rent a house in the mountains.

2007-10-01 18:20:08 · 9 answers · asked by jellybeanchick 7 in Weddings

There is a waitress at a diner I go to a lot and she does flirting joking around with me and even gave me a nickname from our joking , there is something she does that I caught her doing again tonight when I was there and she brings it up , she makes comments that she is fat and she is not even close to fat she has a great body and everytime she brings up the fat comments to me I have to look at her body and tell her what are you nuts you look great or don't worry I will tell you when your fat , she has done this numerous times tonight it just got me thinking why the hell does she keep doing this and she also mentioned tonight something about a dress she wore 2 months ago that I told her she looked like a knock out in back then..What do you girls think this girl is thinking???

2007-10-01 18:19:32 · 3 answers · asked by Confused 6 in Singles & Dating

ok,so ive been dating my GF for 11 months now...and i'll say it like it is, i dont like going from girl to girl. If im dating someone then i can see myself with them in the future. We'll her parents dont know about us yet, but they will not approve when they find out because of cultural differences (my folks dont care). When we talk on the phone she gets paranoid that someone may be listening and says stuff like "we cant get caught or im going to have to break up with u." I hate that, I want her to say something like "i cant get caught or else im going to have to go through hell, but we'll always be together." She says she cant assure me that, she says its hard for her and tells me to plan for both the best and the worst. Its seems to me that this relationship is like a ticking bomb, when her folks find out.BAM..its over, and i hate that nor do i want to be apart of a relationship like that. Should i be more understandable? or is what im thinkin right?.just wanna be with her forever

2007-10-01 18:17:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why is it that i have never fallen in love or no one has ever fallen in love with me? i've always wondered what it felt to love/be loved...to feel butterflies in u'r stomach, to constantly think of that special someone, and all the 'symptoms' of falling in love......

why hasn't it happened to me? i mean, i am not a bad person, really...i'm not. i am driven, determined, kind, compassionate, intelligent, humble, down-to-earth...and other qualities that is generally appealing to those type of guys that would be my better half.

can n e one tell me, without being cynical, why i haven't met mr. wonderful or fallen in love yet???

2007-10-01 18:16:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like no one really acknowledges your existence?

2007-10-01 18:12:44 · 9 answers · asked by mephisto8208 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just married my husband in April of this year. Before we wed he and I had been dating for 7years. Although our checking accounts are still seperate we do own a house together. Well, with times being tough he's taken on working side jobs 7 days a week, just about all hours. To make a long story short, the other night after what started as a ridiculous agruement, he said something that shocked me. I qoute his words were " You know what I am cheating on you and when I'm not working that's what I'm doing." I roll my eyes and laugh he says " Don't laugh, it's not funny!" and "You think about that." before storming off. I don't know what to think! Of course later he apologises and says he never meant it, but who just says that???

2007-10-01 18:10:51 · 20 answers · asked by horsewhisperer 4 in Marriage & Divorce

any experiences or fate stuff like that?

2007-10-01 18:10:37 · 5 answers · asked by gwynth s 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if this is just my girlfriend or all girls, because I've only been with 1 girl ever.. but do all girls have HUGE moodswings everyday?? One minute she hates me, the next she loves me, and the next she wants to kill herself. I dont know if this is normal or not, and its scaring me and I dont like it. I would understand if she was having mood swings during her period or pms, and i know that girls have a hard time during that part of the month.. but this is happeneing everyday. is this normal at all?

2007-10-01 18:08:05 · 21 answers · asked by Maxwell 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 18:07:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So it was his number one fantasy,the thing that turns him on the most,he never forced me to,but let me know how much he loves it...always talking about it...i was tired of it and decided to give me what he was craving so much...we did it 2 days ago with my best friend.next morning i had a breakdown..he ensured me he loves only me and forever and that he didnt need it,i initiated it..but i now have the image of him kissing her,touching and f..ing in my had..cant think of anything else...what to do? can u forget something like this? we've been dating for 2 years and his says he wants me to be his wife in the future..also he says he would've not done it if he knew i would react this way..i really love him....can it ever be the same again? i want to hear guy's perspective too.

2007-10-01 18:06:39 · 6 answers · asked by Woman 2 in Singles & Dating

My penis keeps on growing at an extremly fast pace.

I am 16 years old and all of a sudden it seems(it started quickly about two months ago) it keeps on growing.

Right now I measure it to be 19 and a half inches. I belive it is still growing!

How can i stop it?!?!

2007-10-01 18:04:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think i'm ok looking guy. tall, into sports, smart. But why can't i find a girl? Please don't say you haven't found it yet or it'll happened. because I been looking and rejected by girls for almost 3yrs. I wanna know what i'm doing wrong.

2007-10-01 18:02:00 · 11 answers · asked by hahaiwon 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 18:01:51 · 2 answers · asked by majdah m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 17:59:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am. Hes like drugs. I think about him when I go to sleep, when I wake up I think about him and wonder if hes thinking of me. I always think of it. Hes the reason why I smile now, he makes me smile. There are so many things about him that I can't love live without. I can't live without his hugs and kisses and smiles and stares. I love everything about him. I love his laugh too. Hes the reason why im more happy. I'm addicted to him because he gives me love. I don't ever want to lose him.

~Are you addicted?~

2007-10-01 17:59:31 · 8 answers · asked by Becca 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance wants to go pal'in around town with the guy she was with before me. Should I be cool and let her go, or should I be upset?

2007-10-01 17:58:08 · 16 answers · asked by myspacemarketing12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-01 17:57:32 · 2 answers · asked by xSELENEx 2 in Family

I had to tell mine that the doctors had given me a less than 50% chance of surviving my Cancer. That was over 6 years ago now and I came out of it. But at the time they weren't sure. It was a tough time for my whole family.

2007-10-01 17:57:14 · 14 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I don’t scream at my parents, and I’ve never hit them or hurt them physically. With my dad, I never shout or yell at him, but I have sometimes with my mum. But I almost always feel resentment towards them, because they don’t let me do things that I want to do and they always look at my computer, check all my emails, and try to get into my myspace, yahoo profile, messenger contacts, etc…and they don’t let me have any privacy for myself. They even listen into my phone calls with my friends quite often. So normally, I’d take all the phones into the room that I’m ringing and shut the door so that they can’t listen in, but now they’ve banned me from doing that. They’ve made a new rule that the door must be at least half-opened and I must not take any phones into the room or unplug any phones except for the one that I’m going to use to ring. And I just feel so uncomfortable.

2007-10-01 17:56:30 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ Victory ♥ 3 in Family