My fiance wants to go pal'in around town with the guy she was with before me. Should I be cool and let her go, or should I be upset?
2007-10-01 17:58:08 · 16 answers · asked by myspacemarketing12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was invited to go with them but I do not like her ex.I told I wish she wouldn't go but she just got mad.
2007-10-01 18:12:17 · update #1
There is no such thing as pal'in around with an ex. She obviously think you are a weakling. Hopefully you are not. Yes you should be upset. Just the idea of her to present such a thing to you shows no respect what so ever. Let her go pal'in and get you a woman that respects you.
2007-10-01 18:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should you be cool?! NO b/c she's going out with a guy she was with before. How can you be cool about that? You have the right to be angry. And your fiance is being crazy. What the heck is she doing hanging around & going out with an ex-boyfriend? If she really loved you, then she would NOT be doing this & then getting mad as an excuse to make you feel guilty. Now, what is wrong with this picture? something is definitely up. You need to put your foot down on this one.
2007-10-01 19:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you an ex is an ex for a reason. I mean some poeple stay friends. But I see it like this. If she really cared about you or your feelings she should have respect enough to leave him in the past. I know its hard but a see (some) females that think they can do it and its okay, but in relaity they need ot think if it was reversed. You are intilted to be upset. And if i was you i would let her know. You are my fiance and i aint saying you cant have friends, but what i am saying is would you be comfortable with me hanging around or talking with my ex. If she still sees it as no big deal I think you guys shuld really talk more and settle it before getting married. Because if you guys get married its still going to be an issue. Why get into a bigger issue without solving the smaller issue. anyways I wish you luck. And just be honest, sometimes honesty kills but it can save you in the long run.
2007-10-01 18:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by seximami110206 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't sound like a good scenario. Have you ever heard of the term 'd*** in a jar'? Well, you better be careful. Some women like to have that little insurance to make them feel wanted. I would be bothered.
2007-10-01 18:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by lawstudntbynite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with them once and see what they will do. If she's hanging aroudn with an ex and its bothering you that much ask for the ring back. Yesterday. Tell her its you or him this is way too big my friend.
2007-10-01 21:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't like that at all. I think it makes a difference that they had a relationship before. There are feelings that could get stirred up.
2007-10-01 20:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say sure sweetheart, we all can go pal around the three of us. or four if the person has a friend as well. if not
'then sorry sister girl but no you cant just go hang out with
your ex.
2007-10-01 18:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it dont feel right to you then you need to tell her that and in a nice way.. dont do the all mad stuff that will for sure make her go.. but i think its kinda weird.. i am friends with my ex also but i wouldnt pal around with him and i know my hubby wouldnt want me too.. nor i if it was him.. good luck
2007-10-01 18:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call off the wedding. You are in for a world of Shiite if you proceed.
2007-10-02 17:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go-chances are they wont do anything but she probably wants you to go she invited you because she wanted to be honest so let her go but ask her would she be ok if the situation was reversed
2007-10-01 18:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋