Family & Relationships - 1 October 2007

I was done w/ this other girl i like (wich i had a question on) and then my old girlfriend moves back and I do like her but I dont know wat to do. thanks!

2007-10-01 16:01:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

really like asag and a leo man which one .

2007-10-01 16:00:38 · 1 answers · asked by sugar kane 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband never talks about anything meaningful. I never know what's going on in his head. We talk about stuff but nothing deep. We've been married for 14 years and I don't feel connected to him. I've talked to him about this and I usually just get silence in return. He tells me that he loves me and he thinks that's enough but I want more. What should I do to get him to open up?

2007-10-01 15:47:08 · 18 answers · asked by Eme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what are the responsibilties and stuff like that.

2007-10-01 15:44:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-01 15:41:12 · 8 answers · asked by Kelsey 1 in Singles & Dating

You have to leave now or you'll be late. Your other asks If you like the dress and If it makes her hips look to big? You hate the dress and wish she would burn it it makes her look stupid. The dress does make her look downright 30 lbs heavier. What do you tell her?

2007-10-01 15:38:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my guy friend had been getting on my nerves lately. all he seems to talk about is himself. it's funny because he has a big crush on me, yet he never asks me about myself. every sentence he says starts with "I". what should i do? this is driving me crazy.

2007-10-01 15:38:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It all started when my uncle aunt and cousins and grandparents moved to the flat we owned. At first everything was normal but it started when my dad hired my uncle to help him paint houses and such. A month later my uncle fell off the ladder and when he was painting a house even though he didnt even break anything he sued my dad for millions of dollars. Then they started leaving the T.V on and such to waste electricity sine we payed the electric bills. When my grandma died they blames on my parents. Because of all this my parents are planning to move to an apartment for awhile until we find our new home but the apartments that we live close to me and my sisters school do not allow pets and that means my dog can not come and has to be put in a shelter. My dad also will have to quit his job which payed 60$an hour. I keep telling them that they have to stand up for them selves but they would not listen to me because they think Im to young to understand. What should I do?

2007-10-01 15:25:28 · 4 answers · asked by goldddw1 1 in Family

i talked to my bf friday before i went out with my best friend for drinks...he made the comment that i didn't have plans earlier when i talked to him and now i did? i said she had just called and asked to go get a drink. he had to go to bed early for work so it wasn't like we were going to hang out. then i had class 8-5 saturday and sunday and didn't hear from him (which wasn't unusual) so his weekend is mon. tues. wed. i text him this morning and said i was taking tomorrow off so i was his tonight and tomorrow..."what r u going to do with me?" his response-"sadly i have to help a friend mow for the next 2 days" i responded "no time for me? :( " and haven't heard from him all day after that. am i being brushed off? i would hope at age 35 he doesn't need to play these games but i'm really irritated and my desire to make any more effort in the relationship is just about done...thoughts?

2007-10-01 15:21:45 · 9 answers · asked by Jax 3 in Marriage & Divorce

she keep calling me and i dont want to tell her not to call me. i feel bad if i tell her that.

2007-10-01 15:13:02 · 9 answers · asked by Shugufta 3 in Friends

Are there any nice, honest, cute women let? It seems like I am having no luck at finding A lady that wants to be pampered and treated like she was a queen.

2007-10-01 15:12:43 · 11 answers · asked by farmboy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What if it's love that's forbidden? Like both of you are married and you're not in love with your spouses, but with each other? I'm having a crisis that I've never experienced before. I don't want to divorce my husband, because I don't know how this other relationship will go, but I don't want to break off the other relationship either because I'll miss him too much.

2007-10-01 15:02:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

thanks so much!

2007-10-01 14:52:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 14:47:35 · 7 answers · asked by Sandy O 3 in Singles & Dating

The man i've been talking to for almost a year, (we never really stated that we were official, but it IS a relationship nonetheless) called me today. I hadn't heard from him for a little over a week (give or take a few days) and to be honest his call was unexpected.

We had a normal conversation and after a while he brought up the fact that this month will mark a year since we met. I was genuinely surprised he brought that up. He really sounded different today, other times he'd be distant and I would have to poke for conversation, but he sounded so calm and relaxed, with so many things to talk about.

Are these some sort of signs that indicate he might be falling for me? I've already fallen for him.. Should I tell him? or is it too soon (soon as in i'll freak him out if I say it) Or should I take the leap and just let him know how I feel towards him?

2007-10-01 14:46:49 · 10 answers · asked by Patty melt 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so this might be long/confusing but here goes...I am 20 years old, in college, working part time, going to school full time (and taking max credits). I still live at home because there is no need for me to spend more money/get a bigger loan just to live there when my school is 20 min away..so that brings me to the problem...I live at home with my parents and younger siblings. Lately, my dad has been under alot of stress and was depressed. He missed alot of work, whcih meant less money coming in, and he just acts like his life is so bad (when it isnt). My younger siblings fight all the time, and dont respect me (when im trying to do work etc). My mom is the only one that is ok but she is always bugging me for more money..saying I "cost too much". I only work part time, but i pay for my car insurance, gas, and other expenses such as books for school, the only thing i dont pay for is my cell phone..which is part of a cheaper plan anyway...I love my family but sometimes I wish I was...

2007-10-01 14:46:29 · 3 answers · asked by Ash_082 2 in Family

before you decided you had enough?

2007-10-01 14:46:07 · 11 answers · asked by a2z_alterego 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If a girl has a boyfriend and for her, its a purely platonic relationship, but if her boyfriend forces himself on her, and makes her perform oral sex on her, is this sexual abuse?
And what if the victim has a limited knowledge about sexual issues due to her innocence and not know how to differentiate right from wrong?
Also, would the victim be ''blamed'' for what happened as she is in a relationship with the guy?
Furthermore, what if the girl was a virgin before all this happened?

2007-10-01 14:44:56 · 17 answers · asked by Grace 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The ex doesn't work and is on welfare. My situation has changed a little because I am now remarried and want to have more children but we feel like we will never be financially ready to have any more kids. Is there a way to get child support reduced? It has been 2 years since the divorce and of paying full child support. Also my parenting time is still 3 days/ week.

2007-10-01 14:44:28 · 23 answers · asked by nina9 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband have different views on what we consider cheating. I would like to know from all who are in commited relationship what you would say is cheating.

2007-10-01 14:44:23 · 19 answers · asked by always smiling 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So our homecoming was this weekend, and the three girls who used to be my best friends (its been going downhill for a while) showed up drunk. I was pissed, and had every chance to turn them in, but didnt. You could tell by their actions and smell it on their breath, and they got caught. They blame me, i guess because im the student council advisors daughter. Lots of people are on my side, but so many people are still spreading that it was me. The girls come back to school on thursday, and have already started trying to make me miserable..its working. One of the girls said something to my older bro on yahoo and my mom said something about it to my dad, so he started screaming, berading me about how i sure as hell better not talk to them by computer phone or anything...and i havent and dont want to. Its just that for the first time in a long time everything was going great, i was happier than ive ever been....how can their mistakes do this to me, and how can i keep my head up?

2007-10-01 14:43:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend always talks about her fablulous life and her other fabulous bff. I am sick and tired of hearing about her. Can't she talk about anything but herself??? Should I tell her in a nice way, igonore her e-mails, or ignore her?

2007-10-01 14:43:04 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ l'amour est tout 1 in Friends

2007-10-01 14:39:40 · 10 answers · asked by shiningStar 2 in Family

I was reading this article:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=485097&in_page_id=1879

Married women, do you think other women are always on the prowl for your husbands?
Married men, are you attracted to the predatory women? Will you give up your wife for her.

Please be honest

2007-10-01 14:39:24 · 2 answers · asked by Kaye00 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Small, intimate wedding that is SUPERfly, or bigger wedding (min. 150 people) that is a little less superfly, and take a very nice vacation to a SUPERfly resort, or save the money? Or, better yet, get married downtown and keep the cash? Or, maybe destination? So many choices ...

2007-10-01 14:39:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-01 14:38:27 · 15 answers · asked by mulloo2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I read that the traditional way was for the male to keep his name going, but then what if the female is the last one in her family with the last name for example? Or maybe it doesn't matter and tradition should still hold in this case, or would you support another decision? What would be your reasons for your choice?

2007-10-01 14:36:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lately I've been sexually attracted to older women, say 25ish to in their 30s. I'm 19 by the way...I'm not sure why that is...But they get my juices flowing more than girls my age do...Can any other guy relate?

2007-10-01 14:36:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband loves me i know this but he sucks at showing affection toward me...I miss the Hugs, kisses or just holding my hand. He calls me dear LOL I hate that word...I wanta hear sweetheart or baby ok now I am dreaming lol like that would ever happen

2007-10-01 14:34:23 · 15 answers · asked by purplesportygirl883 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here's the dilemma. I have been married for a little over three years. My husband throughout our hx has been abusive, negative, complaining, temper tantrum throwing when he doesn't get his way. I have Lupus and the stress from him is causing it to go haywire. To save myself, I told him to move out and that I don't want to be with him anymore. He then starts acting very nice and caring. It's a cycle! All weekend all he did was try to upset me and I would see him grinning when I would get upset. He would start cursing, complaining, etc to get to me. When I told him to get out, he simply stated that that's what I want and that he doesn't. It is very uncomfortable in my house. Nobody here likes him. (we live with my mother and grandmother) He won't leave. What do I have to do to make him leave without resorting to restraining orders because we have kids? Is there anything I should do? Being cold doesn't work, he just comes up and tries to give me hugs. Help!

2007-10-01 14:34:16 · 4 answers · asked by Mestiza 1 in Marriage & Divorce