before you decided you had enough?
2007-10-01 14:46:07 · 11 answers · asked by a2z_alterego 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is tough to leave, especially as the relationship lasts longer and longer. For me, it would take physical abuse (which hasn’t happened yet), or some specific event to be the last straw. If he did something so incredibly embarrassing, stupid, etc., AND he did it in front of all our friends, I would have to draw the line.
I think it’s important in a relationship that you tell them when they do something that bothers you. I don’t mean just leaving socks on the floor, or getting drunk and flirting with all our friends, I mean when they do something that just turns you off so much that it could make you break up. If they continue to do things you find repulsive, then tell them it’s over, and here’s why.
Good luck; it's not easy to break it off, but afterwards, you feel like a big weight has been lifted off your shoulders.
2007-10-02 02:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rainbow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love blinds human beings, and frequently they can't see how undesirable the relationship is. oftentimes human beings carry directly to undesirable relationships because of the fact they are transforming into so attentive to the guy they are with that that is in basic terms a rely of being too linked. the relationship is generally a brilliant or the biggest element of the persons existence and that they might experience incomplete or valueless devoid of it.
2016-10-05 22:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by keva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in one for 10 years. She goes off without warning. If I say anything she interprets it. She always says read between the lines. I gave up a long time ago. I guess when I die I will have had enough.
2007-10-01 15:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well in my last relationship I finally decided it was over when i wanted to gag every time he kissed me.
2007-10-02 02:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh you know, when enough is enough and you best believe, once you end it, you will feel that dead weight lifted off your shoulders. good luck on making the right decision for yourself
2007-10-01 14:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by lynnette 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence.
2007-10-01 15:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i can hold on as long as its just verbal, but i had to see too much physical abuse from my dad towards my mom to ever tolerate it in my own relationships. if it ever came to him hitting me. that would be it.
2007-10-01 14:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by angel1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not as calloused, as I use to be, and starting over is just that!!! Starting over!! If I can't make my lady happy, then why would I think, I could make a different one happy??? Same rut, just diffferent name!! If you can trust,love,apppreciate your mate, then stay home!!
2007-10-01 14:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
as long as he dont hit me i am ok at least i have a roof over my head
2007-10-01 15:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
lots of blood sweat and tears
2007-10-01 14:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋