If a girl has a boyfriend and for her, its a purely platonic relationship, but if her boyfriend forces himself on her, and makes her perform oral sex on her, is this sexual abuse?
And what if the victim has a limited knowledge about sexual issues due to her innocence and not know how to differentiate right from wrong?
Also, would the victim be ''blamed'' for what happened as she is in a relationship with the guy?
Furthermore, what if the girl was a virgin before all this happened?
2007-10-01 14:44:56 · 17 answers · asked by Grace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So it sounds like your boyfriend forced you to give him oral sex. YES THIS IS ABUSE! YES THIS IS WRONG! Dump his a** right away. If you continue to date him, he will do it again, and when he gets tired of waiting for sex, then he will force that too. I suggest you tell your parents and press charges on this guy right away. HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU! If you want your first time to be special, then I URGE you to get as far away from this pervet as you can NOW!
And please sweetie, don't let anyone tell you this is your fault!
2007-10-01 14:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by movingon2010 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, how old is this girl? If she is a minor, he should be put in jail. Second of all, how could somebody ask if this is sexual abuse? It is not only sexual abuse, it is rape, and it is punishable by law. Who is the scumbag? Needless to say, the pig is nothing more than a cockroach, a mere insect, a sorry excuse for a man. he should be castrated. How could we allow this in our country? This is so absurd is not even funny. That girl needs to leave this monster as soon as possible, she is in danger. That cockroach should be reported and have the police arrest him. Come on people, why do women allow this kind of barbaric treatment by their supposed loved ones? We have to do something about this. Why do people that know about this atrocities don't do nothing about them? It is time for everyone to get involved. If you witness this kind of crimes, go to the police, don't let those people suffer, it is just not fair.
2007-10-01 22:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ricardo R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is sexual assault and possibly rape. She may, but these days most people are aware of 'date rape' and generally don't blame the victim anymore. So what if she was a virgin? Virginity is meaningless. Of course, if she holds the false belief that virginity is a 'gift' or something 'special' she may feel more traumatized by the experience.
Call the police. Get them to file charges. Throw the bastard in prison if you can and then get yourself some counselling.
2007-10-01 21:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by some female 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, that girl needs to get out of that relationship. She would not be blamed at all. If she was not comfortable about doing anything the guy should have stopped. She also needs to go to the cops and have that guy arrested so he doesn't do it to another innocent girl.
2007-10-01 21:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anytime a boy forces a girl to perform sexual acts, it is called rape, even if they are boyfriend and girlfriend. If this is happening to you, then you need to report it to the police and get out of the relationship. If this is not happening to you and it is happening to a friend then you need to give your friend the advice that she needs to go to the police and report it.
2007-10-01 22:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jessy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is positively sexual abuse. It should be said to the man and the relationship should be terminated, because it is not a friendship, it is an abusive relationship.
2007-10-01 21:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by Boydness 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
no means no i don't care if your married if she says no its rape if it went to court a defense lawyer would try to blame the girl but she would need to be strong and push threw it a guy like that will do it again and again until someone presses charges
2007-10-01 22:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by sweetcavebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any sex that is forced is wrong. She can press charges. This is why parents should talk more to their kids about this kind of thing.
2007-10-01 22:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by Linni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is sexual abuse..No one should be FORCED to do things they are not comfortable doing. Please advise 'the girl' to get ot of the unhealthy relationship and seek help!
2007-10-01 22:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by purplebee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guy k be jailed n caned if what u mentiond is true.if the gal age under 14 or 16,the guy will hv stiffer sentence.
2007-10-01 22:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by Lee SY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋