thanks so much!
2007-10-01 14:52:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first, get you a really good cry. especially if you guys were in love. next get a massage, a facial, mani/pedi, take yourself out for a nice lunch or dinner. review your relationship in your mind. if you can pinpoint the exact moment it turned to crap and who actually started it (you don't want to place blame or point but someone has to start shyt right?) then you will be able to come to a decision of what to do and not do in your next relationship. or maybe you may be able to reconcile this one. find the problem and you can eventually come to a solution. good luck
2007-10-01 14:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, i'm so sorry this had to happen to you! I'd call the police, she has absolutely NO right to hit you & say the things she says! If you arent comfortable with that though, try to stay for two more years until you're a legal adult.By the sounds of things, it doesn't seem as if you can put up with that until you're 18.. But if you have to, try getting into a club or something that takes up your time so you don't have to be home all the time.. I also strongly suggest you get a job. That way, the minute you turn 18 you can leave. Also,therapy might help, or a school counselor.
2016-05-18 08:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no such thing as a "quick fix" sorry to say. but there are some things you could do to make yourself feel better. for a day or so why not just relax and watch a movie or some tv, pop some popcorn, and turn off your phone. just take it easy and make it a day for yourself. or you could go to a spa or get a back massage. do things that make you feel calm and relaxed. if you try to hard to build your self esteem it might back fire on you and you could end up feeling worse. you need to take it easy after a break up rather than trying to do things to make you feel better just to keep your mind off of things. good luck.
2007-10-01 15:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by wyldkatcpw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get a mani-pedi, and have a professional do your eyebrows. Then buy and outfit that makes you feel hot, go home take a bubble bath and get ready for a night on the town with friends that build you up. Then take up something like an art class or something that you've always wanted to do but haven't had the chance to. When you are ready again, you'll find somebody better.
2007-10-01 14:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger Lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bad break up is a bit like being in a real bad auto accident,it may take years to fully recover.never try to get even it only makes matters worse.i just consolidated my position,and try to have gratitude for what i have.i blew my integrity by not being deft,but I'm still glad to be outta that mind bending experience.I'm glad to be on my own,enjoy my own company,and try to be benevolent towards the young and inexperienced through Q&A.id love to get a german shepherd for company,but enjoy holidays abroad too much to be restricted by a pet.look up the didache to discover the path to life before death and perhaps more.i see sex more as a job nowadays so im celibate now and am just happy to have a couple of good friends to hang with when i feel like going out.Once bitten twice shy is my motto.(as is cant live with em and cant live with em ) and one thing for sure i dont know anyone that i envy either good luck anyways
2007-10-01 15:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by TREVOR B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start volunteering your time to help others in need.
Use your bad expriences to help them avoid the same mistakes you made. This is safer....they get helped and you get the satisfcation of helping someone else. It will take some time to get over whoever you broke up with, but at least. You'll be doing some good for others in the mean time. Good luck
2007-10-01 15:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Day 1. Eat lots of chocolate. DONT TELL ANYONE YET!
Day 2. Do whats on the agenda in pj clothes even at school...or whatever!...and eat chocolate or comfort foods if you dont like chocolate. DONT TELL ANYONE YET!
Day 3. Call a few friends tell them...NOT IN PUBLIC!...eat comfort foods but less than yesterday!
Day 4. Open up more about it...dont cry this time...stop eating comfrot foods! talk about it werever you trust!
Day 5. Open up completely and be ok with the fact that its over and that it is time to move on!
2007-10-01 14:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by ME! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well
Never EVER think that you werent worthy enough for him
Look at yourself in the mirror and state everything positive about yourself
It helps me
Think about everything you hate about him
If makes you dislike him a bit more
Comfort foods really help but dont go overboard
It is really relieveing to burn pictures and rip them
Try to think of positive things now that your not going out with him,,,
Break ups suck!
But hang in there!!!
Youll find someone better!
2007-10-01 14:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by ElectroJewelz 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
OMG!!! I can answer this one!! After my "D" I booked a Cruise!! Best hing I'd ever done,(except for the "D"), food,fun, party alnite/alday, and what a great time!! Just do it, it'll change your persective, and give you something positive to talk about for years!!
2007-10-01 14:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in close contact with your friends. they will only build your esteem. find a hobby you are good at and enjoy. and just ignore the other person. if you allow them to really get in your head, then they win.
2007-10-01 14:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by The Giver 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋