Family & Relationships - 1 October 2007

ok well i need to make an acrostic poem about a guy named alex he is ONE of my first crushes he knows i like him and that i have asked him out before and he said he would think about the \next day his on and off gf which i didnt know asked him out he said yes to her and sorry to me and remeber he knows i ike him to show him i like him so much i wanted to make him an acrostic love poem he is 13 and im 13 nothing to bad like abotu sex or anything just a middle school crush his name is ALEX i want that wrote doiwn the side plz

2007-10-01 13:40:02 · 8 answers · asked by lolimonly12 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy I like and I have the weirest relationship. One day we'll practically be inseparable, and the next day we're ignoring each other. I don't know why this happens or how to stop it. It's not like we get into fights or anything, we simply don't talk or say hi to each other on those days. It's really starting to annoy me because I really want to go out with this guy, but he's sending me these weird messed up signals. I can't just talk to him about it either. I don't know what to do...?

2007-10-01 13:39:49 · 1 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 3 in Singles & Dating

An x has called and wants to meet up for din. Here is the deal...I'm married. Here is the problem...my hubby lied to me for about 7 years. He claimed that his parents & sister died in a car wreck when he was 6 yrs. Last year, I found out that they are not dead, but alive and well. Ever since I found out the truth, I can't trust my hubby...which has caused lots of problems. I'm anti-divorce, but my husband hurt my feelings so much with such a horrible lie...that divorce has crossed my mind. Now my x contacts me telling me that he wants to meet up to catch up on things. Please note that I DID NOT CONTACT THE X, but he has contacted me. Before I found out the truth about the lie, I would have not gone out with my x, but now...I am not hesitating. Can someone please give me some info, cause I'm really confused.

2007-10-01 13:38:44 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am so exhausted. It's now 1:26 am, I am sitting in the living room, my 3 month old baby is sleeping and my stu pid ugly violent husband is sleeping on the couch with his loud noisy snore that woke me up. God, I am so unhappy and don't have a clue how to change anything anymore.
We haven't slept together for 15 months, he has no desire to touch me or anything at all. He always makes fun of me when I bring up any sort of subject to communicate our problems.
I clean, cook, take care of the baby, clean, cook, go no where, have no friends, have no money and no pride anymore.
when he comes back from work, I serve him dinner, gives him his tea, water, and he sleeps on the couch, I wash the dishes, nappy changing,,,,
Such a lovely life,,,, and everybody thinks that a girl as beautiful as me should have a guy to adores her. Just today I asked him to serve himself from the kitchen and he got verbally violent. Can you believe? we have been married for a crappy 2 years, the first year, ,

2007-10-01 13:34:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im a college student in my 20s and I have been dating a man for three years, who is 10 years older than me. I am so much in love with this man but he hurts me so bad. Every time I try to get over him I let him back into my heart. Im so lost and confused that I feel bad all the time. Lately I have been so emotional over this man.
A little background information: He was dating another women for over six years and things didn't work out because both did wrong. Then two years later I started talking to him, but she bounces back and forth into his life and he lets her. Throughout the past three years he hasn't treated me right and there has been so many lies and a few other women. He always tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me. But lately when I call him he either doesn't answer or his phone is off. I know he isn't treating me right but I still keep letting him in, please help me how can I get over this? Im tired of the situation and Im ready to on but my heart wont let me

2007-10-01 13:32:26 · 3 answers · asked by Pretty Eyes 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married May 17, 2008 and I just booked an appt with a friend who is also a photographer...I want to go into it knowing what is expensive, not expensive, etc...

2007-10-01 13:31:49 · 15 answers · asked by niccinoodle 1 in Weddings

my bf of 2 years broke up with me last night over a text message (mature I know). I was shocked since everything seemed great we had even spend an amazing night together the night before. I was so confused. He lives w/his dad (hes 23) who lives next door to my parents, which is how we met in the first place. I was visiting my parents when this all happened, and when I walked outside his ex's car was at his house. He had just recently come back into contact with her (she cheated on him badly) but i never worried since she only came over twice & he always told me & we always hung out right after. he said he loved me it was nothing they were just having "closure" even though i know for a fact she wanted him back (a note i found) well, she spend the night there last night and I tell you that hurt so much. Right now I'm just so lost and can't understand how someone can do that to someone...i need any advice to ease this pain or helpful or encouraging words...thank you

2007-10-01 13:31:29 · 33 answers · asked by bob123456789 2 in Singles & Dating

We've only been dating for 3 weeks and he mentioned to me last week that he doesnt like girls with fake boobs. Now, I don't ever want to sleep with him but I like him alot. What should I do. I don't want him to find out my boobs are fake. I think they look extremely natural and feel great...

2007-10-01 13:30:22 · 26 answers · asked by . . . . 1 in Singles & Dating

a new country /culture where u have little friends and family.
and why?

2007-10-01 13:30:16 · 12 answers · asked by Hi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have bought my boyfriend lots of stuff i have bought him necklacs and clothes and dinner, and dont get my wrong he has bought me books and ice cream but im usually with him when he does that. and he takes me out to dinner with out me even haveing to ask. but i told him that my birthday was coming up and he said ill take you out to dinner . but he isnt doing anything speical or buyeing me anything. should i be upset or not?

2007-10-01 13:19:58 · 28 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy I'm "seeing" introduces me to just about everyone as his girlfriend - but on his My Space page, he's single and looking for a woman to complete his life...Is he lying to his family and friends about our status or is this MySpace status just an image thing?

2007-10-01 13:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by Telling It Like It Is 6 in Singles & Dating

Uhh, okay here goes. I was at my friends house a few weeks ago, and I was helping him unload the car, some of the stuff went into his mom's room so his mom kept calling my name to go bring the stuff from the car to her room, my friend was outside at the moment on the phone, as I walk in I go to her closet (which is huge by the way), and I see her naked in the closet I drop the box and walk back into her room, she just stood there she didnt scream or put a robe on just stood there naked (and by the way she has a FINE body i would say lol) and I say "wow nice body" I was about to go on and then I ran off back home before I ran out though, i did see her coming towards me like she was gonna touch me or something. Now I keep thinking about her, like I would like to tell her that I would want to have sex with her but I dont wanna damage a good friend relationship and I dont want her to get pissed at me, but now I really want to have sex with her.

2007-10-01 13:13:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We were just engaged a week and a half ago and want to plan a wedding for THIS December. Any useful tips on how to go about planning a small, very cheap wedding? We want to have around 80 guests or less, affordable catering, and the entire even to be held in the church (wedding and reception). We are not having a dance or anything like that, just food and non-alcoholic drinks for the reception. Does anybody have good ideas for inexpensive centerpieces, dresses, and everything else we'll be needing to pull this off? Thanks in advance for any suggestions!

2007-10-01 13:11:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Let's be mean to Karl, it's not like he has fellings!

2007-10-01 13:11:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I understand why I miss my kids but its her I miss and she has made it perfectly clear that we will never be together even though it was an eighteen yr relationship, married almost 14! I don't care about any of the things that were done I just want her back? Why can't I get over her? I mean we had a break-up that I can only describe as hell which has ended with me in jail for sending emails and texts! I did send them but they were not threatening, we used to have something special and it ended so quickly.. we both were not in our right minds for lack of a better term...

2007-10-01 13:01:25 · 24 answers · asked by AzNative89 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you found out your girlfriend (of 2+ years) was watching TV Shows about weddings and wedding planning. And you had even caught her looking at wedding related websites on your computer (through the history) I'm not saying, she obsessed,but you've been noticing this for a few months.

2007-10-01 12:58:51 · 10 answers · asked by Je Adore 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my husband, but I think I'm having trouble adjusting to marriage...is this normal? We've only been married 6 months.....I was single for a long time, so I think that might be the problem.

2007-10-01 12:56:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I live with a yeller, she yells about everything. If something doesn't go her way she yells and screams and insults everybody. I've tried asking her not to yell, I tried yelling back at her, I tried asking her after she calms down not to yell anymore. But she yells, yells and yells. I don't know what to do anymore.

2007-10-01 12:56:06 · 3 answers · asked by Laughing all the way 5 in Family

well there's this guy in my class...i asked him out and he said no. but now he ALWAYS stares at me, wats goin on?

2007-10-01 12:56:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend cheated on his girlfriend with this fat chick, when he called me and told me that he cheated on his girlfriend with Mattie (a girl we know) and that his girlfriend found out and broke up with him, i said " HAHAHA WHAT A STUPID ***** HAHAHA" "she was HOT and Mattie is FAT HAHA" and i hung up I kinda just said it out of like disbelief, i regret saying that (even though i agree with what i said) now he's like pist, how can I like make him forgive me?

2007-10-01 12:54:58 · 27 answers · asked by Shan Patridge 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend ron were having dinner last nigh. we have been toghther for four months and i have met his mom and dad and his sister we all went on vacation with each other a couple months ago. but my boyfriend asked me if i met anybody else in his family and i said no. and he said i whould really like you to come with me to my aunts house on christmas day and he said they party up their. why does he want me to meet them?

2007-10-01 12:51:03 · 8 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 12:47:02 · 4 answers · asked by lavender_x_bloom 2 in Friends

all i wanna no if they iz gang related is they and if they r how?

2007-10-01 12:41:02 · 1 answers · asked by measexymonkey 1 in Family

We really want to go to Venice more than anything, but we just don't know if we'll be able to afford it or not. Is there any other cool places that we could go? Or do you know how expensive a normal honeymoon is? We live in the U.S., and we really had our hearts set on Venice, Italy. But we're willing to hear any other options that are out there that could be cheaper. Thanks!

2007-10-01 12:40:22 · 19 answers · asked by iridescent 1 in Weddings

Someone who likes being alone, and doesn't have that many friends. But is average looking. He/She is confident but doesn't talk much, when they do talk they aren't like extrovert where they are loud and cracking jokes all the time. But they can be outgoing.

2007-10-01 12:40:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so my friend and me havnt seen each other in about a year im seventeen and were getting together this weekend. me and her twin brother who is my age also have had a crush/ dating thing going on for longer than i can remeber there has been nothing official and we've only gone to first base. my friend(the sister) does not know about any of this. me and her brother are trying to figure out when and where i can give him a little action (thinking a bj) but we dont want to be interupted. so when and where should we do it.

2007-10-01 12:37:20 · 13 answers · asked by fongirlz4 1 in Friends

We have been together for almost 9 years. i want to take him for everything he has. this is a form of abuse to tell your wife you wish she would die? right?. i hope it will help the judge see things my way:)

2007-10-01 12:27:45 · 16 answers · asked by SouthernBelle504 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or doesn't it matter ?honest answers please

thanx xx

2007-10-01 12:25:45 · 40 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

So, here's the thing, my boyfriend left for this weekend trip thing for college, which he was really excited for. He left on Sunday and I miss him sOooO much like i cried for no reason and my stomach has this pit in it that hurts.. i can't explain it. He'll be back on wednesday and i can't wait. I just keep thinking about him... its almost an obsession that i can't get over... BLAH am i overreacting? I feel that i'm being ridiculous.

2007-10-01 12:24:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I believe my boyfriend is gay. he is a musician who travels around the country alot and his driver is gay I just found out. The driver cooks for my bf, serve him his meals. I asked my bf why couldn't he get his own meal, he said the guy was just being nice. I called his hotel suite the other day it was 4:00p.m. they were both sleep and the driver was snoring so loud as if he was right next to my bf. I ask my bf about this and he said the guy was 8 ft away. Whenever they don't have gigs they stay in the hotel rooms 2 or 3 days without coming outside. He told me they have separate beds and all they do is eat, sleep and look at tv. My bf and I always share our fantasies and his is with another guy giving him oral sex. I've asked my boyfriend if he was gay he says no. I suggested he get rid of the driver because of my insecurities, he told me casually he'll start looking around and doesn't understand why I am making a big fuss and he doesn't like the fact that I'm doubting him.

2007-10-01 12:24:12 · 3 answers · asked by Ebonee 3 in Friends