I believe my boyfriend is gay. he is a musician who travels around the country alot and his driver is gay I just found out. The driver cooks for my bf, serve him his meals. I asked my bf why couldn't he get his own meal, he said the guy was just being nice. I called his hotel suite the other day it was 4:00p.m. they were both sleep and the driver was snoring so loud as if he was right next to my bf. I ask my bf about this and he said the guy was 8 ft away. Whenever they don't have gigs they stay in the hotel rooms 2 or 3 days without coming outside. He told me they have separate beds and all they do is eat, sleep and look at tv. My bf and I always share our fantasies and his is with another guy giving him oral sex. I've asked my boyfriend if he was gay he says no. I suggested he get rid of the driver because of my insecurities, he told me casually he'll start looking around and doesn't understand why I am making a big fuss and he doesn't like the fact that I'm doubting him.
2007-10-01 12:24:12 · 3 answers · asked by Ebonee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OK...do you need to be sent on Oprah to hear your bf admit to wanting men? I hope not, since he's spilling it out!
Let me rewrite your own words...
1. his driver is gay (you just found out)
2. driver cooks for my bf (when do drivers cook meals)
3. serve him his meals (and serve them, ummm what?)
4. the guy was just being nice (yea, nice cuz he's getting some)
5. they were both sleep (they share rooms)
6. driver was snoring so loud (cell phones ain't that good, he was close)
7. they stay in the hotel rooms 2 or 3 days without coming outside (Brokeback mountain, if he wasn't gay, he is now!)
8. his is with another guy giving him oral sex (ok, as soon as he told you that, you should've asked this question)
Don't you see? Your man is either bi or gay for sure and you know it...so this isn't some insecurity, it's your gut begging you to listen and listen soon!
Save Maury, Oprah and Jerry Springer the trip!
2007-10-01 12:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a professional at relationships. I will offer you my advice, a womans intuition is always right. Especially when it comes to things like your man cheating. I know you will be in a state of deny until he tells you for himself. What you can do is invite the both of them over to your home for dinner and ask them for the truth I am sure it will come out in the open. I hope you get the truth soon, God bless you.
2007-10-01 12:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by n/a n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have it right, they are both gay.
2007-10-01 12:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋