We've only been dating for 3 weeks and he mentioned to me last week that he doesnt like girls with fake boobs. Now, I don't ever want to sleep with him but I like him alot. What should I do. I don't want him to find out my boobs are fake. I think they look extremely natural and feel great...
2007-10-01 13:30:22 · 26 answers · asked by . . . . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest!!
if he leaves cuz of that, he isnt worth your time! a real man wont mind a girl who did something to make herself prettier or anything. breast implants are nothing to be ashamed of unless you were a d and went bigger, thats just dumb.
good luck
2007-10-01 13:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by litlmizbeautiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I assume you have fake breasts due to a medical condition. If not, and they are a matter of choice, then I apologize.While cosmetic enhancements are okay and welcome if they help with either physical or mental needs, not everybody likes them.However, you have only known this guy for three weeks and do not want to sleep with him, so there is no reason for you to tell him about your boobs ---for now.But if your relationship changes and begins to get seriously romantic,with him then you will have to make the decision whether you are going to tell him or not.Don't forget he says he does not like girls with fake boobs ; so while people do change their minds, and he may change his about fake boobs,deal with that at the appropriate time.Remember, if a guy likes you , he should like you for more than sexual reasons and want the whole package.Take it day by day.
2007-10-01 20:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. You aren't defined by your breasts and for all the guys I've ever known that claimed they didn't like fake ones, I've never known a guy to ditch a girl because her boobs were store- bought.
If he asks you straight up, don't lie. Otherwise, I'd go forward with the relationship and if he doesn't ask, or can't figure it out if he gets the opportunity to meet them "in the flesh" then I'd say his comment was something he'd heard someone else say and not reflective of his own views. He may never have even come in contact with fake ones before...y'know?
2007-10-01 20:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kidding yourself....fake boobs never look or feel real. But, you did what you did and if your happy with them then that's all that matters. I suggest that you date a man that doesn't care if they are fake or not instead of dating someone that doesn't like fake boobs. Don't put yourself through that. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-10-01 20:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep dating him, and take things slowly. Don't jump in the sack with him, and let him get to know you for who you are. If he notices they're fake and doesn't want to stay with you, find someone else..he's not the guy for you. If you give him time to get to know you, and he likes you for who you are, I doubt he will care. Although he may be angry that he mentioned to you that he hates fake boobs and you didn't tell him. If he does ask you, tell the truth...I'm sure he can tell.
2007-10-01 20:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by Student Doctor House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest with him and let him know, he should like you for you, not your breast. Besides, keeping something so small like that a secret will only make him wonder what else you could be keeping from him. Be proud of your breasts, whether fake or not, they are yours. Besides, sooner or later, the truth will come out and I would rather it come from me, than from anyone else.
2007-10-01 20:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by chante n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend has had "fake" boobs for 25 years and still says they not fake. It really doesn't make any difference, you don't owe him an explanation.
2007-10-01 20:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by LAL 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'll be honest i don't like fake breasts but if i were with a girl and then found out she had fake breasts i wouldn't leave her because of it. ask him why he doesn't like them and then ask if he thinks that way about you and then tell him the truth.
2007-10-01 20:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by FengHuaXueYue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter; guys like big boobs and squishy soft ones. I'm sure he won't notice unless there is a scar over your boobs from plastic surgery(if you had it).
2007-10-02 18:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♦ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this case being a guy dating a girl contemplating getting implants and not being all for it id have to say that really, if he makes that big of a deal about it then maybe hes not worth your time. My gf plans to get them, its her choice whether i want her to or not to and i have to respect that, as he should respect you for making the choice to have them. Really whats the big deal.
2007-10-01 20:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by Justin H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋