Family & Relationships - 1 October 2007

what would you do if your boyfriend or signifigant other told you to talk to your ex's behind their back? I mean is this not concerning? A healthy relationship should be completely open and honest right? If he tells me that does that mean he is doing the same to me? I just don't get it.....

2007-10-01 12:24:04 · 1 answers · asked by KRDB 2 in Singles & Dating

when you have a friend that's a little prettier than you...
and guys you know want to talk to her more than you, when you actually knew that guy for more time than her?
sigh :(

2007-10-01 12:21:55 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Green 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy adores me for over three years. We never have sex because I want to wait until married. I moved to other states last year. He was depressed about our separation. He said, he will wait for us to be together.

In the past year, he wrote over 20 poems about how much he miss, loves, respect, and want to be with me. Although, he hooked up (had sex) with his friend who looks just like me. He said, he does not love her.

Recently, he wants to move on with his life without giving me any explanation---I respect his decision.

I love him very much and want him back in the future, but at the present time, I want to stay on my ground---accomplish my goals, get my education, and stay virgin until married.

Any advice or suggestion? Thank you so much.

P.S. He posted all the poems about us on his my space. He did not delete the poems. His status is still in a relationship. He may still love me. What do you think?

2007-10-01 12:21:10 · 26 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello. I'm in a bit of a situation and I need some answers. My girlfriend recently received an email from an ex. In the email she claimed to still have butterflies for him and how much in love she was with him. I confronted her about this, and she just told me she was saying those things for closure. This isn't the first time something like this has happened. We're engaged now, and I'm questioning the entire relationship because I don't know if she's telling me the truth about the things she said. She tells me I'm the only one she wants to be with, but I've heard that before. Was she just seeking closure, or are there deeper intentions with this? How do I know if she's telling me the truth or telling me lies? Should I end the engagement over this?

2007-10-01 12:19:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can remember things that happened years ago or yesterday, but my husband will swear he didn't see a movie or meet someone or that I said something. Are most men like this?

2007-10-01 12:18:21 · 15 answers · asked by pussycat 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy i havent verbally told him but i wrote him a letter but i keep on having good dreams bout him should i tell him face to face that i want to be more than friends

2007-10-01 12:17:42 · 4 answers · asked by baymama 1 in Singles & Dating

A female friend of mine whom I've gotten to know rather well over the past 3 or 4 months has shared quite a bit about herself to me. She says she feels comfortable talking to me. A while ago she told me she was bi-sexual and not to tell any one which I never will. I'm sort of a private person and don't tell about my life to too many people. My spouse is an addict/alcoholic and we have had many problems but I'm still with her. I've never told this to anyone. My question is since my friend has shared her secrets with me should I share certain things about my life (besides my wife) to her. Thanks guys.

2007-10-01 12:16:45 · 2 answers · asked by Nash M 1 in Friends

i only remember his first name,town, and school we went to. please help

2007-10-01 12:16:40 · 1 answers · asked by candygirl 1 in Friends

my best friends who i am EXTREMELY close to and my ex girlfriend who is close to my friends as well have been all goin out together a few times lately and i havent even been invited at all. Did i mention i am still extremely in love with my ex girlfriend who i dated for a year and 8 months, its been 4 months since we broke up. is this right for my friends to be doin this because it hurts me. i still love my ex and it hurts to see her out and having fun without me and it hurts to know my best friens dont even invite me out with them...its almost like they are chosing her over me. what do i do, cuz this seems totaly wrong to me or is it just no problem at all?

2007-10-01 12:06:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My cousin, who is a year younger than me (he's 24), was at my house last week and told me that if I'm ever bored I should give him a call and come hang out with him and his 4 guy friends. I'm interested in meeting his friends, but I'm a really shy person. What's an activity that I could suggest we do? Going to a movie is good, but then we can't really talk., but maybe with me being so shy, this could work. Any other ideas?

2007-10-01 12:05:35 · 10 answers · asked by sarahb_ca82 1 in Singles & Dating

seven year marriage: after seven year of marriage the couples may renew the marrage license or get divorce.

2007-10-01 12:04:14 · 7 answers · asked by cathe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After the man enters his... you know, how does it feel? I need to know before i have it set in mind to do it with my boyfriend!
I need help from expirenced people! Me and my boyfriend really love eachother! We have been together for 51/2 years I need to know!

2007-10-01 12:00:04 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley G 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so he's 20 and Im 18, he just got out of a 3yr relationship. We hung out like everyday after we went out on a first date. I stayed the night at his house a few time, we didnt do anything I swear, and everything was great. Until one weekend I stayed over there and his roommate told me a lot of things about him, and it made me start thinking maybe he's using me as a fallback or something, his roommate is a girl who likes him alot but he doesnt like her,. But he could tell something was bothering me when he took me home, and we talked about it a few days later, and he said he just needs time cause he still has feelings for his ex, which im fine with I never tried to rush him ao anything, but he didnt talk to me at all after that and i stopped by his house to see his roommate one day, and he didnt say a word to me and when i left i gave him a hug and he said "I'll keep in touch" !!!! Im so confused now. I dunno if he liked me at all or if he was just using me. What do you think???

2007-10-01 11:56:13 · 4 answers · asked by Nobody's Fool 1 in Singles & Dating

he started out just kidding around but after a while he started slapping me around pretty bad to the point where i would have visible bruises. I tried to cut him out of my life but cant stop thinking about him and still have feelings for him. What should i do

2007-10-01 11:55:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i lost one of my friend's necklaces that he lent to me, i had no idea the ring attached to it was a family heirloom, if i had known i wouldn't have even accepted it being lent to me. well the point is that i lost it, i'm afraid to tell him. i've only known him for like a month so i dunno if he will be able to forgive me, if he's a true enough friend yet. you think he'll be so mad he won't speak to me again or worse?

2007-10-01 11:54:16 · 8 answers · asked by A Lonely Kitty__♥ 3 in Friends

ok, to start off, i met this awesome guy and we have so much in common. so we get to know each other and i start to REALLY like him. but then one of my other friends starts to like him, too. so i've been feeling like crap for weeks now, and ive told her about it 3 times, but she apparenlty wasnt listening to a word i said. now she is planning on asking him out and i just wanna die now!! i used to cut myself, and then i stopped for months. but yesterday i started again. i almost tried to drown myself in the bathtub. i really need help, plz talk to me!! and 1 more thing, she interrupts me when i talk to him and when i walk with him she gets in the way which causes me to have to walk behind them. plz help! she's gonna ask him out tonight!! HELP!!!! im not asking to get them to hate each other or something ,just help. tips, advice, on getting him to like me or how to make me feel less like a piece of dirt. plz talk to me.

2007-10-01 11:51:15 · 9 answers · asked by brokenxxliesxx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A young man was killed in a car accident this weekend in my town. He was only 19 years old. He had been drinking. Can you please say a prayer for his family in this tragic situation.

2007-10-01 11:50:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My problem is even though everyone assumes were 2gether, we aren't but i don't know why? Over these three years we've become best friends, and I don't want 2 lose him, but I feel like he shouldn't get boyfriend benefits if he not my boyfriend. What Should I do?

2007-10-01 11:49:33 · 4 answers · asked by Maria L 1 in Singles & Dating

comparing this to say 40-50 yrs ago .where might I find souces of info on this topic? what's your take?

2007-10-01 11:48:27 · 1 answers · asked by bjr4613 1 in Singles & Dating

Well to make a long story short
theres this girl in my 3rd period english class who saw I had manga with me and she asked if I could bring the first volume of one and i said sure ...... but now I'm not sure I'll stay true to it becuase I only see her during science ad I don't really know her

The problem is I don't wanna appear to be a mean person and/or a liar
Should I just simply tell her that "I'm sorry I can't let u borrow it"

2007-10-01 11:48:17 · 3 answers · asked by THFNB F 1 in Friends

How many of you guys absolutely hate girls who play "hard to get" ?

2007-10-01 11:47:49 · 3 answers · asked by Mike M. 7 in Singles & Dating

My friend is pregnant by a man other than her husband. They have since split up. He lives in NC and she has moved back here to MO. He is in the military. She has been told that she cannot get a divorce until after the baby is born since she resides in the state of MO and they got married here. Anybody ever heard of such a thing?

2007-10-01 11:46:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is it illegal for a 16 year old guy and a 20 year old girl to go out when the parents allow it?

2007-10-01 11:45:30 · 11 answers · asked by shibamii 2 in Singles & Dating

To ask should they cheat on there wife

2007-10-01 11:44:51 · 18 answers · asked by marzypan 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I saw him today in the hall quickly and we didn't even notice each other. i wrote him a note last A Day (block schedual) and had someone give it to him.It was just like: hey whatsup? maybe we can hangout again sometime? Stuff like that. An so tommorow is an A Day and I actually will be able to see him, but what if he doesn't say anything? I don't want to bother him! What should I do?

2007-10-01 11:44:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you all know how sometimes your girlfriend will name your dick or you'll name her breasts well she named all my parts so whats a good name for her stuff lol?

2007-10-01 11:41:11 · 1 answers · asked by jerry1282004 1 in Singles & Dating

what actress has the nicest hair & in what movie?

2007-10-01 11:39:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am interested in hearing from couples ( married or simply coupled committed to each other without being formally, legally married ) who have been with each other for @ 10 years or longer, and are still happy, healthy and feel they made the right choice in being and staying together with each other as friends, lovers and spiritual / life companions.
* Both partners feel they are personally & spiritually ( this may or may not include religious beliefs, agnostic, spiritual, or other beliefs for people ) fulfilled and growing to be their best and highest selves while in a committed relationship with each other. And to be making a positive contribution to society as a whole.* Are also best friends with each other.* Believe in and relate with complete honesty and openness in their relationship and communication with themselves and each other.* Both partners choose, and feel honestly aligned for their future together, to be sexually, romantically monogamous with each other, while

2007-10-01 11:37:29 · 7 answers · asked by life 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-01 11:36:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok theres this girl.. i really like her... shes amazing.. were pretty good friends... if you were the girl in this sitiation how would you want me to tell you how i feel and ask you out??? seriously... ive been recently hurt and i dont wanna mess this up... give me your best idea

2007-10-01 11:36:13 · 18 answers · asked by Z 1 in Other - Family & Relationships