ok, to start off, i met this awesome guy and we have so much in common. so we get to know each other and i start to REALLY like him. but then one of my other friends starts to like him, too. so i've been feeling like crap for weeks now, and ive told her about it 3 times, but she apparenlty wasnt listening to a word i said. now she is planning on asking him out and i just wanna die now!! i used to cut myself, and then i stopped for months. but yesterday i started again. i almost tried to drown myself in the bathtub. i really need help, plz talk to me!! and 1 more thing, she interrupts me when i talk to him and when i walk with him she gets in the way which causes me to have to walk behind them. plz help! she's gonna ask him out tonight!! HELP!!!! im not asking to get them to hate each other or something ,just help. tips, advice, on getting him to like me or how to make me feel less like a piece of dirt. plz talk to me.
2007-10-01 11:51:15 · 9 answers · asked by brokenxxliesxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hun, this is NOT the end of the world even if it feels like it. You know, there's only one person on this planet you can count on, that's YOU. Hurting yourself over some guy you hardly know is not the answer. Even if you wind up being his girlfriend, there are no guarantees that tomorrow you will be together - you will still be there. You have to take care of you. Now, about your friend. Why on earth would you allow your friend to rule YOUR life. Go ask the guy out! You made your intentions clear to your friend, it's pretty obvious that she has her own best interests at heart. That's okay. Now you need to have YOUR own best interests at heart. Ask the guy out, stop cutting yourself, it's unlikely that the guy will understand this behavior if he doesn't already know about it, and quite simply, it's unhealthy. Look after yourself!
2007-10-01 11:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lori E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The deal with the cutting is childish of you to do just bc you are not getting what you want. Do you really think that he will like you if he knew about this? So, the first step would be to stop doing the craziness like that. Then you should confront your friend about what she is doing. Explain to her that you feel like she is stepping in your way and she is not doing what friends should do. Instead of fighting over a boy, you should both leave him alone if you really have a good friendship otherwise. She may feel like it is a challenge and she does not want you to outdo her. You should talk to her about it and let her know what she is doing and how it is affecting you. If she is a true friend, then she will back off and let you have him. Since you know that she is going to ask him out, you should just beat her to it. She has not been sensitive to your feelings, so you shouldnt be to hers either. Go for it and ask him before she can get to him. Then if he says yes to you, then she is just out of luck.
2007-10-01 12:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out, tell him if he doesn't have something to do tonight?... it's the only thing I could think off...
Anyway... you meet him first... so you could ask him out... if you're to shy make it by phone... like a more casual conversation and going out...
I know how your feeling... I really don't know how to work it out... I've tried to kill myself with out succes... just long times at the hospital... the best advice I could give you... is that... or you could let someone else love your heart...
And if your not to busy we could chat a while... take care... and cry all the time you need... it helps...
2007-10-01 12:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jarb2104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know this awesome guy has the choices here. Just don't take it personally. Find another friend and just suck it up. You have so many good years ahead of you so, just be thankful for all the wonderful things you have and don't let it get you down. No one and nothing is worth getting this upset over.
Good luck and God Bless
2007-10-01 12:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jan C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are cutting yourself, you need to talk to a counselor. You are putting way too much importance on this one boy. You need help learning to put things in perspective and get so worked up about things that are not that important. I realize this is upsetting right now, but believe me there will be other boys. You need to work on your issues right now and dating is not going to help that.
2007-10-01 12:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 14:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by kerper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoudn't cut yourself.If you do,it wont solve your problems.They will still be there.Cutting your self is not a solution to life.Talk to your friend ,obviously she likes him too.You'll just have to work a little harder.Hey,maybe he likes you too.Go ask him out before your friend does.
2007-10-01 12:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by sixthstring 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your kinda scarey "single white female!" syndrome
2007-10-01 11:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by hyde y 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
muahhhh
2007-10-01 11:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋