my best friends who i am EXTREMELY close to and my ex girlfriend who is close to my friends as well have been all goin out together a few times lately and i havent even been invited at all. Did i mention i am still extremely in love with my ex girlfriend who i dated for a year and 8 months, its been 4 months since we broke up. is this right for my friends to be doin this because it hurts me. i still love my ex and it hurts to see her out and having fun without me and it hurts to know my best friens dont even invite me out with them...its almost like they are chosing her over me. what do i do, cuz this seems totaly wrong to me or is it just no problem at all?
2007-10-01 12:06:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your not that close as friends, sorry, I know. See when you do it right, HE IS CLOSE ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH HE IS HURTING YOU, AND HE IS RESPECTFUL ENOUGH, CARES ENOUGH, IS CLOSE ENOUGH, TO KNOW THAT, THATS A BIG, BIG, BIG NO NO NO!!!!! Sorry to yell but thats a transgression, thats disrepectful, thats why people don't know what good friends is. I don't care how close they are, I don't care how sweet her virgina is, how much money she's got or how good of a person she is. A BRO, A FRIEND, SHOULD NEVER SLEEP WITH AN EX!!!! NEVER!!! I had 4 homeboyz and we manage to make it thru are juniour high, highschool, and colleage without sleeping with each others ex's. Trust we did have distintions(is she was labeled as a slut/whore/easy all was fair). But if there was ever love envolved no one could ever touch her, EVER!!! NEVER EVER!!! SO I say, he screwed you, he disrepected you, he dissed you, he wasn't a friend, he batraed you. Use this as an example later in life of what you not willing to tolerate, because homie, that was wrong....
2007-10-02 04:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋